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What should I think when he doesnt respond to my message?
There is this guy I like so I messaged him on facebook trying to start a conversation with him but he never responded but i know he saw the message because facebook has this thing where it shows that the person saw your message and it showed you the time they saw it then the next day he updates his status but he still didnt respond to my message. Should I take it that he doesnt like me? And if he doesnt like me then why when hes around me either acts creepy always staring at me or is sometimes friendly and talks to me? I thought it was because he liked me maybe I'm wrong what do you think?
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Well as I only know one half of the story I will give my two cents
If I had written a message to someone and got no reply back within a week I would probably start to think they just weren't interested. Does this guy know you? If someone I did not know sent me a message then its very likely I would not respond. How well do you know him? Maybe this guy has an interest in someone else? Does he have a girlfriend? Maybe he has someone he is talking too. Its hard to say but seeing he has read the message and didn't respond I would probably just move on and leave it at that. Next time I would maybe try talking to someone you know. Not many people reply to messages from strangers.
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I hate that you can now see when someone has read a message on facebook! because more often than not it causes a lot of panic, for no reason. Guys are strange, it's hard to say why he didn't reply to your message, maybe he was planning on replying, but didn't want to seem keen and then simply forgot, or he may just not be interested in you in that way. The way he acts with you in person, may just be due to the fact that he is a flirty person, next time you are with him in a group, maybe look out for how he acts with other girls, is it similar to the way in which he acts with you? One solid piece of advise I can give you with confidence, is do not message him again if he doesn't reply, and if he does reply, leave it a little bit before you respond again, do not reply straight away, as guys do not like desperate girls. Also when you next see him in person, don't act different to how you normally would, and don't bring up the message, just act calm and collected, and see where things go from there :)
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