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who should i believe
I'm crying right now because I'm not sure if my boyfriend is using me. Today, some girl I go to school with (who used to go out with my boyfriend) sent me a myspace comment that said "Your boyfriend said he thinks I'm beautiful and he wants to go back out with me and make out with me again. He's only going out with you to get hand jobs and blow jobs." I asked my boyfriend if it was true and he said no she's lying because shes just jealous. I don't really want to believe that girl because she's not really my friend and she's really sluttish she's done alot with guys and I know she still likes my boyfriend and wants to break us up, but maybe shes telling the truth and thats what scares me the most. I sent a comment to my boyfriend that said, "I heard you're using me for sex and I told you I wasn't ready yet so you can dump me right now or keep going out with me, but either way you're not getting ANYTHING past making out so don't even go there." I said that when I was really sad/pissed off so I kind of let out my anger. Who do I believe? How do I find out who really is telling the truth? I don't want to get myself hurt in the future.
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It sounds like shes trying to spoil & ruin things for you, sometimes seeing people happy hurts them as they lack happiness! I wouldnt take her word for it until you hear your boyfriends side of it. It could be her seeking attention & trying to wreck something that could be special!
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I think you believe your boyfriend. My first thought on reading your question was that she was just a jealous ex. Then read that your boyfriend said the same. You have to trust someone to have a good relationship. Don't let this ex girlfriend make you mad at him...that's exactly what she wants.
I think you need to get in touch with him about the message on myspace. Better yet, keeping in mind I know nothing about myspace, go there and apologise too. I don't know if she would have access to his myspace and what you wrote but you don't need her to see that she got to you. If she does she will continue telling you stories to make you wonder.
Everyone will get hurt at some time in their lives for trusting someone or loving the wrong person. Its just going to happen. I think you need to give this relationship more of a chance.
Never believe an ex. Especially if they may still have feelings for the person.
Good luck. :)
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