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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 months. we hold hangs on the bus [yeah, corny, i know.] and hug and all that.. but what are some things like their girlfriends to do. btw, im 14, so is he. i just want to let him know i do care about him and everything..
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Aw, that's so cute. Especially the part where you hold hands on the bus; it isn't the least bit corny, hun. It's adorable!
You can be there for him when he needs to talk. Give him hugs and kisses when he's down. Cheer him up. Tell him how much you like him, everyday. Explain your feelings for him to him. Give him hugs when you see him and kisses when you leave him. Randomly call him just to tell him you're thinking about him. Leave cute notes in his locker, telling him how much you like him. Give him cookies. Bake him some yummy treats. Anything you can think of, do it. I'm sure he'll love it. ♥
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i'm 15 and all i ever do with my boyfriends is hug and kiss and hang out during and after school!
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Just because you're the girlfriend doesn't mean that the burden of keeping things harmonious and "peachy" needs to fall solely upon you. Let me say first off that sex is NOT the way to show him that you care. It's appalling how some girls think that the only way they can keep their boyfriends happy is to continuously put out like a common harlot. If at any time he even dares to suggest that you need to have sex with him in order to maintain your relationship, verbally slap him around and make him cry like a wee girl by dumping him in front of everybody.
That having been said, little gifts can work wonders. A card perhaps? A tin of cookies? Just don't go overboard. He's a boyfriend, not a fiancee or a husband. Even then, one can argue that the gift giving decreases exponentially once you get married. As an aside, that could be the as-yet unproven reason why so many marriages fail: not enough presents.
But never mind that.
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