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Posted Friday August 4 2006, 10:12 pm

i go to day camp and there's this kid named zach. and i think i really like him. like, i keep thinking about him and how nice he is and how cool he is. i even had a dream about him, and this is sorta creeping me out because i'm 15 and he's as old as my 13 YEAR OLD SISTER. now, i know it's not normal for a 15 year old to like a younger guy, i mean at this age, usually 15 year old girls want to go out with 17 year olds, not 13 year olds! i mean when i was 13 i couldn't even imagine dating an 11-year old. another thing: i don't really find this kid that cute or anything (okay, yes i do. he's cute. but it's just creeping me out that i like him.) everything he does is cute..even weird stuff. so yeah. it's really awkward to like him. i talk to h...

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a LoNer


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 10:05 pm

O.K. i don't want to sound desperate b/c i'm NOT!! i'm "concerned" about my `invisible` love life. i'm 13yrs.old, a female, and going to highschool.
i haven't gotten my 1st kiss, nvr had a b.f., and will prolly be single for the rest of my life.this is kind of weird but, i want to know why boys aren't interested in me? i mean you might not know why but,idk, i NEED som adventure in my life, and i guess i don't need a b.f. but, a 1st kiss wouldn't hurt ,right???
well i dk know if this was a question but, can anyone PLEASE help me!!!!!=(

*ANY 1 who answers this please DON'T say you're pretty on the inside or "one day it'll happen" or any other thing like that!!! i want the REAL DEAL
(don...

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dreams about a boy


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 8:44 pm

14/f
i've been having dreams about this boy. he's not a stranger to me, but he's not a good friend either. the last time i saw him was sunday, july 30th at a party. i would say that i'm attractive to him, but not in a crush kind of way. that night, i had a dream about him. it was about me and him kissing in my room. i thought that i dreamt that because i love seeing him and that, like i said, am attractive to him. then, two days after that, august 1st, i had another dream about him. this was about us seeing each other in a store, i hugged him, he asked me out, then i gave him a peck in the cheek. it was more detailed, but i don't really wanna make it too detailed. i told my good friend about this, and she thought that it was weird th...

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i dont know what to do


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 7:41 pm

to get to the point my boyfriend has this friend. who stole car radios blammed it on my boyfriend. he stole a cell phone and my boyfriends friend told the cops my boyfriend did it. he recently (couple days ago) showed up at my boyfriends house wanting to hang out. i called my boyfriend and his friend in the back fround was making rude comments. about me trying ot think my boyfriend was cheating. my boyfriend promised he would make him leave his house by the time i got there i pulled up in the drive and didnt even get out of the car his friend was still there and was going to be hanging out with us. (my boyfriend and i have been fighting lately we needed sometime alone to work things out) so i pulled out of the drive and left this happened y...

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Special things


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 6:22 pm

what are some things I can do for a guy to make him feel special and aren't overly gooshy?

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How to ask


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 6:14 pm

I'm eighteen and I've had a FWB relationship with a guy that I've had a crush on since my sister and he had graduated. Didnt see him again after that until I met him at a party one night and we hit it off.
We establsihed that we would just be FWB, but lately we have become like B/F and G/F without the title.
We both don't have that great of a track record of relationships, both our hearts were broken.
But I'm tired of this because I want to know what is up with this.
I don't want to weird him out - but I really do want to know how to approach him about it in a non pressuring way. I don't want to ruin what we have now to because I like it. Advice please?

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Topics to bring up with your crush


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 2:34 pm

Hey everyone,

I know you guys hate these types of questions, but when I talk to my crush I become completely tongue tied and always end up making small talk that goes NO WHERE. I really want to get closer to him and this just isnt cutting it. Someone please help?

Thanks in advance.

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how to meet a guy


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 2:15 pm

i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help

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long distance?


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 2:11 pm

ok so heres the story i saw this kid i liked when i was in seventh grade and he was in 8th and i never thought he'd like me. then i moved to florida before 8th grade and i forgot about him. so i go back to ny in the summer for vacations and i saw him playing hockey and i thought he was really hot and he thought i was hot. so i got his screen name and we started talking and he asked me if i ever made out and then he asked if i would make out with him. i said if i ever got the chance than yes. We want to get together next summer and i really want to make out with him but im wondering if he's just using me. Should i not do it and i talk to him online and i never know what to tlalk about. i mean i dont want to just blurt out questions. i want t...

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How to get rid of a boy...in a few days?


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 11:32 am

There is this boy who really likes me and I did like him...we were a 'thing' for about 2 weeks and then I realised he's too serious about it and I'm too young and stuff. He still likes me but I don't! I told him that we're better off friends and seriously that's a good thing right now.
How do I get him to get the clue again??????????

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This sucks.


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 11:15 am

This guy who is about a year older than me came here to florida to visit my friend's brother for a week. After knowing him for about three or four days, I started to like him. Yes, I know it's kind of sudden. He's incredibly funny, hot, smart, etc. But he's going back to Wisconsin today. I'm really sad now. Ughhh. Should I just try and stay in touch(If so, HOW?!) or just try to forget him somehow? (I always try to forget about a guy and it never works because a few months later something will remind me of him and it makes me really sad)

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I don't know how


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 8:40 am

My boyfriend has a friend thats having a party next Saturday. She used to like him andhe used to like her. I want to go because I don't trust her. He said I could go if I wanted but he didn't ask me directly. What can I say to him to invite me without thinking I don't trust him?
14/F


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who should i believe


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 8:30 am

I'm crying right now because I'm not sure if my boyfriend is using me. Today, some girl I go to school with (who used to go out with my boyfriend) sent me a myspace comment that said "Your boyfriend said he thinks I'm beautiful and he wants to go back out with me and make out with me again. He's only going out with you to get hand jobs and blow jobs." I asked my boyfriend if it was true and he said no she's lying because shes just jealous. I don't really want to believe that girl because she's not really my friend and she's really sluttish she's done alot with guys and I know she still likes my boyfriend and wants to break us up, but maybe shes telling the truth and thats what scares me the most. I sent a comment to my boyfriend t...

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is she cheating on me


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 5:42 am

i am into a long distant relationship. my girl is in school (university). i dont see her often but i talk with her several times everyday. most times when i call at night she is usually with a guy she calls her casual friend, hanging outside her hostel with him till as late as midnight, almost every night. i asked if the guy doesnt have a gilrfriend to hang with and she says he doesnt. i have had haggles with her about 3 times asking if she is dating the guy but she insists that they are only friends and even says the guy is looking forward to meeting me and taking me out whenever i come to visit her. she even once asked if she should give the phone to the guy so that i talk to him but i was too angry to reply her at that time. i dont know ...

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friends with my ex is tearing me up


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 3:30 am

I broke up with my ex a month and a half ago, and I'm still not over it. He dumped me, and then wanted to be friends.. and I refused, and we didn't speak for a couple of weeks. Then we spoke again, worked out everything, and agreed to speak in person, perhaps get back together (a couple of days later, he said he "thought about it carefully" and said he only wanted to be friends) We fought again, and then stopped talking yet again I was happy with this. I don't believe in being friends with someone afterwards, because I know I can't get over them that way and there's just no need for it. I was a little sad our friendship had been ruined because we had been good friends for 5 years, but not talking helped me to get over him. For a t...

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Bad Breakup


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 1:28 am

im a 14/m and in march i went out with this girl and we didnt realy see each other that much because we both had alot going on and then we decided just to break up until summer but i dont know what a was thinking and was realy mean and said alot of stuff i didnt mean and this made her hate me and i realy regret it and that is the only thing i have ever regreted in my life but anyway lately i have seen her around and it has made me feel even worse and want to be with her even more but i just wanted some advice on how i can let her know how i feel and how sorry i am and that i still like her alot and would like another chance
p.s. i know its to probly to late to start over with her but i wanna givve it a chance

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Posted Friday August 4 2006, 1:09 am

Well, I was talking to one of my friend's friends. He's actually a year ahead of me. He was trying to figure out what my name should be or who I looked like. After like two minutes of staring at me he said, "Hm. You look like a dayna. You have bigger....nevermind. I'm not gonna say it." What did he mean? Then him and his friend were talking and my friend had just told them I was spending the night and they were like," Oh, really? Hm." and they started whispering to each other and my friend's friend had some creepy smile on his face. Finally they just went back to playing a game. I said, "Okay. Um. What was that about?" and they just smiled at each other and the one who said something about me looking like a day...

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Posted Friday August 4 2006, 12:37 am

how do you chose between two guys. both like you. you like them both. one is a little more extreme then the other. a little more out there. how do you chose. i dont want to make the wrong decision.

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does he like me or is he just being friendly?


Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 11:18 pm

I have no clue if this guy likes me. he's visiting my friend for a week. whenever we first met, he looked me up and down and then he smiled at me and him and his friend both exchanged looks and smiled at each other. everytime I go over to my friends house he goes, "OH! CARRIE'S BACK!" and smiles. he said this to me today...are you polish? you have a nice polish look about you." but I guess that's a complimentthen him and his friend were trying to decide what my name should be and he said, "you look like a samantha. you have bigger..never mind. I wont say it." I still am not sure what was he talking about. everyone was splashing me with water from the pool after my hair had just been dyed and I didn't want it to chan...

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help again. no one answered my question last time so im doin


Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 10:28 pm

16/f--Okay,well i like this guy. hes a year older than me. And i told him that I liked him, and he told me that he felt the same way about me. We have been talking a lot and flirting and he said that one day he is going to take me somewhere where you can see the stars clearly and just lay there staring at them. But, I dont understand why we arent going out. We both really really like eachother and we flirt like crazy. Everyone always think that we are going out and when they ask me, im always like im not and they are all like are you sure? and im like yah. So what should i do to tell him that i wanna go out with him??!


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