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Haha. Just decisions, decisions
Stuck between three guys:
1) He's been a friend forever. I don't know if he feels the same way.
2) Think he's the most amazing guy in the world. SUPER hard to get. I haven't been able to really hang out with him yet, so we don't really know eachother. He's going to college about 15 minutes away from here in a few months.
3) Guy I've liked for 2 years. Getting out of a year relationship in less than 2 months. Should I go for him?
Which one too choose. Help pluheeese
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To be totally honest, although you would like someone to help you choose one of these guys, I really don't think dating any of them is a good idea.
I know what you're thinking. You really like them all and you want to date them all! Why should you refuse to pursue a relationship with any of them? Basically, because whoever you end up choosing at this point in time, you will inevitabley end up wondering if you should have chosen one of the other two. While this sort of conflict is going on, you're best to leave the situation totally alone until you know for sure which one you would like to be with.
I won't recommend a list of pros and cons because at the end of the day, pros and cons are what you make of them and they don't amount to much in the grand scheme of things. Instead, I think you ought to stay single and spend some time trying not to think about any of them. Let nature take its course. Eventually, any big crushes will fade away and you will be left knowing who it is you truly want. On the other hand, someone else might come along who you know you want to be with more than any of the guys you have already mentioned. The point is, there's no point leaping in head first when your heart is in turmoil over this.
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Ahh. This is always a tough one. For guy number 1 - you've been friends forever. don't get friendly love confused with boyfriend love. there is a very thin and easy to cross but deadly to cross line there. if you truly do care about him in the way of you want to be intimate with him etc etc then ask him out or ask him if he likes you or flirt with him and see how it reacts and go from there. boy number 2 sounds like infatuation. you love how he looks and acts from the outside. you don't really know him. if you are really interested and decide to go for him - become friends first then go to a relationship. it's healthier. and last but not least guy number 3 is just getting out of a heavy relationship. he's going to be sensitive. give him time. leave him alone but be there for him if he needs you. if you really care, let him heal first. you don't want to be the rebound girl. so if you want my opinion, out of those 3 guys go for number 1. but make sure you really like him as a boyfriend kind of way and make sure he likes you back! you don't want to raise your hopes up too high. I hope I helped and good luck with the guys! I'm sure any of them are going to be lucky to have you! Let me know how it goes! -GC07
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