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i need advice!
ok so a week ago my boyfreind dumped me and this other liked me and i started likeing him this week and this other girl is rlly jealous of me so she says ya were goin to go out and im like ok and it turns out that he liked her a littel. so then i said to him like i know u like this girl and u guyz r goin to go out and hes like wat no were not and im like but thats wat she told me. and then this girl spazzes at me for tellin him and im like i didnt know she never told me not to tell him. and then i told this guy to ask her out cause she is like madly in love with him so no there goin out and they dont act like bf and gf and he likes me better cause she is a total bitch. what should i do??
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I think you should stop creating drama for yourself.
I mean, seriously, the whole I'm going to give him up for you thing is nice... but relationships aren't about being nice. They're about being honest with yourself, and your significant other.
So what exactly are you all trying to do here?
If he doesn't like her, he shouldn't be dating her in the first place. If he likes you, he should've asked you out, instead of leading this other girl on. It may seem like a 'nice' thing to do, but it's really cruel- you're telling someone to pretend they like another girl as much as this girl obviously likes them.
If you want the guy to yourself, then ask him out. If you want to keep your friends, and not be talked about behind your back as a boyfriend stealer, tell him he shouldn't be dating her, wait a significant good time after the break up until she's okay, then ask him out.
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I think if you liked this guy you should have told the other girl to go fly a kite ( to put it nicely)!
He evidently didn't even know she existed before you told him. If he likes you then you go tell him to forget that other girl and date you instead. :)
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