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Him and Me (long)
I don't know exactly is going on. I'm definatly overwhelmed.
First of all, I'm (female) 16.. he's 15. We've been going out for almost a month and a half. When we first started going out, it was kind of rocky. I felt neglected, but he did change after a week of dating. Then when it seemed like things were seriously turning around.. he gets kicked out of his house. Now he lives across the state. His phone got turned off and I haven't seen him since he moved unannounced.
So I can't see, hear, or touch him. So I'm basically going out with thin air, and I'm MISERABLE. Sure we IM eachother just about every day.. but that is pathetic. He is worth my time, but I don't know if I can manage dating someone who is slowly becoming a stranger to me. He like me a lot more than I like him.. and the move devastated him.
I'm not sure how he'll take it if I do break up with him. If I do break up with him.. it will be to his face. I have enough respect for him to do that to his face. He might be around town this weekend. =|
I do like him, he likes me back. He treats me well, and sometimes it seems like we're made for eachother. He MIGHT move back, but I don't know. I hate this so much!
I guess my question is, should I end it.. or stick it out?
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long distances will either make or break a relationship. i know it's hard to be apart from someone you care about, but you also need to be happy in a relationship. talk openly with him about how hard it is for you to have so much distance between you. you're right... talking online is not at all the same as holding someone or seeing their face. it may hurt at first to break it off, but it's always best to do what makes you happy even if it's hard. good luck with it all!
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tell him exactly what you wrote to us.
"[listen, i like you but]I can't see, hear, or touch [you]. So [it's like] I'm basically going out with thin air, and I'm MISERABLE. Sure we IM eachother just about every day.. but that is pathetic. [you are] worth my time, but I don't know if I can manage dating someone who is slowly becoming a stranger to me."
by his response, he will be able to help you make your dession.
im sure this isnt quite the answer you were looking for, but IMO, if the feelings are mutual, and *if you think things can get better*, stick it out..but if there is an understanding, maybe you can have "a deal" that if he moves back and the feelings are still there, you can give it another shot.
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