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being friends


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 10:16 pm

is it better to be friend first before you get into a relationship?
because my boyfriend broke up with me because he said we messed our relationship up because we really wasnt friend when we went out and he wants to start over and he said he might or might not ask me back out is that bad?? for me??

because i love himm

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Please be honest.


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 10:10 pm

Okay, I would like everyone to be totaly honest you wont hurt my feelings.

Do you think that it is like pathetic/stupid/weird ect. that I have never had a boyfriend before? Oh and im 15.

Thankss.

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Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 9:44 pm

Okay, maybe this is a little weird, but..

I want to go out with this kid, so I've decided I'm going to flirt with him before I ask him out (or he askes me) because he likes me or used to.

But we don't hang out, because we're not really friends. And schools out, so theres no way to hang out. So [this is the weird part] how would you flirt on the computer (IM)? Anything I could say to hint at him?


Thanks.♥

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theres this boy..


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 9:25 pm

hey :]
well you see there is this guy. we see each other often only because my best friend's brother is good friends with him so we all hangout together. we usually dont flirt..just lookin at each otehr and that kind of stuff. but lately its been different like we get into an argument or im like give me that! and if doesnt im like dont make me come over there so then i like jump on him and he grabs my hand and all that stuff. then it kinda seems like we are going out. i love bein in his arms even if it is in an argumentative way. the only thing is i dont know if i like him or just like flirting with him. the only problem is he really really likes this other girl and i guess wants to do stuff with her. but my best friend is always li...

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made a big mistake...


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 8:07 pm

I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. During that time, we have had some problems but have worked them out and have been doing very well, until lately. I don't know why I did this, but I cheated on my boyfriend with someone who is a very close friend of mine and have even developed strong feelings for...but I still honestly love my boyfriend. I didn't know it was possible for me to not only cheat, but do it for a few months while my boyfrined thought everything was fine. I also didn't know it was possible for me to love two people at the same time.

So, as much as it hurt to do this, I told my boyfriend about everything yesterday and, of course, he is beyond hurt. I knew I had to come clean w...

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what do i do


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 7:51 pm

14/f. sorry if this is realllyy long lol, ill try to keep it short.

ok so first off. i'm REALLY shy. like in school, everyone [well not everyone but some people who are really immature] tease me about "never talking" and this really pisses me off because just because i'm shy, quiet and well-behaved in school doesn't mean i never talk. infact at home and with my friends i'm so loud and talkative that they can't shut me up. =D but being shy is a huge problem for me that i can't overcome. anyone that i'm not really close to, i can hardly speak to. yeah if they say something to me i'll answer, but it's not like i'll go out of my way to ask them a question. and in school its the same way. so i'm gonna be a freshman. and ...

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Bad Boy


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 7:49 pm

I like this guy and hes punk but im preppy we talk online, on the phone (once in a while), and have gone to the movies together. but he always flirts with my friends idk what to do. maybe im paranoid but i think they flirt back. i dont no wut to do when he compiments them on their looks because he knows i like him! what to do?

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Age old question


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 7:01 pm

I go to this camp and there is this girl I like I am 14/m and she is 16/f (I don't care that she is older) the thing is she has told me she thinks I'm hot and I've told her the same thing. She lets me feel her up and we talk most of the day at the camp. But when I asked her out she wasn't so sure because shes older and she said that she had a boyfriend (it seemed like she was using it as an excuse to dodge the question) but then she paused for a second and said she was single but then she game me this really unclear answer and left (it was at the end of the day and her parents came to pick her up so she had to leave). I'm confused, what should I do?

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2 years younger than me??


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 6:37 pm

allright here we go again..
do you think its weird if someone likes you that is like 2 years younger than you and you might have feelings for them too? because im going into 11th grade and this guy is goin into 9th grade and hes really nice and everything! its just the age difference i just dont know. i shouldnt let it get to me but i just find it maybe weird or like i cant get anyone else but someone yougner than me? and people might think i look desperate or something

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getting back together


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 5:37 pm

My boyfriend and I (well, ex) dated for about 2 years until back in January when I started to feel that the relationship we getting to be too serious (I was only 17...now 18). We were talking one night and figured out that we started to drift because we weren't ready for such a strong relationship. We loved each other (real love, not kiddish love) but just weren't ready. So we broke up.


After the break up, I found out that he cheated on me while we started drifting. I, of course, was furious at him. Now it's been about 5 months since I found out and we've started talking again. Not only that, but we both want to get back together. Im over the cheating.


My question is, even though I do still lo...

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You've never read a question like this before


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 5:13 pm

Hey... ok, this question is crazy so don't say I didn't warn you.

I think I'm looking for opinions more than advice... and I want to hear what you all think!!

Ok, I am a 20 year old female and I am about to start my third year of college. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for about 3 years. We actually went out for 2 years, then broke up for 8 months because I didn't want a relationship, and have now been back together for a few months. He is deffinitely the love of my life, and we intend on getting married in the future.

Why in the future and not now? Well, he recently joined the army and will be in it for the next 4 years. He is now stationed across the country and is going to Iraq for a...

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Were Friends


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 2:01 pm

So i've been talking to this guy named Greg for about 5 days or so and i think i'm starting to like him. And he likes this other girl because he talked to me about it because he needed someone to talk to and he keeps asking me if he should move on or wait and stuff like that. I dont know what to do because were just friends and i like him and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or tell him...

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boyfriend to friend BACk to boyfriend


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 1:57 pm

im going to warn you now it might be pretty long soo please bare with me.. and i promise to rate high

ok. i have liked this guy for 3 years
we really wansnt that close of friends and well we went out.. for 1 month then we broke up because he didnt love me as much as i loved him
then we went out again.. for 2 more months and i was mad at him alot and he was mad at me alot and we also made-out and did sexual things to much we went on 2 breaks to stop it. and we ended the break really early and we got into a fight on the 18th and.. then we made up it was okay and then we kinda go in another one..and then he was like i have to end this relationship ect.. ect.. and he said he can almost guarntee he will ask me back o...

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Friendboy to Boyfriend!!!


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 12:46 pm

Ok, I know this is another stupid boy question but I really want to know. I have a guyfriend that I know from school that's on myspace. I really like him. He's really hot and single. Should I tell him I like him? And if I do, I'd like to do it in a way that wouldn't ruin our friendship. Seriously, I can't stop thinking about the dude. He is so FINE!!!
Please help! I really need the advice. During the school year we did flirt a lot, but I don't know what to do.

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2 years younger than me??


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 12:42 pm

do you think its weird if someone likes you that is like 2 years younger than you and you might have feelings for them too? because im going into 11th grade and this guy is goin into 9th grade and hes really nice and everything! its just the age difference i just dont know. i shouldnt let it get to me but i just find it maybe weird or like i cant get anyone else but someone yougner than me? and people might think i look desperate or something
what do you guys think
thanks i will rate 5

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CRYiNG


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 4:13 am

why do we cry as a form to express emotion?

this has really been a kicker for me lately and im really curious to see if any one knows why.

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okay no date no deal??


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 3:55 am

okay, well I have tried to find signs of him liking me and right when I think he does, A doubt comes to my mind what if this or what if that. So and I sometimes thinks he does and than sometimes think he doesn't because if he liked me wouldn't he have asked me on a date already or for my number?? He is at my best friends house all the time cuz he is friends with her brother and we chill, but I don't know how do i really know, i dont want to tell im flat out that i like him i don't have the guts to do that!! HELP...haha again.

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my cousins neighbor and me..


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 12:52 am

hi :] im 16/f!
well a couple days ago like 2 days ago my cousins neighbor (ben) was over at their house and boy let me tell you he is a cutie. well my cousin ash is like my best friend so im always over there and their neighbor always hangouts with my cousin nick. so we were all over there and like we were foolin around bein crazy and so then i go to like turn the radio system to a diff. station and ben slaps my ass with like wrapping paper haha. i didnt mind but then i acted all mad so i could flirt with him..so i was like punchin him and we were flirtin he grabbed my hand and held on so i couldnt do nothin to him and so i jumped on top of him we were all on the bed, hes layin down i straddle him so my cousin ash can kick him haha....

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how do i know if he likes me???


Posted Wednesday June 21 2006, 12:06 am

How do i know if a guy likes me without asking him? i think we like each other but i don't want to get stronger feelings if he doesn't even like me, if you know what i mean!

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I'm losing him to my mom.


Posted Tuesday June 20 2006, 11:03 pm

This guy I'm friends with is cute, funny, nice, smart, always smells good, dresses well, has a six pack basically EVERYTHING I look for in a guy. Him and I are really close (he's 15 I'm 14). Well I'm considered one of the prettiest girls in school, honestly there isn't one boy I've liked that I haven't gotten. Well I really want this guy but the big problem is he likes my mom. my mom is a 30 year old single mother and shes pretty. It's like the song Stacies Mom. Well I don't know what to do. Advice me up.

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