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Always 'Just A Mate?'


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 6:30 pm

My friends say I'm pretty, but it seems like boys pay no attention to me. I've been told by at least 3 different guys that I thought were pretty cool that they just see me as a friend. I haven't been out with anyone in over two years, or even kissed a boy. I feel pretty nervous sometimes around certain boys (not because I like them - because it's pretty obvious that they don't like me but to be honest I don't mind). It just seems like I'm unfanciable.

Am I always going to be just a mate to all guys?

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totally in love


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 4:42 pm

i think i'm in love with my boyfriend joe. he is funny smart sweet and most of all sensitive. he has all of the right qualities that i look for in a guy. and i'll i wanna do is be with him i thought i would never feel this way again but i am. do u think i'm in love?

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Haha. Just decisions, decisions


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 4:35 pm

Stuck between three guys:
1) He's been a friend forever. I don't know if he feels the same way.
2) Think he's the most amazing guy in the world. SUPER hard to get. I haven't been able to really hang out with him yet, so we don't really know eachother. He's going to college about 15 minutes away from here in a few months.
3) Guy I've liked for 2 years. Getting out of a year relationship in less than 2 months. Should I go for him?

Which one too choose. Help pluheeese

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This Boy


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 4:26 pm

What should I do if i like this boy and we hug in the hallway and i have his number, but I am scared that he will not like me if we start to be friends? What do i do?

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Us.....


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 4:24 pm

What do i do if this boy acts like he likes me around certain people, but then he talks about me really bad around other people. Should I just forget him?

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Jealousy!


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 4:04 pm

First of all, there's this girl I know. She has a lot of guy friends and stuff, and she also has s boyfriend.
Well, I have a bad feeling that one of her best guy friends, who I like, likes her. I mean, he talks to her a lot more than he talks to me. I mean, she would never go out with him (she knows I like him), plus, her boyfriend is a close friend of this guy's. So, it's pretty much impossible for now.
But I can't help but feel jealous! I honestly just wanna go for the guy, but the whole jealousy thing holds me back. I've liked guys before that have liked her, so I guess that contributes to my paranoia.
Anyway, my question is, how can I stop being so jealous and get the guy? Thanks!

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Is there still more there?


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 2:34 pm

Sorry if this is long.

I dated a guy (We'll call him X) a few years ago. For me, it was fantastic. I loved him very much. I've dated alot of guys since him but I've never felt that connection with anyone else.

We broke up. It was just too serious, too fast and we were too young.

All of a sudden, he pops back into my life (we're both in college now) and everything is completely crazy! I feel as though nothing has changed inside me as far as my feelings for him go.

We hugged that first day for a long time (we hadn't talked for years). He put his face in my neck, rubbed my back. Later when we talked he told me I'd gotten really pretty and kind of played with my hair a bit.
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My boyfriend.....


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 2:19 pm

ok, so my bf and i will just be talking and what not and he is lying on the couch and i just want to say to him" oh my god you are so effing hot i have every reason on earth to jump on top of you and furiously make out." But that would be wierd.... so how can i get to that place where i can actually do that. how can i "seduce him" into making out with me without sounding desperate?
I will rate HIGH if someone can give me a line to make him realize that i WANT to kiss him ALOT...something i could SAY to him that would "send him the message" and we dont have to "take it slow b\c we have been friends forever....



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a guy


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 10:19 am

okay i was on this website and this guy got my aim s/n from it and we started talking. he kept askin me so many questions like what do you look like? how old you are? where i go to school at? and if i have a b/f. so i answered everything not honestly cuz i dont no if he is a stalker.lol. then he finally asked if we could meet sometime. my question is should i continue to talk to him because it seems like he wants a relationship which would mean we have to meet. and i do not want to meet with him in real life cause of all those sick people out there. so should i continue to talk to him or what do i do? will rate high. thanks!

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female squirter


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 10:04 am

every time my fiance and me make love we need to put a pad on the sheet because she squirts everywere and not alittle either is this common?I`m 42 male and my fiance is 47 female

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PLEASE HELP ME! FAST!


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 4:42 am

ok
so i talked to this guy on myspace
and he seems really nice
well he is
and hes really beutiful
and he goes to my school
but hes downstairs
and im upstairs
or whatever
but i like never see him
and i dont know what to do
i have seen him once because he has my lunch
and we like eachother
but im to afraid to talk to him because hes so gorgeous and popular
but hangs out with the preps
and im scared of preps
PLEASE HELP
i rate 5 for trying

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I want him back


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 12:43 am

My ex b/f i love him so much. but last summer i made the mistake of cheating on him when i was angry and upset. I made a bigger mistake by telling him. We broke up and usually i can deal with rejection and break up but it was hard on me. I thought i was over him but now as the skool yr comes to a end we talks to me and he was bringing back my old feelings.So the last few days he is on my mind constantly.i wanna know is there a way i can get over him or make him realize how i feel?

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how do I make love to my bf


Posted Monday June 5 2006, 12:38 am

my boyfriend is ABOVE average and I am small we cant get it in and when we do it goes limp cause the condom is to tight how can we do it? He uses extra large condoms if this helps and I am 18 f and he is 21 m

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sex


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 11:36 pm

why is sex so big of a thing to people like 16 days from my 16th b-day i lost my virginity and so the people that ive talked to before i had sex said that it was a big thing and once i did it wasnt much to me so really why do people make such a big deal about sex?

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so called friend and her ex.


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 10:17 pm

this kid that i've been hanging out with went out with one of my so called friends. and like she's been supposvedly calling me a slut and stuff. and like i don't know if he asks me out if i should date him or not ..we kissed last night ..and he's always like flirting with me and kissing my cheek and telling me to kiss his ..but idk if i should do that to her or not. they've also been apart for more than 5 months. help?! :(

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Attention


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 9:34 pm

Can too much attention freak a girl out and make her back off? Even though you're really close? I've heard people say this before, but I'm not too sure, and now I'm affraid that I've been bothering my girlfriend with too much attention.

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This guy wants me to wait on him?? do i?


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 9:07 pm

Hey i am 16 years old and i had this boyfriend and we were getting pretty serious but i would break up with him like everyday cause he would just do stupid stuff or ignore me sometimes in the hallways at skool...well he started to wanna do sexual stuff to eachother and he wanted to have sex and i felt so pressured so one day i ended up letting him finger me, and he just wanted more so i had a long talk with him telling him that i wanted to wait till marrige for sex..and 2 days later he broke up with me i was devistated and now he has been nothing but rude to me and the other night we were fighting and he had the nerve to ask me to wait for him over the summer after telling me that he hated me,he says that he needs time to matture and learn...

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Youre responce to my question.


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 8:51 pm

answered Sunday June 4 2006, 5:49 pm:
there is noway i was going to sit and read all of your question- tht was like, an essay. but as far as i got- about him liknig kelsey- who was with his best friend- you have no right to claim tht shes not pretty. because obviously she is to TWO different guys. if shes your friend- you should back her up- not be jealous of her, and beat her down because she got the attention of the man you like. and even if she was the uglies thing on earth- did you ever think that guys go for morethan jsut looks?- because its true! so maybe you dont have what thyre looknig for in a personality.< thats what you said but i have to disagree.First shes my best friend not his. He just met her that day. And i kno th...

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Trust


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 8:40 pm

I am in a fairly serious and committed relationship. We've been going out for almost a year now and we lived in a similar location at college so we are very close and are in love.

However, In the past I've been hurt, cheated on and betrayed, and I have seen many other examples of very negative relationships. I trust my boyfriend for the person that he is, yet my previous experiences have left this nagging in the back of my head that makes me suspicous, that even though I know he is a romantic, a stand up guy, and would never hurt me intentionally, I still worry sometimes that he will turn to the examples that I have known previously.

The situation became worse I suppose, when our close quarters relationship tur...

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i think i might like my friend


Posted Sunday June 4 2006, 8:18 pm

ok there is this friend (who is a guy and i am a girl) and he is so funny! but latley he has been calling me so we can hang out. And he keeps on saying on how much me loves me. I think he means it in a friend way but im not sure. And I had a dream when me and him were going out and it did not freak me out. Do you think i like as more then a friend or not? Anyone who can answer this is amazing!!!! I would love help!


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