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I don't know how


Question Posted Friday August 4 2006, 8:40 am

My boyfriend has a friend thats having a party next Saturday. She used to like him andhe used to like her. I want to go because I don't trust her. He said I could go if I wanted but he didn't ask me directly. What can I say to him to invite me without thinking I don't trust him?
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Alli answered Saturday August 5 2006, 6:47 pm:
You can ask him to do something different that same night and then if he says yes take him to a movie. If that doesnt work maybe go with him and be with him the whole time and is he asks why you are leechy say kinda sadly maybe pretend to start to cry and say "I just dont want to lose you to the other girl". But if he really likes you, you can trust him and he can trut you.

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lostxlustx151 answered Friday August 4 2006, 12:47 pm:
Well I don't know if you should really go. Because then he may feel the need to break up with you because he may start to feel like you don't trust him!

But here is something to think of, if he still really liked her he would have chosen her over you. He chose you over her,so that much mean that he likes you more then her.

But if you feel like you honestly must truly go, then try telling him you have nothing to do on Saturday night. Drop hints like yeah I'm gonna be bored on Saturday, blah blah no one is gonna be home. So that way he may start to feel bad and then just invite you!

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denajah5 answered Friday August 4 2006, 11:10 am:
if you keep looking for ways to get him to ask you he will eventually notice it and he might get mad because he may think you dont trust him. if you trust him 100% you dont need to go. but if you really want to go then go. he said you can go if you wanted to so thats all ur gonna get out of him. but he may be testing you to see if you trust him. i think u shouldnt go because you could ruin something good.

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