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Bad Breakup
im a 14/m and in march i went out with this girl and we didnt realy see each other that much because we both had alot going on and then we decided just to break up until summer but i dont know what a was thinking and was realy mean and said alot of stuff i didnt mean and this made her hate me and i realy regret it and that is the only thing i have ever regreted in my life but anyway lately i have seen her around and it has made me feel even worse and want to be with her even more but i just wanted some advice on how i can let her know how i feel and how sorry i am and that i still like her alot and would like another chance
p.s. i know its to probly to late to start over with her but i wanna givve it a chance
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hey well for starters it si snevr to late to try again you did mess up but who doesn't. I 'm a girl and one thing i know about girls is taht they liek when guys come out and tell them how they feel. So tell her one day hang out in person and just take her aside and say im sorry for everything i've really realized howmuch i need you and how much you mean to me. I kno i really messed up but i want to start over. and all that just say what you feel. Let me know what happens!
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To be honest with you, you shouldn't have your hopes up for making this work...but you're right, you should give it a chance and try. If it doesn't work at all in the end, just move on but then at least you'd know that you tried (which is a lot better than wondering what would of have happened if you didn't.
Ok, so now what to do to try and get her back. Write her a letter telling her how sorry you are, and make it a long one. Even if she doesn't seem to be happy or do anything after that- don't give up yet. She will probably keep that letter and reread it again and again. After that, you could maybe buy her some flowers and just give them to her with a note saying sorry. Something else that she will definetely love is you making a cd for her. You can burn a cd with a bunch of songs that talk about "being sorry" and "regreting"...etc. She'll see that you took the time to put it together. You could continue giving her things, but not too many things. After that, you should go to her house or try and meet somewhere and just talk about everything.
I really hope everything works out for you..and remember, don't give up after a couple tries. BUT don't go overboard and be "stalker-ish". I hope I helped!
-Princez Peach
ps. girls like things that you made for them, it shows that you took time to make something just for them.( you could compose her a song, draw or paint a picture for her, write a poem...)
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I would either try a letter or in person don't do it over the phone. I would also explain that it was because you were hurt and confused that you were mean to her and tell her that you are sorry. Suggest to her that you start out as friends and take it from there so that if she doesn't want to date you at least you guys can have a friendship.
Good Luck
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She may not forgive you for hurting her but it is worth giving it a try. Send her a card or a letter saying how sorry you are and ask if you could be friends. If you explain what was going on for you at the time she may be willing to let the past go.
It is quite possible that she will throw it back in your face and say some hurtful things back. You will have to take it and show her how much you have matured by not getting into a mud-slinging row.
If she says that she does not want to forgive you or get back with you, then accept it gracefully, learn from your mistake and see it as a part of growing up.
I wish you all the very best and hope you can get what you desire.
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