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i like him but he belongs to someone else...
well i just met this amazing guy and he and my best friend used to like be together but now they dont see each other anymore....well he has a girlfriend now but when we were in the car he started tickeling my leg and touching my hands and stuff...it didnt really bother me because i like him and all but the only thing is if my friend finds out what should i do?? and i told asked if he had a girlfriend and he said yeah but techniqully werent not because i only see her sometimes so if me and him did anything would that be like hes cheating on her with me?!?!ill rate high
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If he did anything with you then yes it would be cheating on her with you and could you really cope with the guilt factor involved?
There are two major issues here. First of all, the situation between you all. If he likes you but still wants to carry on with her, you REALLY shouldn't get involved with him. After all, if he's prepared to do this to her, what makes you think he wouldn't do it to you too? He doesn't seem to have a problem and I'm not sure you would be comfortable either if he was yours and he treated other girls the way he is treating you right now. He doesn't seem to have much respect for women and you might want to think carefully about this before you decide to do anything with him.
Secondly, there's a risk involved here to pretty much all party's. I'm sure you don't want to hurt your friend and if you get together with her guy (regardless of his claims they see each other only 'sometimes'), she will be REALLY hurt and you will almost definitely lose her as a friend. Not only that but you will lose any other friends that you share with her, because you will inevitabley be seen as 'the boyfriend stealer' and you don't want a reputation like that. He may say he see's her only sometimes but how does she feel about him?
I should also add that your friend deserves to know that her boyfriend has been making advances on you. No offence to you but how do you know he's not been doing the same thing to other girls? As I said before, he doesn't seem to have a problem with it and I think your friend deserves to know her boyfriend is a cheating scumbag! As your real loyalty lies with her, I recommend you tell her and however great you think this guy is, you should let him go because in the long run, he won't be worth your time or effort and certainly not worth losing a friend over.
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This guy sounds like he has quite a few issues.
First off, you need to specify whether or not your best friend still likes this guy. If she does, then I would consider it wrong toward your friend's feelings if you and this guy were to date or be boyfriend and girlfriend.
Secondly, he has a girlfriend and yet he's flirting and messing around with you. Does that ring any bells? You think that he'll get with you and not eventually do the exact same thing with another girl? You will likely not be any different from this current girlfriend and your best friend.
So even if your friend was ok with you and her ex-boyfriend, why would you still want to be with him after denying his girlfriend and flirting with you?
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hey, if you totally make-out with him and do stuf with him and he gos out with someone else then yes thats cheating. be careful he could like you for one day then be all over his girl the next. cait♥
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It seems like he's messing with your head if he flirts with you, and then says he has a girlfriend. The next time he does something like that to you, you'll have to say something to him or else the whole story could be turned around if his girlfriend ever found out. Just be like, "If you have a girlfriend, why are you doing this?" Don't take his flirting if he's still with his girlfriend, because you'll end up getting hurt, and if he'd cheat on the girlfriend he has now, think about if you two ever went out, he might do that to you too.
-mystical_breeze
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First of all it depends on what you mean by "if me and him did anything" What do you mean by "anything" Just remember that if he is seeing someone else and wants to see you, then who's to say that when he's seeing you he's not going to see anyone else too. If you are ok with that then fine.
Personally I believe that early dating should be just that..... Dating.
You shouldnt be tying yourself down or getting too serious with one boy. This is the time you should be "dating" different boys to see what qualities you like in a boy so that when its time to get serious and find a life partner you will know exactly what you want.
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