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G/16.
I am living in a happy family. My father has a very nice personality, he is very loving, caring, calm & cool man. He never gets angry. I like him very very much. He also loves me a lot and take care of mine. I am very much attached with him. During the day many times I kiss & hug him. Since long when I was a child he pats my back and hips in a very gentle and lovely way, when I hug him or come closer. I feel I am addicted to his hand. He never tried to crossed the limit. To be honest I ‘’ve seen (I know its very bad) him making love with mom and I cant tell you how they enjoy the every moment and how nicely he treats mom.
The problem is that I always want to see the same personality attributes in my boy friend, but I never find and break out with the guy. The boys have no such traits. I should realized this fact but I cant. What should I do? I am very upset.
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I'm concerned that I might be mis-interpreting your question. Some of the terminology you used seems unusual to me.
I don't want this to sound rude but is English your second language?
I debated what to say to this one.
First of all, if you are having incestual feelings towards your father, you need to talk to a professional. That topic is out of my league. However, I'm going to assume you are trying to describe a strong desire for non-sexual affection and I'll try and address that¦
They say girls either want a man exactly like their own father or completely opposite. I'd say that you are looking for a replica of your dad. Since you mentioned you are 16, I should remind you that you are trying to compare young men to an adult man. I'm sure your father was different when he was the same age as your boyfriend. In addition, fathers have a completely different relationship with their daughters than with their partner/wife. Be careful not to try and compare a "FATHERS affection for his daughter" with a "BOYS affection for a girlfriend."
It's possible you need to clarify what advice you are looking for because I might be mis-interpreting your question. But my advice is to stop comparing 16 yr old boys to your father. There ARE nice guys out there; you just probably haven't noticed them. The "nice guys" are seldom appreciated at your age. It's the "bad boys" that girls your age tend to migrate towards because they seem more interesting and more of a challenge. I don't understand why you feel angry. You should enjoy being your age. Be grateful you have a good relationship with your father but be careful with these feelings you described. He is your FATHER.
Let me know if this helps. If not, perhaps more information will help me understand your situation more clearly.
Much Love, Mrs S
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