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Always 'Just A Mate?'
My friends say I'm pretty, but it seems like boys pay no attention to me. I've been told by at least 3 different guys that I thought were pretty cool that they just see me as a friend. I haven't been out with anyone in over two years, or even kissed a boy. I feel pretty nervous sometimes around certain boys (not because I like them - because it's pretty obvious that they don't like me but to be honest I don't mind). It just seems like I'm unfanciable.
Am I always going to be just a mate to all guys?
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Okay, just start flirting with some guys. If girls say you're pretty..just think of what guys think of you. Boys are just weird like that and they always are afraid to express what they feel to girls. Don't feel nervous...don't always actually "flirt" with them, but play "hard-to-get." That always gets guys. I really know how you feel because my friends have told me that I was pretty and lots of the guys at my school have told me that I was ugly. But some guys are better off just being friends than they are more than that. Just go with the flo. If you need any more advice, just e-mail me.
Summer_lovr304@yahoo.com
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Wow, it seems like I wrote this!! I have the exact same problem! Every guy I like tells me I'm awesome but they just want to be friends. It's really annoying, and I deffinitely know how you feel. It's actually hard to answer this question, because you never know if a boy will come into your life and love you as much as you love him. But I believe that everyone has a guy that is "the one" for them, but for some people it takes longer to find that guy than others. You just have to hold your head up high, be confident and don't worry because one day, both me and you will find "Mr. Right." It might take 5 years to meet him, but he's coming. Don't dread over this because you have your whole life to get a boyfriend and to fall in love. You can't make any one like you because it's impossible. Just keep praying to God, and he will lead you to the guy of your dreams. There's almost a billion guys in the world, so someone out there has to love you.
Hope I helped. ♥
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