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Bye bye boyfriend?
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 3:21 pm
im 14/f and my boyfriend is 15/m (im almost 15 hes amlmost 16) and we have had sex.we have known eachother for 13 years and been going out for 3. and i really care about him but lately hes been..."aggresive" and he yelled at me a few times..he NEVER did this before and im scared there is somthing wrong..what should i do??!!
(should i break up with him)
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guys....
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 3:15 pm
simple question: what kinda girl do guys like most?? like what should they be like??? do they really have to have a big ass and big boobs??? soooooo what do guys see in girls? what do they want?
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does he want to take our friendship to the next level?
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 2:55 am
A male friend of mine came over to my appartment today for a visit. We have so far never done anything sexual- yet. I partly feel because he is quite shy. Well lately I have been dropping subtle hints that I want to be intimate with him; but not saying outright that I want to sleep with him because I am shy too.
Well before he left he said that the next time he came over to visit me that we could have a barbeque; play cards; and FOOL AROUND! When he said it he also had a big grin on his face. I really don't think he would joke about something like that. Do you think this means that he wants to move our friendship to the next level?
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Good love songs?
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 12:14 am
What are some good love songs to listen to? I need some ideas, because I'm going to be cooking with that special someone on a romantic date on Friday, so I need some "mood" music, you know? Any suggestions?
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Boy Next Door
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 11:09 pm
Well the happiest thing happened to me... I found the love of my life... I love his family his family loves me vise versa... But the only problem is he lives next door... Ya some people are like thats the tightest thing ever... But it is a hassle sometimes when i wanna go out with the girls and its like i have 2 sets of parents... One weekend i went to a party with my friends and i came home at 12:30 and his parents were all pissed cause he wasnt with me... I dunno... But i love him though... And his parents think we are getting married... They told him to wait till after graduation to get married and we have been going out for like 2 months? that kinda creeps me out... What should i do??
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If she's bi...
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 11:05 pm
Hey, I'm 15/m. There's this girl at my school that i've known for about a month now and I really like her, a lot. I want to ask her out, but today she told me that she was bisexual, and leans more towards girls because so far her guy relationships haven't been so well. I asked her if she still dates guys and she was like "Haha why?" and I just said "Hehe just wondering ;)" but yeah she seems like she wants to go out with me too and we seem to always be around each other during lunch or passing periods and such. We're going to a movie together on Friday, but we're getting there about two hours earlier so we can shop. I'm thinking about asking her out then, but I'm not sure if she'll say yes... any suggestions on what to d...
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boys
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 10:45 pm
Today in Life Skills, my school counselor told us girls "all 13-year-old boys care about is looks." (it's not a co-ed class) She also went on to say that 13-year-old boys only like girls with big boobs and a big ass. She said that they are very shallow, but the best thing for us to do is wait for them to grow up.
Is this really true? Do boys only notice boobs and butts on a girl and nothing else? It doesn't make me feel too good knowing that, because I certainly don't have a big butt and big boobs, and I'd like to have a boyfriend.
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How can I tell him?
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 10:29 pm
There's a guy I like, and I'm thinking about telling him how I feel. Well, there's a big dance coming up and I was thinking about telling him then. Maybe while we slow dance or something... but then again, that could make it awkward. Any ideas/tips on what I should say and when I should say it? Thanks!
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difference.
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 9:58 pm
I have a couple questions but they pretty much are the same subject.
What is the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.?
Im 17 female and i work with this guy around the age 24. Well im crazy about him. Many people say that if this guy can brighten your day, make you smile when you see him, hes all you think about. You pretty much love him. Is it true? This guy doesnt know i am crazy about him. When i work with him i get really happy, i cant stop smiling when im around him, And like just knowing he is in the store with me i feel save. If that makes any sense.
I have been in love one time before i met him. When i was with this other guy i felt like i could never...
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my ex-boyfriend ..bothering me
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 9:55 pm
okay this guy broke up with me like a few weeks ago and i was wicked upset and i told him too . so yeah anyways online he made a new screen name and IMed me pretending to be my friend when i knew it was him , he finally admitted it was him and i asked him why he did it , and why he would waste his time talking to me he told me he did it because he was bored .then a few days later he called me and left me a weird voice mail on my phone , then he started talking to one of my friends asking her about her relationship with her boyfriend who i am good friends with, and then today he called me and i knew it was his voice , but then he was like using a different voice (like ones on the computer where people use to make prank calls on like ebaums w...
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this guy im kinda friends with and im sort-of crushing on hi
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 9:11 pm
okay so theres this guy im kinda friends with and im sort-of crushing on him and we talk online alot and at school he will always say hi to me in the halls. so anyways i was talkin to him online and he was like well im going to go get naked and jump in the shower , wanna join me ? and of course i was like yeahh lol . but obviously he was joking around but what do you think that he was thinking about when he said it .. and if he's feeling like how i am about him . thannk youuu ♥
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i like him but he belongs to someone else...
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 8:58 pm
well i just met this amazing guy and he and my best friend used to like be together but now they dont see each other anymore....well he has a girlfriend now but when we were in the car he started tickeling my leg and touching my hands and stuff...it didnt really bother me because i like him and all but the only thing is if my friend finds out what should i do?? and i told asked if he had a girlfriend and he said yeah but techniqully werent not because i only see her sometimes so if me and him did anything would that be like hes cheating on her with me?!?!ill rate high
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conversation started
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 8:34 pm
ok well there is this guy that i really like but sometimes when i talk to him i dont know what to say. does anybody know any conversation starters?
thanx
<3
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Age difference: we're a year apart but two grades!
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 8:14 pm
Age 14/f. There's this kid who lives down the street that I have a huge crush on. He's a year younger, which is fine with me. The only problem is that we are two grades apart. I am a freshman in high school and he is only in seventh grade. When I moved, something got mixed up with the cutoff dates and I am now a very young freshman (or a very old eighth grader.) We are a year apart, but as far as anyone else knows, it's actually two years. Do you think it's worth it to go after him? Or should I give up and look elsewhere? (If it makes a difference, he's still taller than I am by about an inch.)
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Hopeless.
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 7:30 pm
I used to be great friends with this guy John* who goes to a different school then me. (He goes to the Catholic school in our neighborhood, from which I have a lot of friends there.) Last year, me and him used to talk all the time. It was great. Plus, I really liked John* and I thought he had some feelings for me too. I was coming up with the courage to ask him out or anything, and then decided I was going to do it right when I came back from sleepaway camp, which was only a week long. I get back from sleepaway camp and find out that he's going out with this girl, who I know very well and I'm friends with. (Not anymore.) I was devastated! I still talked to him when they were together (about 5 months) but things were different. About 6 month...
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a boy and a skirt
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 7:02 pm
well i was wearing a skirt today rite and this hott guy who is in all my classes was like talking to me and we both asked the teacher if we can use the bathroom so we both left and we were just talking for like 5 minutes while every1 was in the classroom. also he walks with me alot and we hang out alot 2 and he always pushes me in a flirty kind of way and when he pushes me he stares at my ass because my skirt goes up. and today at lunch he was all like u no 1 thing that will never change about you is your big ass.is that a compliment because i think it is? what should i do? should i tell him i like him? what if he starts to grab my ass or touch it? what do i say? what do i do? help urgently.remeber i rate fives!!!!! thanx in advance. f/13
L.
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<3btw ima girl
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 6:46 pm
ok well i have a really close friend(a boy) he has really helped me get thro the last year without me wanting to slit my wrists or something.. i have found out that he is lyk in love with me.. its not even just a crush he is lyk totally serious and i dont want him to act lyk this..btw we went out for 2 years a year ago n i promised myself i wouldnt fall in love with him again because he is amazing.i dont know how to say i dont want to go out with him but i still want to be friends...what should i do?
<33paige
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For teens only!!!
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 6:02 pm
Hey I'm an eigth grade girl and i have a major problem!! I just got in a big fight with this mean girl and now we are enemies. anyway we both like the same boy. i think he might like me too, but i want him to ask me out. how do i get him to ask me out and not her?
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I think he's gonna break up with me!
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 5:51 pm
well there\'s this guy and me and him both lyk each other. we never really went out because its would be impossible to convince my mom so durin early april we\'ve been talkin on da phone a lot. i had spring break a week ago and i didn\'t get to talk to him. 2 nights ago i was on three-way with him and his friend, i told him to hold on but i was still on the phone listening to him and his friend talk. turns out he met another girl, he does\'t know who to choose, me or her. i think he\'ll choose her because only me him and his friend knows about our \'relationship\' if my friends knew they would be lyk what the hell r u thinkin goin out with him. lyk they wont understand. so at skool i dont talk to him a lot. so yesterday and today i talked t...
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he used to be so nice ..
Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 5:34 pm
I have this friend Brett, who I sort of like. I told my friend Ashley, and she told him. I was really angry with her because I didn't want him to know and if he did know, I wanted it to come from me. But that's not really the point. Before the day she told him, he was soo nice to me. We would talk a lot and he would ask me to hang out, I could trust him with my problems and he would care, he would tell me he loved me, as friends of course, and things like that. Now when I talk to him, I'll tell him something and he'll respond with a simple "uh okay." When I say "hey" he says "hi." And I don't even care about the fact that he doesn't like me as a girlfriend. I really liked being his friend, and now I feel like h...
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