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the guy..
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 4:42 pm
there is this guy in 9th grade that i think is really hott..and im only in the 7th. and we kno each other..and talk and stuff..but just not that well, and he knos i think he is hott..but, he said wen im in 9th grade he'll think about goin out wit me. which is okay..that doesnt bother me..but im really starting to like him and i have a b/f..and my b/f always asks me if i like anyone else, and we are truthful to each other so i tell him i like the 9th grader..and hes like wat? hes barley in high school..so he acts weird about it or w/e wen i tell him..and i fell like i can only tell the 9th grader stuff..and not any of my friends..because they might take it weird..so..idk..im just confused..is this normal or w/e??- -sry it sounds so retarted..i rate..please help!
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more guy problems..
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 4:30 pm
In case it matters, I'm 15/f.
So, lately I've had alot of guy problems going on. I'll start with my ex-boyfriend, Brett. We were together for 5 months, and what I have for him will probably never go away. We've been broken up for almost two months and he already has a new girlfriend. I know 5 months isn't very long, but it was my longest relationship and I think that may be part of the reason why I have so many strong feelings for him. I've tried moving on, and for awhile, I was talking to this guy named Alex. We've hung out pretty much everyday for a month. A few days ago, he was at my house and we were watching a movie and we kind of got "in the moment", I guess you could say, and we had sex. There was this other ...
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I love him, but he's leaving. What do i do?!
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 4:04 pm
OK, My best friend Melissa (yeah, that's right lol) introduced me to her cousin, Nate who turned out to be a GREAT guy. And then on my birthday, Nate asked me out! So we've been going out, and just recently he came to visit Melissa for Christmas (he lives in Indiana, and i live in Pennsylvannia), and he's still in town. Infact, he was supposted to come over today with Melissa. Now, Tuesday in the morning he's leaving. And i'm really sad, because i LOVE this kid. I have NEVER felt like this. I'm in love, i think! And he has to go back, but i've been thinking about it, and my dad knows alot of people in Indiana, and maybe we could go visit? maybe he could come down more, but i dont know how to ask his parents you know? Cause Nate said the nex...
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This Sucks.
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 4:02 pm
The only boy Id ever want to be with is like eight hours away. I want him. I dont think i could live if I didnt at least talk to him. I called him last night. His voice is magical. Sooo cute. Hes completly gorgeous. And hes so nice. Why cant more guys be just like him ? Its not fair. When I talked to him I hung up right away. But I couldnt help it. Just the sound of his voice left me totally speechless. So you think fourteens to young to be in love ? You think just becasue were so far apart its not love ? You think wrong. He told me he loved me. I believe him. Hes not the kind of person who would just say that to anybody. UGH ! HES SO GODDAMN CUTE ! I hate this year. He is absolutley ah-mazing. Hes friends with my friends cousin. Unfortunat...
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?????
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 3:38 pm
Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month now. Well we're not very close and there are certain things i want him to do but i dont know how to tell him. Everyone says i should just tell him or whatever, but i dont want to. And i can't really hint at him because hes kind of oblivious sometimes lol. And im like not in his profile and when he signs on or i sign on im always the one to IM him. What should i do? How do i get the word across to him of what i want him to do? I just want him to you know hug me and you know...lol just be close with me. Yeah i know that sounds retarded. So I'll rate really high for good answers thanks soo much for your help ♥
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Love of goodness.
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 3:35 pm
Im 12 && Female.
My boy friend is 13. Me and Him have been dating for 2 years. We've had the best relationship ever. He doesnt get Jealous easily, I dont either. We buy gifts all the time, and Hang out alot. We "study" together. We've only gone as far as making out.. But a few days ago on the phone, he said he wanted to go a step further, but I told him, Im too young && not ready for that. He told me, if i wanted to be with him any longer I'd do it. Then i hung the phone up on him. i dont want to do it. Im not going to, But i feel so empty inside, Its crazy. I never heard him talk to me like that. We havent talked for 2 days. I dont know if i should call him, Im scard to call.
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age is nothing but a number.. right?
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 3:30 pm
Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
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Jealous? (sorry its sorta long)
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 2:36 pm
Okay so yesterday I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go to the movies with me on Monday. He said he didnt know. Well, I should fill you in on the background. Every since we have been going out and before there's been this girl he met this last summer on a cruise. She always leaves him comments about how much she misses him and she's constantly talking to him and leaving really weird comments. Yesterday I looked at her away message and it said "*my boyfriends name*-Call me." But anyways Back to the movies..lol. So I asked him to go to the movies and he said maybe. So then today I was like "Are you coming?" and he said he didnt know it depended on whether or not his friend (the girl from the cruise) could do something si...
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illicit age gap
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 12:23 pm
Hello all, first time advice-seeker here. I stumbled upon this site by accident but i'm glad i did. My problem is thus: I cannot seem to get my law professor out of my head. He is a regular, unmarried 36yr old, who is popular with students for his quirky humour. I have gone to see him on one occasion to do with his postgrad course, in which i am genuinely interested. I felt a slight tension between us. I find him unconventionally attractive. I have heard rumours that he has had an affair with a student in the past, which, perhaps wrongly, gives me hope.I am a 19yr old female who guards her feelings carefully, yet i have never really felt so strongly about someone before. I want this mental distraction to either go away (though i fear that w...
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dump or not?
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 11:42 am
OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 11:41 am
If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken?
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should I dump?
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 11:40 am
OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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Should I end this long distance relationship?
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 5:17 am
I have a long distance relationship with my bf. He had to move away for a job in an oil rig camp. He can't email me because his internet hasnt been connected yet. So the only way we can contact each other is by phone.
Well since he moved 2 months ago he hasn't phoned me once. I phoned him on Xmas day(I just happened to catch him on his break) and he was being pleasant and said he'd phone me on New Years Eve. I never got a call. I know he works crazy hours and probably can't get a hold of me. I also work but only part time.
He told me also to never phone him before 6. He has a cell phone.
I'm getting really sick of this whole long distance thing. I also think he should be phoning me more than say, once every 2 mon...
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Am I being selfish for wanting to stay single?
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 4:04 am
I'm a 27 year old female.For the first time in a long while I'm actually happy to be single. I have my own appartment and a part time job, and was thinking that if I was dating someone I probably couldnt affort to have all the nice things like movies, cd's, and nice furniture, because I would be spending it on my bf. I was also thinking how nice it is not to have the responsiblility of looking after children. A lot of the ladies I work with at the store have kids and they are always so stressed out. I have it made- I only answer to myself and can come and go as I please. The money I make is spent on myself and doesnt go to pay for anyone else.
I am selfish for feeling like this? And is it just I phase? I want to have a family SOMEDAY, just not now. I'm having too much fun!!
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girls
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 2:47 am
ok well ive liked this gurl ever since iv known her, 4th grade, and i used to try an make her laugh to like me, well now were older, im 13 adn so is she, so yah i mean at this age we have alot of emotions and dk about things, but we went out over the summer adn had our first kiss.. but she left me the next week for a guy she supposably 'loved' but now thinks is a fag, and well then after a while we both saw other people, my g/f broke up with me a few months ago, for total confusin, and the gurl ive known since 4th grade , just broke up wiht her b/f lets say a wekk or so ago i dk soon lol, wel before she broke up wiht her b/f she said she had feelings for me, and she couldnt choose who, and then she told me she had ben lying baout her b/f t...
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i donno
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 2:40 am
ok when my grade started i saw this guy named tuckermen and i thought that i was head over heels for him but my friend feels the same all about him and i felt like im competing for him .
and about 2 months ago i found out that he didnt like me only like a kinda friend and i was ok with that and i stop flirting with him everything i cut off all feelings for him.but now i donno i have now started flurting wiht him but i cant help that i do that with every guy now .and everytime he says anything like you still like me dont you i always say NO but im not sure i wanna not like him he called me fat witch i am but im going on a diet to lose wieght and what i hate is i now have started to care what people thought of me and uh i dont care i'd...
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Boy I can't walk away from
Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 12:45 am
Ok, so I've known this guy about 4-5 years; we met through a friend. We've always had a flirtaious kind of relationship, but never really anything more until recently when I've approached the idea. We both went to different schools and hes 2 1/2 years older soo group of friends were different. He always seemed to have a girlfriend back in the day or I always seemed to be friends with the girl he wanted. Until recently he had this evil bitch girlfriend who cheated on him and abused him emotionally, but because he was so in love he couldnt see it. He eventually woke up and realized what he was doing to himself and got out of it, promising me and himself not to go back to her. We started getting closer, but then hes been getting shady lately. ...
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Posted Sunday January 1 2006, 12:35 am
hey. theres this guy i cant get out of my head i know he likes me but he likes other girls i think more. we dont go to the same school. i really want to meet someone new so i can stop thinking about the other guy. is there any like camps or anything? im open for any ideas!
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Posted Saturday December 31 2005, 9:25 pm
I have lots of best friends. But three that are really close. Two of them are guys. One is Steve and I've complained about him before. But I really like him and he's going out with my other really close best friend, Haley. My other best friend, that's a guy, Jeff just told me he liked me on New Year's Eve. He said his Goal for 2006 was to try to win me over from Steve. I LOVE STEVE SOOO MUCH! But how can I let everyone know how I feel with out losing any of my friends?
Okay so here are my main questions:
1. How to tell Steve that I really like him
2. How to tell Haley that I'm like in love with Steve
3. How to let Jeff know that I'd rather just be friends
Thanks a lot!
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Well..I know..
Posted Saturday December 31 2005, 9:11 pm
Well ok im usally very good with giving advice but now i need advice.There is this kid mike who ive been on and off with for like ....3 months now..yeah not along time but still..he cheated on me twice and ive cheated on him...and were together but there is this other guy *Neil* and ive known this kid my whole life..litterally since we were in the womb*moms been friends since they were born*...and ive always liked him. Well mike gives me that heartstopping,knees weak,butterflys in tummy feeling...and id do anything for him...yet neils gives me that Wanna jump your bones horney for..lOl so i dont know which one to go with...but currently w/mike...but yeah i screwd up and messed around w/neil..but neil i feel only wants me to hook up..oh and ...
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