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vaginal tears?
i'm 15, female, and sexually active. i've had 15 partners so far and get tested for stds every three months. so far its all been negative.
i am very tiny my current boyfriend however is about nine inches and thick as a can of silly string just about...when we first started it would always hurt at first but only when we first put it in but not too long ago he tried going in really deep and it hurt like i was losing my virginity all over again...the next day i went to pee and it stung and there was blood spots so i got a mirror and theres a tear right below my vagina...the skin around it is very irritated and ive been getting frequent yeast infections [which i am alergic to yeast so yay for me] like once a week...it burns and itches and ive been tested recently and its all negative, i got some ointment for external use from my gyn but it only helps for the first hour or so after wards
what do i do??
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You're 15.
One of the reasons its generally not a good idea to have sex at your age (especially as much sex as you've been having) is that you aren't physically fully developed yet.
Also, he is far above average if your description of him is actually accurate. Alot of women just aren't built for a guy that size.
What do you do? Close your legs.
Seriously, you've got some fucked up priorities, and 15 partners at 15 is seriously bad. I sometimes reserve judgment, because my number is relatively high as well, but 15 at your age... you need to stop having sex and seriously reevaluate your standards. Because yeah, you've been lucky so far. At this rate, you won't be lucky forever.
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you're fifteen and you've had twice as many partners as I've had at 23; lets address the first BIG RED FLAG on the blotter.
please tell me you're using condoms, that std test schedule is literally as rigerous as the prostitutes here in germany.
on to your actual question, judging by the pain and other symptoms, I'd say you should take a break from the sex for a while. the vaginal wall isn't strong by any measure, its not like you can shove a football in there and it'll stretch indefinitely like Mister Fantastic Vagina. the skin's breaking. stop having sex for a while and make sure whatever goes in there is going to be clean and considerate. emphasis on CLEAN.
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You need to stop having sex. I know that sounds harsh, but it's the only way you are going to heal and for the yeast infections to stop.
I'm sure you've heard this already, but it is the way it is. You are too young to be having sex. Your body is not ready for this and is finally rebelling. The friction that is caused by sex is messing with the ph balance in your vagina. With ph balance out of balance, you get yeast infections.
So, no sex, and keep using the cream your obgyn gave you.
Hope this helps.
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Ok if you have an yeast infections and if you are sleeping with him dosnt matter if you use protection if he goes down on you you can give him yeast infection in his mounth or the other way if you dont use any protection and you keep treating yourself for it and it keeps on coming back its because he has it to you have to talk to your doctor about that he needs to take pills for it if not u will always keep on having it. both of you need to take pills for the yeast infection and you the ointment 2 guys dont know when they get it nothing happen it what happens to us it happen to me thats what i had to do
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