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lynn
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 5:06 pm
There is a girl i like and i'm so in love but she has a boyfriend. What i need to do?
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Him and Me (long)
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 5:05 pm
I don't know exactly is going on. I'm definatly overwhelmed.
First of all, I'm (female) 16.. he's 15. We've been going out for almost a month and a half. When we first started going out, it was kind of rocky. I felt neglected, but he did change after a week of dating. Then when it seemed like things were seriously turning around.. he gets kicked out of his house. Now he lives across the state. His phone got turned off and I haven't seen him since he moved unannounced.
So I can't see, hear, or touch him. So I'm basically going out with thin air, and I'm MISERABLE. Sure we IM eachother just about every day.. but that is pathetic. He is worth my time, but I don't know if I can manage dating someone who is slowly becoming a st...
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is this normal
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 4:53 pm
Hey! Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 1 month ago. And since then I have moved on to sometime else that is wayy better for me. But I feel like something is holding me back from loving him. Could this be because I sill am not over my ex boyfriend? What should I do?? Thanks for the advice<33
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Ballgame in 1 hour! Any Ideas!
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 4:38 pm
hiya!
Would I look stupid shouting for our basketball team and my ex boyfriend (which I am in love with) is going to be there. How would I go about talking to him without looking weird? No Smarties please. Thankyou Bunchez
-GreeDayLovur
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to all the divorcees out there...
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 3:04 pm
I would love to see what people who have actually gone through divorces have learned about life in the process. I've never had the courage to ask anyone I know personally about the intimate details that led to the deterioration of their marriage. I want to know: What did you think that love was when you entered into your first marriage? What do you think of it now? Was the marriage ended because of a specific event (i.e. abuse, adultery...) or simply because your feelings faded? In retrospect, did you have any doubts about your relationship before you decided to marry? What advice would you give someone who would like to prevent their relationship from meeting the same fate?
I'd like to know as much detail as possible. Thanks.
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drinking bad?
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 2:45 pm
uh, i live a far ways away from my boy freind (juss temp.) and he does not like me drinking. he said that if i want to i can he wont control me, but he doesnt like it. well, about 2 weeks ago i was drinking with my room mate. She and i only had 2 drinks each and no one else was home. so i dont see it as a problem. but the next weekend her boyfreind and 2 of his freinds came over. Now, they are in their late 20's early 30's, and we are 18 and 19. We all got drunk that night...and i know i didn't do anyhting cuz i kept saying i was not gonna betray my boyfreinds trust. my freind even told me i did nothing...she was the least drunk of all of us. she said i kept yeling at them everytime they asked me to dance for them. my question is...did i be...
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did he do it out of curiousity
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 11:20 am
i went for a drink with a nice looking 27 guy,well i thought we got on great, talked for 2hrs before i had to go home/ he has my moblie number, but he hardly texts me now, since sunday, i was wondering how do i know for sure that he likes me& wants a relationship with me ??
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I really like this guy but so did my friend!! Please Help!!
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 10:25 am
ok...I went out with this one guy for about a year and we've been broke up for a few months now and im starting to fall for his friend...well him and my bestfriend started talking but they didnt like eachother that much they talked for about a week and then he told her that he wanted to play the field awhile or whatever and now i've been talkin to him on aim and like hes really sweet and he wanted to know when we was gone hook up or whatever and he swore to me he wouldnt do me wrong and all that stuff and hes really sweet and i think im fallin for him...but my ex doesnt really approve but hes startin 2 come around but my bestfriend didnt like it at first but now shes tellin me to go for it and stuff and then she talks bad about me behind my...
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Trust
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 9:29 am
Well I've been dating this guy for almost 9months and he still doesn't trust me! I've never cheated on him or gave him a right to not trust me,I just lost my viginity to him and he lost his to me..and he told me he trusted me 200%. Then this guy friend of mine wrote me a note, and he was like let me read it and I was like why dont you trust me cuz I had told him what it said ...he says he trusts me but apparently not if he has to read the note...now he's telling me that the guy was hitting on me and stuff but all he asked was why we don't hang out anymore because we were friends way before I started dating my bf. How can I get him to trust me like I trust him???
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Why did I let him use me?
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 6:54 am
I met this guy, and I had a one night stand with him. I am 19 and he is 23. The problem is, I did not want to have sex at all. I just wanted to kiss, but he kept pressuring me to go further and further, and I eventually gave in to everything.
While we were having sex, it hurt so much. I was crying and telling him to stop but he kept going. I tried shoving him away but he didn't stop. I could have probably easily punched him in the face and made him stop, but for some reason, I didn't. I lied and told him it was hurting because I had been raped as a last attempt to get him to stop. He still didn't, and I eventually just sucked it up and let him finish.
Throughout the whole ordeal, he said some pretty mea...
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Age difference
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 1:47 am
Is it possible to fall in love with someone if you're not attracted to them pysically?
I have feelings for an older man (he's 45 and I'm 26). He isn't very good looking, he is overweight and has grey hair.
He is really nice to me though and we get along and have a lot in common.
Most younger guys that are cute don't make me feel the way he does.
Should I go for him or just stay with guys that are closer to my age?
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WHICH OF THESE BOYS SHOULD I ASK TO WINTER FORMAL?
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 1:31 am
Which of these boys should I ask to my winter formal? I go to an all girls school, so for the winter formal, all the girls have to ask the guys. Vote who you think I should ask:
guy 1: Pretty much my best guyfriend. Hang out with often. Am comfortable with. Nice, friendly, social, and a bit geeky. He's a dork. Mama's boy. Boy next door. Not a great dancer. Haha. Currently has a crush on me that I just found out about from my friend.
guy 2: Older than me by two grades. Friendly, but speaks really quietly. Has recently asked me out to see a show with him but I couldn't go. A bit boring to talk to on the phone. Sweet and laid back. Can actually dance. Never hang out with him in person.
guy 3: My pe...
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What is the value of experience?
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 12:44 am
I'm about to turn 21, and I've been with my first and only boyfriend for about a year and a half. He adores me and I believe that if we were to stay together he would love me until he dies. Unfortunately, I am not so secure in my feelings.
There are some down sides to the relationship:
A) I am a dedicated student while he seems to have little ambition. He dropped out of college and works at a fast food place.
B)Because I'm in college we are living in two different cities.
C) He is extremely insecure. He gets unreasonably angry with me when he knows I've spoken to another guy. He has also told me that if we ever break up he would be too upset to want to get back together.
D) ...
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hey
Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 12:23 am
ok i really like this guy and he always is being sweet and stuff and always asks to play the question game so he can ask me questions and i have to answer them too and he tells me i am so gorgeous and he is just ginuinly the nicest guy i have ever met and hes cute... and i know hes not just using me for sex and stuff because he believes in abstinance but eh only catch to him is that he has a girl friend but he like asks me questions that you dotn ask a girl you dotn really ike and stuff and so i play along is that wrong... and should i wait for them to break up... pleas help if youcan
love lacy
i rate people
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Posted Monday November 14 2005, 11:38 pm
Ok so i asked a question a few weeks ago about doing something with a rose for Xmas for my girlfriend and i got alot of positive feedback about it.. you might of read it.. had to do with a glass rose? well if not i decided to change it up a bit, tell me how you(a girl) would feel if your boyfriend did something like this for Xmas::
Along with your other presents, brough over a vace we 11 roses in it, and one glass rose, making a dozen roses total. And put a card in there that says, "I will stop loving you when the last rose dies." (for all the not-so-smart girls out there, 'a glass rose wont ever die') Sooo how would you like it? yes? no? maybe?
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am i?
Posted Monday November 14 2005, 11:02 pm
okay i want to know, how do you know when your in love? ive likes this guy from the first time ive met him. we never talked. but i mean.. well we kinda did. but it was more with staring and talking through people. and its been 5 months since ive last seen him. but ive liked him for 7 months.. and i dono i just feel this thing with him thats un-explainable. (im 15/f by the way)
but would u say i could be in love? and what do you think love is?
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Posted Monday November 14 2005, 10:34 pm
I really like this guy. my friends think he likes me but i dunno. yeah he does flirt with me A LOT. but i think he flirts with everyone i'm not sure. he's really outgoing with a lot of friends and stuff. we hang out sometimes. what are some things i could say or ways to flirt with him to show him I like him without being 'easy'?
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Posted Monday November 14 2005, 10:29 pm
I've never really had a boyfriend (got close once, the sparks where there but then nothing)
This particular boy is now in the army rangers and is coming home for Thanksgiving. I haven't seen this boy in over 3 years. The last time I did see him I was convinced I was in love with him and still sort of am. I've lost faith and respect for this boy with the lack of communication. My question is should I try to find out if he still even remembers who I am and find out how he feels or should I just leave it as it is now, young love that never had a chance.
Signed,
Faithless
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What to say?
Posted Monday November 14 2005, 10:11 pm
Well, I started going out with this girl since Friday, right? I really like her, and she really likes me, but I can't seem to know what to say because I'm sitting at her table with all of her friends at lunch now. I can't really relate to her friends, girls OR guys. Today was the first day I sat at her table though, and I held her in my arms during lunch after we ate our food. I didn't speak much to anyone, even my girlfriend. I said I was sorry I didn't talk today too much because I was tired. Any suggestions on what I should do? I'm sort of a video gamer, and she and her friends aren't, so I'm not sure what to say to her sometimes at lunch or to her friends. Please, any suggestions on what to say, do when I'm around her, and say around he...
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should i?
Posted Monday November 14 2005, 9:55 pm
** = state 1
* = state 2
ohk for the last 4 years i lived in ** but then i moved to * when i moved the only thing i wanted was to go back to **. the only reason i wanted to go back is cause the love of my life is there and i really miss him but ever since i left he hasnt talked to me but like 3 times in like 6months its so sad and i nedd him to live seriously. but hes not there and another reason is all my friends yea we were awesome friends but when i left ive only talked to 2 of them and thats. only a little bit. like maybe ill be going back in a year im wondering do i really have a reason to go back? i don't really have my lover anymore and he was the most important person in my life he was always there for me and ...
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