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being friends
is it better to be friend first before you get into a relationship?
because my boyfriend broke up with me because he said we messed our relationship up because we really wasnt friend when we went out and he wants to start over and he said he might or might not ask me back out is that bad?? for me??
because i love himm
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Sometimes just been friends first is a good idea somtimes not so good. It can make a relationship hard to become more than a friendship however it can let you get to know this guy better and make you better together when you to go back out. Its not bad for you because he will get to know you better and you can get to know him. If you still like eachother after that then there is no reason why you shouldnt go out. If your good together and it works after getting to know each other then there is your answer go out and be happy. Goodluck with ur friend/boyfriend
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some people say that because you dont really know the person if you arent friends first i say he just wants to know you better before going back out with you and if he doesnt ask you back out relax its just a guy and there are tons out there looking for a girl. if he wants to start over you cant fight that you just have to go with it and look at it this way, if yall do become friends and he asks you out again your relationship will probably be alot stronger good luck!
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No, it doesn't really matter. I was like best friend's with my ex and it didn't work out. Actually to honest, were not even friends anymore. People get in relationships all the time where they don't really know the person. Your ex was probaly just trying to give you an excuse, and he couldn't give you one, so he gave a lame excuse like this one. If you want to be friends with him and want to go back out with him, go ahead. I'd say there's nothing wrong with being friends with him, if you still care about him. But since you are probaly single now, don't feel obligated, like you have to wait for him to ask you back out. If you meet another guy you like, go ahead and go for it. You guys can still be friends.
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I don't think it matters if you're friends at first or not. Sometimes it's better to be friends at first because you both know stuff about each other. I've only known my boyfriend for 2 days before he asked me out && now I've been with him for a year. So, it really doesn't matter. It just depends on who the person is. If your ex still talks to you, tries to be friends with you, && flirts with you, then there's a chance that he'll ask you back out. I hope everything works out for you, good luck.
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