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wut 2 do?


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 7:37 pm

ok well theres this guy that goes to my school and i talk to him online sometimes but at school we never talk, only wen we say "hi" and thats it (im in 8th grade b.t.w) and yesterday i was flirtin with him and everything and everytime we talk we say were actually gonna talk at school but we never do, but the thing is, that i like him and i want to know if he likes me too. i have the same lunch as he does every day, if that helps, but i dont know if i should tell him that i like him. my friend says that he probably lyks me, but just because he flirts dont mean its true...so PLEASE help me with this.

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Boyfriend=fighting


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 7:35 pm

Hey, i really need some advice. me and my boyfriend and really serious and have been for a long time. we love eachother so much and plan on getting married someday. the only problem is we fight alot, and its becoming a problem. whenever i try to talk to him about it we just end up fighting more. we know he has depression but he wont talk to anyone about it which is also a problem. any advice on what to do? thank you

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valentines day?


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 7:18 pm

okay, im 13. my boyfriends 13 almost 14. any ideas for a good valentines day gift? i dont want to seem corny with gifts. and i swear, im the worst gift picker in the world.. help, please.

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not meant to be


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:37 pm

Ok I've liked this kid for a while..and he used to hit on me all the time..but i didnt liek him at the time..now that i liek him he stopped hitting on me...atleast not as often. Well the problem is..today I wasn't at school and in the morning he stood next to my "group"..but just my luck I wasnt there..we also had an assembly..nd if I had been at school I would have been sitting right next to him!! There's been other times where I have somehting to do before school..and he stands next to my group and I'm not there...it seems like I'm always in the wrongn place when he tries to get near me...i dont understand..is it a sign that I should just give up on him or what??? I'll rate 5's...im just so confused!!

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6 months


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:36 pm

can someoene tell me what to get my bf for 6 month anversery? thanks

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valentines day


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:36 pm

can people give me ideas for valentines day? i need to get my bf something but dont know what.. any answer in better then none( not dumbass answers) 5's for all who try.

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help!


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:29 pm

ok so I really like this boy at my school..
ok everyone does but he flirts with every girl I know! and ok one day he was looking cute and you know I kinda sorta..smiled at him! he smiled back! I was so amazed then at the end of the day we had sex in the back of the aditrorium. I know But he was just to hott. then my dad started to ask me quetions and I'm not a good lier. I think he is finding out about me and what happened!
what should I do!!!!

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does my social worker like me?


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:26 pm

I have a mental illness and have been out of the work force for a long time. What I have is called schizophrenia. I've been supporting myself for the last 5 years by being on a disability pension. I just got a job a couple of months ago part time. I get about 25 hours a week and don't need to collect my pension anymore. Well my question is about this man that works as a social worker for the local mental health association. I've known him for about 2 years and I've always sensed an attraction. Well yesterday he saw me get out of my car. He works in the building next to where my appartment is. He was asking me about the job and then when I told him it was going well he said " Good for you", and the way he was looking at me...

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Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:14 pm

my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 months. we hold hangs on the bus [yeah, corny, i know.] and hug and all that.. but what are some things like their girlfriends to do. btw, im 14, so is he. i just want to let him know i do care about him and everything..

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HELPPP PLEASE


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 5:56 pm

im izzy im 15 and relly confused i like just met this dude like um this year. hes pretty cool and i kinda like him... no i LOVE him! lol i guess u could say im obsessed! i got really brave nd I asked him out and ya he said NO butt his homies tell me that he likes me which is weird and i think he tries to hit to me HE likes me.. so well if he really duz likes me and I LOVE him shouldn't we go out?? i think so He's really shy& afraid to have a girlfriend. But I love him to death and I need him badly. &The sad thing is, is that I know he loves me back. How can I get him to get over his stage? What can I do to make him show his feelings? I know he likes me.. But how do I get him to show it and go out with me?

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What do I do?


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 5:16 pm

I really like this boy,
And my best friend dose too.
I know I shouldent beacuse she's my best friend but I cant stop thinking about him. I told her but she doesent seem to care. But then I asked her how to get his attention b/c they are friends. she told me to wear boy cloths like she was. So I did i dont know if he really has noticed me.But my Best friend can get a little jealous and stubern somtimes, so I dont know if my friend is lying not to get his attention or if she is telling the truth. b/c u know she likes him and a rumer is going around that he likes gymnast's and prepy girls. but my friend barly ever lie's to me.
who should I belive? What should I do????
-Lanie Day underhill
aka-lanie_the_advicer

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Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 3:20 pm

I'm starting to like one my best friends... and likewise. We cuddle a lot and everything, but we've never done anything more ; not even kiss. He's not affectionate at all, and we talked about this. He said it's because whenever he shows affection, he always ends up getting treated like shit, and whenever he tells people secrets, they use them against him. This leads to the problem where... it's impossible for him to be serious. He's the worlds biggest goofball. He said he's like that because it's just easier when everyone thinks you're kidding... nobody can embarrass you ; nobody can make an idiot out of you. He hates how he is... and so do I. What can I do to help?


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OMG


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 4:35 am

I'm 18 year old and a tourism student.. I met this guy who's the same course as me when we went on tour last week. He's really flirtatious, he has a girlfriend but he still flirted with my bestfriend because he thought that i'm snobbish.. But we talk with each other once in a while.. But at the end of the tour, he sat beside me on the bus.. He slept on my lap, held my hands etc. He started flirting with me.. He didn't mind that the friends of his girlfriend were also there.. Foolish of me, I flirted back.. I gave him my number.. After few hours, he called me and picked me up in my house to go to his house.. That's the time he told me that i'm the one he likes, but he first flirted with my bestfriend because she already smiled at him but I d...

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realted to last one.


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 1:21 am

sr to bother you again. but the thing is, in school we are pretty much best friends which is awkward for me because usually my best friends arent girls. But she tells me everything. well mostly everything. Almost all her secrets. I f i ask her out and she says no, will that ruin the relationship we have now?

P.S. She is in 5/6 of my classes which if she says no might make it awkward. any more ideas? I really appreciate them

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Asking a girl out


Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 1:05 am

I have known this girl since kindergarden right. Now we are in 8th grade and for some reason, this year i really seem to like her. I mean she is nice, funny, smart, and very beautiful. How can i not like her. But the problem is, i have trouble finding the courage to ask her out. I am good with girls in the sense of friendship, but when it comes to love life, im a mess. I am 14 and she is 13. i am 11 months older than her but i really dont see that as an issue. But i always get nervous when i tcomes to askig a girl out nd i did it once, she said ye, than rejeted me the next day. (that was a different girl). Is it normal to be that nervous? Oh and one more thing, what do you ask when you want to ask her out. I really am not good with "pi...

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19femalegirlneedshelp


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 11:39 pm

Ok well theres this guy i work with and hes younger then me but really cute, and i kinda like him. Anyway he talks to me a lot but i find he talks to the other girls as well. I know its weird but i am the jealous type and i was wondering how i would determine if he likes me more then the other girls he talks to. So here are some things i can tell:

We've worked the same hours toghther almost for a week and everyday he finds some way to talk to me, either its to ask me something or joke around me, and every night before he leaves he tells me good night.

-He kinda makes fun of me jokingly about how i should bag faster and that he must faster then i am.

-He was collecting shopping carts all alone o...

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Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 10:27 pm

i dont know what this goes under. but me and my bf have been sexually active. there was a point when we thought i was pregnant. we were relieved when we found out i wasnt. but ive been babysitting a newborn baby. adn she is just so cute. i babysit her for hours 5 nights a week. he helps me. adn he does a great job. we both want a baby now. but were in high school. juniors. how can we get over this. i mean wanting a baby. ill rate high. plez help

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Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 10:23 pm

ok im crazy about my bf. no one knows im dating him. he would do anything for me. but im worried what everyone will think. me and him have talked about it. and he is cool with it. he said it is my life and i can let people knwo about us only if i want. im not ashamed of him by no means. i dont know why i cant tell anyone. he always says that we dotn have to have the whole world nkow about us to have a good relationship. i agree. but i feel like im keeping my life away from everyone. what would you do in my position. ill rate high.

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omg.. new man this time


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 10:21 pm

alright... so i'm 90% over this last guy... and then i realized there has been a man there for me this whole time.. and i have liked him soo.. should i go for it?

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help


Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 10:09 pm

patrick= guy i lost my virginity to... love.... friends... the whole nine yards he is perfect for me... i mean seriously. i can handle him... i love how he loses control... loses the angry. it all turns me on.... but he has a gf now. yet he acts like he still wants to be with me. i mean like seriously she stopped talking to me b/c i talked about him too much. my friends don't like him at all... as a matter of fact they hate him. i mean what am i supposed to do? i really like him... alot... hell i love this boy but my friends don't see the side i see. heres the side they see: evil,gothic, angry, depressed, psycho. all of those are true but i love it... i mean seriously. the side i see has all of those plus more. affection,love, happines...

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