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Trust
Well I've been dating this guy for almost 9months and he still doesn't trust me! I've never cheated on him or gave him a right to not trust me,I just lost my viginity to him and he lost his to me..and he told me he trusted me 200%. Then this guy friend of mine wrote me a note, and he was like let me read it and I was like why dont you trust me cuz I had told him what it said ...he says he trusts me but apparently not if he has to read the note...now he's telling me that the guy was hitting on me and stuff but all he asked was why we don't hang out anymore because we were friends way before I started dating my bf. How can I get him to trust me like I trust him???
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Some people take more time to build up trust for others. Maybe he has been cheated on by someone he really cared about before, so now its a bit difficult for him to trust. The note thing could be paranoia (sp?) because of, like i mentioned, being cheated on before. I'm thinking that if he lost his virginity to you, he must really care about you. Hope I helped.
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if you have nothing to hide, just let him read the note. yes, he should just trust you, but put yourself in his place. if you saw some girl pass him a note that he wouldn't let you read, i'm sure you'd be very curious as to seeing exactly what it said. it's a simple fix.
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