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New relationship, old issues?
Posted Monday November 12 2012, 5:28 pm
I've been seeing a new guy for about 3 weeks and we recently decided to make the relationship exclusive. I usually don't move that fast, but I feel a strong connection to him and we seem to be very compatible.
Here's the thing: I cheated in my last relationship. We were apart for the last year of an almost 7 year relationship, and it was during that time that I cheated. I was a mess at the time, had serious commitment issues, had some major life changes coming up that I didn't know how to deal with, was afraid that I wouldn't be able to face these new challenges, and lost myself and my morals completely. None of these justifies what I did, but that was my state of mind. I screwed up, big time. The past year I've stayed singl...
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Its all over: I challenge God to use any one of you to show ONE sign I shouldn't kill myself!
Posted Monday November 12 2012, 4:30 pm
I've seen everyone I ever cared about vanish away. I've got my heartbreake plenty of times. This time God will not have enough time to save his troubled Human. It's all to late, I dont have time to wait for a reply. If he really exsist he will show me something at the railway station. We will see my dear friend if he really cares about everyone. You are my proof I challenged him to just show me a TINY FUCKING BIT OF SIGN WHY I SHOULDN'T END IT.
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My Crush Is Moving To Cali!!
Posted Monday November 12 2012, 3:59 pm
So heres the thing.... my crush is moving to Cali after winter break. My friends think that he likes me. When I first heard it i was like "um ok?" but after my birthday party and spending time with him I just started liking him. There were moments where i just didnt know what to do. Our time is shortening and i want to tell him but im just to big of a wimp to do it. My friend attempted asking him and he just said "She's my bestfriend" she said that she saw it in his eyes that he was lying.... What should i do?
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he hasnt texted me back and i'm worried...do you think i'm over reacting?
Posted Monday November 12 2012, 9:59 am
i was texting my boyfriend last night, and he texted me so i texting him back, and after i texted him back...he didnt text me back for an hour...i waited and waited but i fell asleep. he texted my bestfriend shortly after(shes our wingwomen) and told her that i was ignoring him, when really i was just asleep, i woke up with 6 new text messages and 2 missed calls, i told him this morning that i wasnt ignoring him and that i fell asleep...he hasnt texted me back and i'm worried...do you think i'm over reacting?
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how to get someone intrested in me
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 11:39 pm
i need to know how to get someone interested there is two guys i like and want them to like me back but how ?
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What should I think when he doesnt respond to my message?
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 7:08 pm
There is this guy I like so I messaged him on facebook trying to start a conversation with him but he never responded but i know he saw the message because facebook has this thing where it shows that the person saw your message and it showed you the time they saw it then the next day he updates his status but he still didnt respond to my message. Should I take it that he doesnt like me? And if he doesnt like me then why when hes around me either acts creepy always staring at me or is sometimes friendly and talks to me? I thought it was because he liked me maybe I'm wrong what do you think?
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have a worrying problem and its getting in the way of my relationship
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 4:40 pm
I am 19 female and i have a boyfriend of a year and 3 months. i have always seemed to mention things like "you wouldnt ever cheat on me right?" and a bunch of other annoying things. he has yet to prove me wrong, so i dont know why i keep on feeling this way. i am constantly worrying and wondering what he is doing when we arent togethor. one of the reasons i think i am like this is because i know he loves to have sex with me a lot and is a very horny kind of guy so it makes me extremely nervous that when we dont see eachother for a couple of days, he will do something behind my back. i know he loves me and truly does care for me and wants to see me happy and cant stand to see me upset. so part of me thinks he wouldnt do such a thin...
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He said he loved me. so i said it back...
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 2:56 pm
13/f
Soo, me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 2 weeks now. And he said he loved me. so i said it back...and i mean it,he said it to me first. And i know he means it. but theres a girl. she is crazy obsessed with him. and shes making up rumors about me, and saying that he shouldnt be wiff me. And that shes gonna fight me for him. i took boxing for 3 years now, and i still box...but i dont like using boxing for defense, its just my passion...and it feels like shes breaking us apart...what do i do? And how do i get her to stop?
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Give up and move on or pursue him?
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 2:39 pm
So I met this guy when I was out one night about a month and a half ago. I was pretty drunk, but we got on really, really well and I remember thinking he was really good looking and sweet, which is quite a big deal, because i'm pretty picky. Before he had to go he gave me his number, and told me to text him, and kissed me. A couple of days after I decided to text him, and got no reply. I was a bit disappointed, but pretty much forgot about it after a couple of weeks, what with my busy school schedule. Then out of the blue I got a reply from him, about three weeks after I had initially text him, and he apologized and said that his phone had been broken and he'd only just got it fixed, which I guess could have made sense as he didn't have a p...
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Hickey
Posted Sunday November 11 2012, 1:41 pm
How do you get rid of a hickey fast?
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29 year old boyfriend
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 1:51 pm
I'm 16 and I'm a female my boyfriend just turned 29 and we have been together almost 7 month on the 18th and we are both Christians so we believe and agree that we shouldnt have sex til we are married but my friends hate him because he is white and is 29 they try to tear us apart and sometimes they tell me that its Either them that I let go of or my boyfriend but I don't know what to do?! By the way my boyfriend promised me and my mother that he isn't in this relationship to get in my pants that he wants to wait until marriage... what do I do? How do I keep them both?!
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So I kinda said I want to have sex... :)
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 1:01 pm
Well my name is Allison 13/f and I told this guy Jordan 15 that I would want to have sex. He has already told me he wants to. Well we have already been having to sneek around because we are not supposed to be together. Well, we have been because we are both in a play. So, he keeps telling me that we have to figure out where we can have sex. But I can never meet him anywhere because my dad doesn't let me do anything. Anyway I think when I see him today we are going to make out and stuff. But was it right to tell him that back? I don't feel bad though.
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Doing it with hhim again....
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 12:53 pm
Well my name is Allison 13/f and there is this guy named Hunter 13/m. Well we dated before and we always met in the band room at our school because no one is down there. As you can imagine we did things. I started feeling like he just used me for my body. I asked him if it was true and he said no that he loved me for me. Well, we broke up and he started dating one of my good friends. But he asked me to be friends with benefit and I told him I guess. But then it confirmed that I thought he was using me. But they broke up. Well yesterday we both ended up in the band room. He asked me if I would do things and I told him no because he hasn't been talking to me. He told me he would start so I said we would do things on Monday if he did. So, do you think I did the right thing? :)
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What does this guy want out of me or this relationship?
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 12:15 pm
15/f hes 15/m im a capricorn and hes a taurus if that means anything but it helps me. im going to try to make this as short as possible. anyway this guy i've been talking to for about a month we have a lot of classes together and we talk and text alot i feel like i've been best friends with him my whole life. we started talking and we found out that we are physically each others types and we wouldnt mind hooking up and being friends, since we already are, kinda like a friends with benefits thing. but then when we were gonna hang out and hook up, he suddenly couldnt so we were gonna hang out that week, so i was like ok (this was about a month ago) but i never got his text to hangout so then that day he told me over text that he likes me and ...
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How do I keep my cool?
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 11:29 am
I think I have feelings for my friend. We've only known each other for 3 months, but we've become pretty close since then. My issue is keeping my cool around him when we're out. I always either avoid him completely or act standoffish. He's a flirt and that bothers me which I really wish it didn't! I need to learn how to just go out and have fun and enjoy myself without constantly looking over to see who he's flirting with or what he's doing. I feel like I turn into a crazy person when I like someone and that's not what I want to be nor my intentions at all. Thanks.
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I get lead on way too much
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 9:53 am
It seems to me like ilI get lead on a lot. A couple of months ago a guy asked me out on a date 3 times and bailed on all three. He then randomly stopped talking to me and talked to another girl. Recently this guy told me friend I was cute and asked what I thought. Last week we all hung out and we talked about past relationships and he said that being the nice guy never worked. He said he always got hurt. So I told him to be the "middle man". He later on told me he thought he was my "middle man". We are suppose to hang out again today but I found out he went on a date with a girl yesterday. I am beyond mad, I don't think I can look at him without being pissed. This seems to happen to me so often and I don't understand why...
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am I overreacting?
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 9:07 am
My boyfriend went to a party last weekend and I stayed home under the impression that it was a boys night. Well last night I got nosy and looked through his phone. Come to find out I was invited and he told his friend that he was leaving me at home because I was a party pooper. When his friend asked how he proceeded to tell him that I don't drink, I don't know how to socialize, and that I would just cling to him all night and he didn't need all that shit. My feelings are extremely hurt. He has never even been to a party with me and I am one of the most sociable and independent people. I'm confused as to why he feels this way about me. We have only been together for three months. It is not serious on my end yet but he has made it clear that ...
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Long Distance Song Playlist
Posted Saturday November 10 2012, 1:48 am
I'm in a very serious long distance relationship and it's at the point where a trip doesn't fit in either of our schedules for a very long time...55 days.
I love him so much, but I feel sad and anxious a lot...
I was wondering if anyone had any songs that are helpful or calming for situations like this?
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Does it seem like he likes me back?
Posted Friday November 9 2012, 10:25 pm
12F, Okay so theres this guy at my school and i like his personality A LOT and hes really cute right so today we had a silent dismisal for this thing going on at my school. The busses had beeen late and we were talking and tazzering (like tickling) each other and then i go to give him a high five with both hands and he grabbs them and huggs me and touched my ass he has done this before. He had also been play fighting with me and grabbed my leg and was walking around playing with me not in a sexuall way.
P.S.he is 13.
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I like someone who will never like me back =/
Posted Friday November 9 2012, 6:38 pm
ALrighty well Im 13/f and I have had 2 boyfriend before but all I ever did with them and I layed the barriers was we kissed and thats it. Nothing further. I have liked this guy who we can call Sam since the beginning of the summer (he is 12/m). We flirted and talked all summer and on August 19th, we admitted to each other that we liked each other more than a friend. The next day, I left for my cottage. I got no reception up north so I had to due with not talking to him for a week. When I got back from my cottage, he started ignoring me. Im not sure what happened. It was as if I didnt exist or was invisible or something =/ I really started to like him more and more each day. I reread all of our old conversations from the summer and cried mys...
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