alright, so here's my problem; i've been dating this guy for about5 months, and he's one of those hxc kids. ANYWAYS.. me and him have been doing amazing, everythings been perfect, except his one friend [one o his best friends] hates me, and i have no clue why, it might be because i dont dress like him, or how i act, but the thing is he's never talked to me once. so lets give these epople names so it's easier. my boyfriends name is.... ok let's go with Kirk. and the friend that hates me, his name is Ben. so ben hates me for no reason, and because of that, kirk seems to be kinda quiet towards ben when im around, and it's because it's akward.. so i dont blame him, bens best friend told me that ben hates me because ever since ive been with kirk, he's been acting different.
so my questions are:
how do i get ben to give me a chance, and not prejudge
and how do i get kirk to be more like himself around ben when it's the three of us?
and please, dont say "just talk to him" because ive tried. i need real advice, so please help me.
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