I go to this camp and there is this girl I like I am 14/m and she is 16/f (I don't care that she is older) the thing is she has told me she thinks I'm hot and I've told her the same thing. She lets me feel her up and we talk most of the day at the camp. But when I asked her out she wasn't so sure because shes older and she said that she had a boyfriend (it seemed like she was using it as an excuse to dodge the question) but then she paused for a second and said she was single but then she game me this really unclear answer and left (it was at the end of the day and her parents came to pick her up so she had to leave). I'm confused, what should I do?
tasuki answered Wednesday June 21 2006, 9:49 pm: Forget about her. I think it's pretty clear that she's using you for her own physical gratification. Thinking that somebody is hot and feeling them up are not the same as loving or even liking a person. It's not a good basis for a relationship. The fact that she lied to you shows that she doesn't want a relationship. There are better girls out there, go find one. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
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