okay. i fell in love with this guy. i fell hard. i thought about him so much for months and he was a senior and i am a freshman but i couldnt stop thinking about him. he liked me also. he wanted to go out with me but i backed off. i didnt want to become to attached to someone and then them leave. but i fell in love with him. he dropped out of highschool a couple of months ago and i cant stand it anymore. i mean i cry everyday and my heart literally hurts. i hate myself for not getting with him. i will never see him again and i have to face that fact. how do i move on..? because so far i just cant. it has been months and he is still all i think of. i cant stand it much longer. i loved him more then anything in the world. everyday i just wish that i could go back to the moment that i first saw him so i could start over. i need to get passed this. how do you get over someone that you were and still are madly in love with...?
skittles answered Tuesday March 7 2006, 9:32 pm: Wow...that would be hard...i know it's not easy, but you have to move on...i had a bf for 2 1/2 yrs. n we broke up...we were madly in love...it was hard for a long time but...i got over him...i still love him very much and i always will because he was my first love...but i think it helped that now i have a bf of about 4 months...i already love him n he loves me...its helped a lot, because he doesnt like when i talk about him..and not talking about him helps me to not think about him...you have to move on...and start over...look for younger guys your age also..then if they leave it will be a while...really all it is, is you HAVE to move on...i know its hard...honestly i feel your pain!!! [ skittles's advice column | Ask skittles A Question ]
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