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being sexy; &friends with benefits.


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:48 pm

19/f

how can a girl be really sexy? ive heard confidence, but i mean there has got to be more than that. what can a girl to do make a guy go crazy?

ALSO..dont preach me or anything about this just please answer the question: me and my guy friend have been attracted to each other and have wanted to hook up for a while now but never had and that was my fault. i havent talked to him in like a month, how can i tell him i want him now and want to hook up with him without being SO random. like if i just texted him and said...lets have sex? it might be a little weird. any of you girls have something you say to a guy whose your "friend with benefits" or something of that sort that lets him know you want him!!

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Chances


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:42 pm

If the chances of becoming pregnant are around 25% likely each month, would it be 75% likely after 3 months?
Is that how it works?

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Painful


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:24 pm

I have been having sex a lot with my boyfriend since November of this year, recently after sex, it's burning and stinging especially when I go to the bathroom. What could this be?
Today after sex it was almost unbearable. It feels good during, but not after.

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First Gynocologist Appointment!


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 7:47 pm

So tomorrow after school i have to go to my first gynocologist appointment to get on birth control. I've had sex before but my mom doesn't know that and she's the one who's taking me. I'm scared and i really don't want my mom to know that i have had sex with my boyfriend. She's asked before but i've told her no because i thought she'd be mad at me. Can anyone tell me an idea of what's going to happen tomorrow there in like detail?

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you know that guy chris, the one whos a marine and 24?


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 1:05 pm

ok so blah im 16..
yesterday i went out with chris and we went to a 21 and over club and i got in.. so we were dancing then we left cause we were going to meet up his friends.. so it was just me and him in his car... we had sex in the back seat... i was a virgin... or am i dont know it was like 3 min long because his friend came to get us so he pulled it out quick... we didnt use a condom.. and he wanted to cum in me but obviously he didnt wanna get me pregnant.. so yeah, like what do i do? i really like him. and next week hes going up north California cause since he's in the marines he has to go train and he MIGHT go to iraq.. i dont know what to do.. i dont know if hes going to take me seriously..
i sent him a txt this morni...

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i want you


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 9:39 am

when a guy says "i want you" what exactly does it mean? my bf said it to me

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Sometimes I'm just not in the mood..


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 12:43 am

Hey! I'm 20 and I have a boyfriend. We've been together a year. So here goes...

He's like a robot.. and he always wants to be sexual. Now.. before anyone assumes that he's a jackass.. he's not. He's plenty sweet.. and we have just as much of a sexual connection as we do a mental. He's a good guy, I promise. But sometimes I have trouble getting in the mood. Like.. I'll pretend to be sleeping, or sick.. just so we won't have to hook up. I'll even have friends sleep over, in my room on an air mattress just so he won't try anything.

Please don't think I'm no attracted to him or that he's not good at pleasing me. He is. And no, I've never had this problem with other guys I've been with.

I love him.. ...

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Virgin.. and ready.


Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 12:37 am

Before I begin, I want to make it clear that I do love my boyfriend. I'm 22, and I've been with him almost a year.

We've decided that we're ready to have sex. I'm a virgin, and I've stayed one this long only because I have wanted to save myself for the right person. Someone I love, and yadda yadda. I truly believe that it is him.

Problem? I'm petrified of the aftermath. I don't know why, but I have a feeling that things will just go down hill. I can't shake it. I have no specific reasons to display. He treats me great. I've been sick for a while, he's here anytime I need him. He's supportive of my dream to become an author, and he's kind.. Point being, I'm sure I want to do this.

But then a pa...

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Am I going against my morals?


Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 10:07 pm

Im a 15 year old girl, turning 16 next week and I have been dating my boyfriend (hes a grade older than I am) for a bit over a month, but I have liked him for about 3-4 months and was seeing him for about a month and a half before we actually started dating.
Yesterday, I was over at his house and his parents had left for a few hours, we ended up watching a series of movies and made out for the duration of almost all the movies. Things started getting more heated, but I'm currently on my period so I stopped him from actually putting his hands down my pants. Now, my boyfriend has alot more experience than I, and I havent done anything more than make out. He said he understood, so we just kept to alot of touching and feeling above clot...

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can they tell?


Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 4:29 pm

so i heard that i doctor can tell whether a girl is a virgin or not.
what is it that they look at that indicates whether or not they have had sex?

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Pregnant?


Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 12:48 pm

I know you guys get sick of "Am I Pregnant?" questions, because I do too. But now I am the one in need of advice.

I am on YAZ birth control. Last month I missed the first 4 active pills. I ended up having sex regulary that month (3-5 times a week) and towards the end I started getting worried about pregnancy.

There are 4 placebo pills in the pack, and I always start my period on the 3rd or 4th one. My period is usually over by the 3rd or 4th active pill in the next pack. I ended up starting early (2nd placebo pill), but my period lasted a lot longer than usual. I didn't get off my period until I was completely done with the first row of active pills. After I started, I calmed down a little and forgot ...

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Friends < Flashdrive? (It's long, so hang in there :D)


Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 2:07 am

So a couple a weeks ago my friend "M." and I had a project that we were working on together. We were working at school and I had forgotten my flashdrive so she let me borrow hers. I kept/transported the flashdrive to and from school for two days until my portion of the project was done. We finished on the third day, but I had forgotten to bring it back to school. M. said it was ok and I should just bring it the next day. Well, as it turns out I got really bad food poisoning the next day which put me out of school until the weekend. So, that weekend I called her and said I'd bring it on Monday. She was a little pissed, but I really couldn't do anything about it because I *was* throwing up all over the place. TMI, sorry. So, that we...

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hymen and first sex experince


Posted Friday April 17 2009, 9:41 pm

I'm 17 and I've had sex for the first time about two months ago and I didn't bleed at all, one of my friends told me it might be because my "cherry" wasn't popped. Is this normal, even though it really hurt? Since then I've had sex two more times and still no bleeding, but it still hurts a lot upon penetration, is my boyfriend doing something wrong? Or should i not worry?

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pregnant?


Posted Friday April 17 2009, 9:03 am

Okay - I doubt that I am pregnant but my period is all late now so I'm just... freaking out.

I had sex in february for the first time and I got my period march 6... and now its april and I have yet to get it..
does that mean anything?

Yes I have been stressed and stuff but it's really late now, but I shouldn't have any reason to worry right??

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Sex positions


Posted Friday April 17 2009, 1:19 am

This might be graphic, but what are some really good sex positions for girls? haha

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bf not getting hard, Helpp


Posted Friday April 17 2009, 12:46 am

3 months into going out w my boyfriend things got very heated and we tried to have sex. we were both kissing completely naked. i went to move foward sexually but i noticed he wasnt hard. he tried to help the and get himself hard but that didnt seem to work either. after a few more tries at seducing him i stopped and asked him if anything was wrong. he said no and that he didnt know what was going on so we left it at that. the next day we talked about it ad he said it had only happened once bfore with his first girlfriend and that he was sorry and embarrassed and didnt know what to say. i have a low self esteem so it hit me pretty hard and i thought i was the problem, even though that had never happened to me bfore with any other guy, but af...

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Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 9:33 pm

what is an orgasim

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cumming


Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 8:39 pm

Is it possible to not to be able to cum?

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Hickey!


Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 4:00 pm

15/F

Alright so my boyfriend is always so sexy when he gives me hickeys and I feel like im just sucking on his neck and its not all that great to him. I usually start kissing him on the lips and then kiss him all the way too his neckk. Then when I get to his neck I keep doing that for a second then I start. I usually suck on his neck for like 10 seconds then bite the same spot then suck again. But I mean is there anything else I can do too make it more enjoyable to both of us. and make him react a little differently? (:

Thankkkks(;

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male sperm


Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 5:16 am

Do male sperm die when they have contact with oxygen or outside air?
If no, how long do they survive in oxygen before they do die.

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