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My hearts soar :-(


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 11:59 am

I dated this guy for like six weeks, feelings got involved mostly on my behalf, but I broke it off because he freaks when he gets close to people and I didnt wanna get hurt, hes too young (17, and I am 21) and I felt like I paid for everything (His train down to see me, cinema, food, clubbing, presents) he only ever got me one thing on valentines day that cost £3.00. It gets worse as I HAVE to see him every week in my youth group, and I still have feelings for him. Mt friends define him as poison, how do I deal with this situation of seeing him every week?



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Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 10:42 am

G/16.
I am living in a happy family. My father has a very nice personality, he is very loving, caring, calm & cool man. He never gets angry. I like him very very much. He also loves me a lot and take care of mine. I am very much attached with him. During the day many times I kiss & hug him. Since long when I was a child he pats my back and hips in a very gentle and lovely way, when I hug him or come closer. I feel I am addicted to his hand. He never tried to crossed the limit. To be honest I ‘’ve seen (I know its very bad) him making love with mom and I cant tell you how they enjoy the every moment and how nicely he treats mom.
The problem is that I always want to see the same personality attributes in my boy ...

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Love hungry


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 10:38 am

G/16.
I am living in a happy family. My father has a very nice personality, he is very loving, caring, calm & cool man. He never gets angry. I like him very very much. He also loves me a lot and take care of mine. I am very much attached with him. During the day many times I kiss & hug him. Since long when I was a child he pats my back and hips in a very gentle and lovely way, when I hug him or come closer. I feel I am addicted to his hand. He never tried to crossed the limit. To be honest I have seen (I know its very bad) him making love with mom and I cant tell you how they enjoy the every moment and how nicely he treats mom in private.
The problem is that I always want to see the same personality attributes in ...

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Do I have a right to be angry?


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 10:27 am

My boyfriend said I was irresponsible and lazy just because I'm not going to school today. One. day. And he refuses to let me kiss him, when I next see him and now he's ignoring my calls&IMs. I don't know.

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I hate my bf's creepy friend


Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 12:50 am

My bf is best friends with a guy that is just plain creepy. For one thing, he is 38 years old and still lives with his mother. He is also a pedophile, and only goes for very young girls. My bf has even told me that he's a pedophile, so I'm not making it up.
The thing that bothers me is that I've caught his friend staring at me inappropriatly at parties, and he's even winked at me. I had to give his friend a ride home once (because the loser doesnt have a car ) and he told me he liked me for a long time and told me to kiss him. I told him no, and after I dropped him off I told my bf what happened. My bf just laughed and didnt seem to take it seriously. I also heard a story that his friend used to stalk a waitress.
I reall...

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Porn


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 9:44 pm

ok.. so my boyfriend looks at porn. ive never had a problem with porn with any other guy ive been with, but lately its been getting to me. I just cant bare the thought of my boyfriend fantasizing about other women. even worse; their bodies are perfect && mine are far from it and i just dont want him comparing me to them. So my question is:
-Is it ok for me to feel this way?
-Is looking at porn considered cheating to some people?
-Should i say something to my boyfriend
-If so what?
(hes very stubborn)

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break and braces


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 8:53 pm

13/f
ok well, here we go. ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now, and i LOVE him so much. but the thing is i SERIOUSLY think he deserves ALOT more than me. and today i got braces on for the second time and i look REALLY bad. i dont want him to freak out on me and i dont want to be a bad gf AND an ugly one!!! should i break up with him or just keep it goin?!?1 im so confused and i give out 5's

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Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 8:51 pm

hey, there is this guy i really like. he is really shy, so i can not tell if he likes me. He stares at me alot, sometimes from the corner of his eyes, but when he notices i see him staring, he looks away. sometimes, after he looks at me he will smile. sometimes he blushes too. i have never talked to him, and i think, if he likes me, he wants me to make the first move but im really scared. what are some signs that a shy guy likes you? and if you think i should talk to him, what should i say to him? write back asap ♥

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Boyfriend, what else?


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 8:30 pm

Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month now, but I don't know if he really likes me?
What should I do?
Btw- he's a year younger than I am..
thanks
Lois

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What should I do


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 8:11 pm

well first off let me say that im 16f going on 17 and he just turned 18. Ok well lets see, theres this guy that i met through a friend. Well my best friend actually and she's his bestfriend to. She kinda put us on the phone together and he kinda told her that he wanted to talk to me or whateva. So ok we started talking and i grew to really like him and i guess he really likes me too. Last weekend we went out to the movies and my friend invited the guy im supposed to be talking to and her boyfriend which also happens to be the guy im talking to's best friend. Everything was going fine or whatever and me and this guy got to be real cool and like i said i really started to like him like seriously. Then the next day i was talking to my best fri...

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he needs to make up his mind


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 8:05 pm

The guy I like can't make up his mind. One minute he likes me next he doesn't then after that he only does a little. It's heartbreaking. I don't know if he's only doing this because he knows I like him or what. Like, at the last dance we danced but he's acting weird. What should I do? By the way he tells my friends about his constantly changing his mind, not me.

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Birthday


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 7:16 pm

I've been going on and off with my boyfriend for over a year.. his birthday is coming up and he'll be turning 18. I don't want it to just be like all of his other birthdays, because he's turning 18, I would want it to be good! you know..? I've gotten him nice jeans and band shirts before .. soo haha.

- He's in a band, he plays guitar.
- Wears nice jeans, but band shirts.
- Listens to screamo music (HA! I know.. and I'm preppy lol)
- Likes XBOX .. doesnt have the new one though.
- Like movies .. but not going to the movie theater (haha IDK!)

I'm not sure what I can do that will be good and not lame and stuff! Guys are so difficult to shop for sometimes haha. THANKS!

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Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 6:55 pm

i am 15 and i have never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. is this unusual? i think that i just intimatate guys too much and it makes them not what to ask me out. i dont know. so is this unusual..? and tips to get guys to ask me out would be greatly appreciated...

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Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 6:46 pm

okay. i fell in love with this guy. i fell hard. i thought about him so much for months and he was a senior and i am a freshman but i couldnt stop thinking about him. he liked me also. he wanted to go out with me but i backed off. i didnt want to become to attached to someone and then them leave. but i fell in love with him. he dropped out of highschool a couple of months ago and i cant stand it anymore. i mean i cry everyday and my heart literally hurts. i hate myself for not getting with him. i will never see him again and i have to face that fact. how do i move on..? because so far i just cant. it has been months and he is still all i think of. i cant stand it much longer. i loved him more then anything in the world. everyday i just wish...

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first date..


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 6:44 pm

ok so im going on my first date with my b/f this weekend..we're going to the movies
& im going w/ another one of my friends & this guy that she likes..& he also likes her
but ne ways..
i think my b/f might kiss me but idn
like i want to kiss him but not really in front of my friends..
so what should i do if he tries to?

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i don't want to like him but i can't help it


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 5:56 pm

I am not the type of girl to just have any kind of boyfriend. He has to be my "boyfriend material". There is this guy who everytime I talk to him I get this smile that WON'T go away. Everytime I think about him I get so happy. But the thing is he is known to cheat on girls. So I know if I went with him there is a high chance of him cheating on me. And I don't want that. Oh yeah he likes me to (he says that to me, his friends, & my friends like everyday) So I guess I want to know why am I having feelings for someone that I know can hurt me and how can I stop or is it just one of those things you can't help?

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verry confused


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 5:40 pm

ok there is this guy that i used to like alot and we were talking for a long time and it seemed like we were dating but he never asked me out then he just stopped talking to me. and now its been about 4 months, and he just broke up with his girlfriend, sence he has even said one word to me and today everytime he saw me he came talk to me and even moved from the other side the class and came sit by me. i was wondering is maybe starting to like me or is he just trying to be friends??

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Help


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 5:12 pm

so this guy that i like and he likes me bak is goin out with this girl hu is like a bitch idk y he is goin out with her but he is. and he told me to wait for me to go out with him. and there is this other guy hu is so nice and sweet to me and is hot and he likes me and i like him to and its been like a month and a half that ive been waitin for this guy to brake up with this girl. and all my freinds r tellin me that i can probaly go out with any guy i want cause im hot. and i dont know what to do?

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i need advice!


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 5:01 pm

ok so a week ago my boyfreind dumped me and this other liked me and i started likeing him this week and this other girl is rlly jealous of me so she says ya were goin to go out and im like ok and it turns out that he liked her a littel. so then i said to him like i know u like this girl and u guyz r goin to go out and hes like wat no were not and im like but thats wat she told me. and then this girl spazzes at me for tellin him and im like i didnt know she never told me not to tell him. and then i told this guy to ask her out cause she is like madly in love with him so no there goin out and they dont act like bf and gf and he likes me better cause she is a total bitch. what should i do??

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stuff to say


Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 4:10 pm

This Friday is this HUGE dance... everyone goes and I am getting tickets from this guy I know. So, he's going to be there and somtimes I get tongue-tied and say stupid things around guys. How can I not get tongue tied? Also, what are some cute,hot,sexy,etc. things to say to him that will make him like me more? I'll rate 5s!

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