ok
so i talked to this guy on myspace
and he seems really nice
well he is
and hes really beutiful
and he goes to my school
but hes downstairs
and im upstairs
or whatever
but i like never see him
and i dont know what to do
i have seen him once because he has my lunch
and we like eachother
but im to afraid to talk to him because hes so gorgeous and popular
but hangs out with the preps
and im scared of preps
PLEASE HELP
i rate 5 for trying
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Belladonna answered Monday June 5 2006, 9:14 am: When you say you like each other, I assume you mean "that way" right? Then what are you worried about girl?! You're already there! There's no need for you to be afraid to speak to him. Even if he is a prep, he's obviously rejected high school class distinctions by going for you when you're not a "prep". So obviously he doesn't care about popularity or cliques and neither should you. He likes you even though you're not as "popular" as him (presumably), so you have nothing to be afraid of when talking to him.
Maybe his friends would be nice once you got to know them. I know preps can seem stuck-up from the surface or whatnot -- but some can be very nice people. You should give them the benefit of the doubt and get over your fear of them.
why not plan to meet him sometime at school to hang out, since you say you never see him. If you get on really well online, chances are you will in real life too. Forget about the fact that he's popular and see past it. You like each other as people, who cares about where you fit in at school?
xstephh34x answered Monday June 5 2006, 9:10 am: Wow. Im sorry but the way you say that you're scared of preps is stereotyping. They are people like you too. And thanks because I am a prep and theres nothing to be afriad of. Set up a day to have him sit with you and some friends at lunch or something.
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Monday June 5 2006, 8:44 am: If he is interested in you, you have nothing to worry about. After all, you both like each other. Don't be intimidated by the preps, otherwise, nothing will happen between the two of you and that wouldn't be a happy ending. Don't think about who he's friends with, after all, you're there for him, not his friends. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3 [ CiNdYLoUwHoO's advice column | Ask CiNdYLoUwHoO A Question ]
Elcee answered Monday June 5 2006, 8:30 am: If he is genuinely interested in you it won't matter who he hangs out with. Suggest meeting up somewhere on neutral grounds like a coffee shop or mall. His preppy friends may not be so horrible if you got to know them. Take a chance and see what happens. Good luck. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
losers1 answered Monday June 5 2006, 8:01 am: well. if you really like this guy and he's popular and he hangs out with people you're afraid of..like you said preps..then i'd advice you to face your fears of preps and talk to him. or just ask him whenever you talk to him to meet you at a spot where you two can be alone. and then you won't have to worry about the people he hangs around with..goodl uck..hope my advice helps you in some way..bye
-.christina* [ losers1's advice column | Ask losers1 A Question ]
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