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Love hungry
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I am living in a happy family. My father has a very nice personality, he is very loving, caring, calm & cool man. He never gets angry. I like him very very much. He also loves me a lot and take care of mine. I am very much attached with him. During the day many times I kiss & hug him. Since long when I was a child he pats my back and hips in a very gentle and lovely way, when I hug him or come closer. I feel I am addicted to his hand. He never tried to crossed the limit. To be honest I have seen (I know its very bad) him making love with mom and I cant tell you how they enjoy the every moment and how nicely he treats mom in private.
The problem is that I always want to see the same personality attributes in my boy friend, but I never find, break out with the guy. The boys have no such traits. I should realized this fact but I cant. What should I do? I am very upset.
Please advise.
Upset
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Just to make things clear you don't have a crush on your Dad right?
Anyways, just keep looking for the right guy, I want to find a guy like my Dad as well, not exactly the same but similar. If a guy likes you and you like him, go out with him, certain traits in a guy might not come out until you are dating for a while. Hope I helped gotta go.
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There's no one else in the world exactly like your father, of course. And boys tend to be less mature than men.
But there ARE boys who are more sensitive and caring than most. You just need to take it slow, and keep looking. Just a suggestion: that sort of boy is more likely to be shy, a geek, or both. So you may have to work a little to bring him out of his shell.
Having said that, never forget that a boy IS a boy. He'll make mistakes. It's the nature of the beast.
And remember that time is on your side, because those boys are maturing every day. The majority of men don't place a lot of value on kindness and gentleness, because those aren't traits that our culture values in a man, but there ARE some out there and you CAN find them.
Your mother did, and so will you. Good luck.
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