hi :] im 16/f!
well a couple days ago like 2 days ago my cousins neighbor (ben) was over at their house and boy let me tell you he is a cutie. well my cousin ash is like my best friend so im always over there and their neighbor always hangouts with my cousin nick. so we were all over there and like we were foolin around bein crazy and so then i go to like turn the radio system to a diff. station and ben slaps my ass with like wrapping paper haha. i didnt mind but then i acted all mad so i could flirt with him..so i was like punchin him and we were flirtin he grabbed my hand and held on so i couldnt do nothin to him and so i jumped on top of him we were all on the bed, hes layin down i straddle him so my cousin ash can kick him haha. my cousin ash me and ben go into the bathroom because thats where ben was hiding from me :] yeah he was "scared" haha so then he like grabs me from behind so he puts his arms around me and i get out and then im lookin at him forward and all of a sudden he picks me up..as im like straddling him frontwards and its all crazy! we do this for a long time like me actin as im all mad so i can flirt with him and him doin it back to me! he kept sayin.truce? truce? and im like not until i get to kick you for doin all that to me so then finally i got him and then he was like allright truce now? and my cousin shakes his hand and is like truce and i come out of the bedroom and i go give him a hug and im like yeah truce and then he had to go! so good timing lol because he had to go to baseball. i liked flirting with him it was fun! and this is the first time that we have flirted this much and like that.the only problem is that he really likes this girl and its not like i like ben its just i like flirting with him but im scared he wont want to since he likes this other girl and wants to do stuff with her supposively. what do you think i should do in this situation? what do you think ben is thinking?
SORRY SO LONG! but just thought i would let you know everything that went on ..
i will rate 5 for anyone who can help me :]
this is was I think. I think he's just a hormonal teenage boy who happens to like you too...A guy can like more than one girl. The situation seemed a little bit flirtatious for sure, but I wouldn't try too hard. Be blunt and just say, Hey I like you and was wondering if you'd like to go out? If he says no thanks, then obviously he was only interested in you in a physical matter. I know this, because I believe I've been in this situation before. If you have any other questions, ask me okay? I hope I helped out a little bit.
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