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Confusing boys..
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:55 pm
I broke up with my ex boyfriend from a couple years about a month ago. We didn't talk that much since then but last week we started to. I went to a party at his house and he didn't act any different but the next day he called me and was showing signs that he liked me. Like he said he was glad he saw me and that I should have slept next to him and stuff. I really think that if I keep hanging out with him then feelings will come back to him. I don't want to be too clingy though and ask him. But how can I make him feel the same way again? I tried playing hard to get but it only lasts so long. I really want to get him back. How should I do it?
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summer fling.
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:55 pm
so me & this kid justin we hooked up a couple times in the summer. we both said we didnt want it just to be a booty call. so at school we have geometry together.we talk but not too much which i would love to talk to him more. we probably would be closer but he got his phone taken away from him for awhile because he got caught drinking which im fine with. i just need to be able to bring up more convo during geometry to talk about with him. like me & him are close but like we have that type of relationship where we make fun of eachother and like when he walks past my desk and always like hits my pencil while im writing for like tap me on the cheek like kidding around like flirting and stuff. but like i want a relationship cause i lik...
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Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:54 pm
18/f
I've only been dating my guy for a few weeks but we've had a strong connection ever since we met. Whether it is conversationally, emotionally, or physically, we've just always been in the same place.
Well, i've recently noticed a change in our relationship (I know it's only been a few weeks but like I said, it seems like we're in a pretty serious relationship). Before we officially started dating, and even for a while after, we'd have amazing conversations on various things. Everything from parents to politics to the school system to sex. I told him how I quit cheerleading, about my relationship with my family (we're really close), friends, and just so many things that I usually don't tell...
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his hatred of homosexuals scares me
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:44 pm
My bf has a real mean streak in him when it comes to gay people. Well he told me one day that every time Queer Eye For The Straight Guy came on tv he felt like throwing his boot threw the screen. He also said he wanted to hurt Boy George every time one of his songs came on the radio; and when I told him I liked Will and Grace he gave me the dirtiest look. He doesnt just put down gays either he also makes derogatory remarks about women; that we are inferior to men and that they are smarter. It's also the WAY he says these things too; with so much hate in his voice. This one time I jokingly said women were smarter then men and he yelled "prove it"! And then he pulled out a chain linked puzzle. He said if I was so smart I could...
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can it work??
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:37 pm
17/f
ok so here's what happened. there's this guy i've known since 7th grade, and ever since then i've had a crush on him. we were always pretty good friends, but that's all he saw me as. well, about a year ago i moved to a different state so naturally, we didn't stay *best* friends. i went back to my home state over the summer and i called him up and we met up. he took me to dinner and such and he was just acting like we were bf and gf the whole time. at the end of the night when i had to go to my friend's house to spend the night there, he kept huggin me and sayin how much he was going to miss me and how he didn't realize how much he missed me and he got a little teary eyed. before i got in the car to leave, he kissed me on...
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crying for him
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:01 pm
i dumped a guy and i want him back he styll has feelings for me but doesent want me back!! so what should i do knowing that i love him and knowing i ain't with him makes me cry..
HELP
-thank you
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So many crushes....
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 5:54 pm
I'm in the 8th grade...
Well I've never had a boyfriend before. And I really want to get one around this time of age... but the problem is I have seen so many cute guys in my school that I have a crush on (5 or 6 to be exact). I really dont know who I like better. They are all wonderful guys. I need advice on what to do... I really want to flirt with my top crush (the guy I like best) but all of my crushes are almost the same... So basically I'm saying that I have alot of crushes and don't know how to choose one... :/
somebody help me?!
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IS IT RIGHT FOR A GIRL TO DRIVE MY BOYFRIENDS TRUCK? WHEN IM
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 5:24 pm
Hey so like I need advice.
My boyfriend and I will be a year in like 10 days or so. Anyway well last night I was upset or w/e cause he didn't call me the night before and I waited till like 1 in the morning for him to call even though I had school. Well yeah yesterday night he left my house told me he was going to hangout with his friends an record a video of his friend going through the carwash or whatever so i was like alright. So yeah he went or whatever an I got a call that night an he told me all went on. And yeah today his friend came over to show me the video an I guess they did it on his truck in the car wash. And I was like so matt if your recording who is driving your truck an he was like kelly. So I got pissed bec...
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kissing in school ?
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 5:14 pm
My boyfriend just told be that he doesn't want to kiss at school.
I don't see why he doesn't want to kiss at school. Maybe if it was making out, because I wouldn't makeout in school either. But just a peck?!
I know he has alot of friends, and maybe it would be a little embarassing to kiss infront of his friends, expectally guys. So I understand from his point of view.
But My heart felt like it was bleeding wide open today. I felt like I needed to be with him, I wanted to kiss him. & now I can't.
I don't get to see him constantly out of school either. =/ And plus I'm almost constantly supervised, expect when I'm in school.
I don't know what I'm going to do.. help? =/
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just friends?
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:42 pm
when a guy says that he thinks im cute but doesnt really think he could see us as boyfriend and girlfriend mean i have no chance with him? or should i become better friends with him, hoping that we could have a chance.. or does it seem he wants nothing to do with me?
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Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:33 pm
im a junior in highschool and we just started school last thursday. my sophmore year whenever i saw this boy mark at a party or out we`d always end up just making out or whatever. and sometimes we`d talk randomly alot online or on the phone. in july before i went away for 2 weeks he started calling me and wanted to hangout, but we didnt.. we actually just talked alot. he called me when i was away and we never actually ended up hangin out when i got home. we kept in touch. the middle of august we started to talk again and saw ecahother a few times and called eacother everyday and at night. he told me he really liked me. my parents were away so i hada a few guys over my house and he wouldnt even show any affection towards me while everyone w...
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ive got my eye on him..how do i get his attention!?
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:27 pm
there is this guy at my cousins school that is very very attractive :) ..my cousin doesnt really talk to him though! it sucks..and like he is one of the really popular kids and i guess alot of girls like him. i just wish he would notice me one time! like i went to their schools football game and it was really really cold and my hair was all messed up and came unstraight and it was a mess! it seems like everytime i look alright then i never see him and when i look like crap i always see him! i dont want to like go up to him and have him be like ohhh kay i dont know you? and go back and tell people wow this weird girl came up to me and was trying to talk to me. all of my cousins friends think im soo gorgeous but i dont see it..and we always h...
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how do i tell him he's not gonna get to see me until decembe
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 3:51 pm
HEEY AND HEELP!
okay so my crush is a long distance boyy, like really long distance! i just found out im not gonna see him next week as plannerd, i have to wait for christmas! so how do i tell him that he's gonna have to wait longer, yet making sure he doesn't give up on me.. cause he mights just start liking some other chick since there's no point in holding on that long..
should i maybe make it seem not far away (christmas i mean) ??
or should i give him some kinda hope that will get him all excited and waiting for christmas to come??
like promise him something?
or some kind of hint that something might happen between us??
or what?
what do you think??
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does he like me
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 3:44 pm
So me and my best friend lisa like these two boys named andrew and justin. They talk to us and justin likes lisa but i mean i just stared talking andrew like two weeks ago. we have like EVERYTHING in common and hes nice and funny and know how to make me smile. Me Lisa, Justin, and Andrew are all in chorus together and like everyday after chorus for like 3 days we have gave Justin and Andrew stickers. and today i was walking with them and lisa gave justin one and adrian heard it and hes like STICKERS! and im like yup and gave it to him and it said "never forget your special" and hes like awee thanks! :]
and he like walked by and looked at me and halfish smiledish and i was just wondering if it sounds at alll like he likes me i have no ideaa tho. how would i know?
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:(
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 2:18 pm
16/f.
So theres this girl..I've been friends with her for so long, a couple of years. Well last year, at the end, I sort of had a little crush on her. I never really thought anything of it. Well over the summer, I had a little thing with a lesbian, not a full on relationship, but just a thing. So i discovered that I'm bisexual. Anyway, back to my friend. I like her, a lot. I always think about her, and things I wanna do with her. I invited her to my house to spend the night, but that ended up not working out because of my parents being tierd. Anyway. She knows I'm bi, and that I have a crush on her, I told her. But she won't admitt she's bi or lesbian to me becuase she thinks I'm gonna tell my best friend. I mean I love my friend so ...
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my best friend likes her ex again..
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 1:44 pm
my best friend and her boyfriend just recently broke up mostly because they never talked. She really regrets breaking up with him, but realizes that he's not going to change. She keeps thinking that hes going to change, when they could go for LONG PERIODS OF TIME not talking. I don't think it's healthy for her to continually try and be with this kid because he doesn't do anything different and he's just period a waste of time, and a large chunk of her heart she doesn't need to break anymore. It hurts me to see her in such pain and I've tried talking to her about it and she listens but I think it would be nice for her to have some different options or opinions from other people. Please help her out. Thanks guys.
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i love him
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 12:58 pm
17 female
ive know my best friend for about three years now, he's amazing. he's jut so funny and smart and caring. i realised about three months ago that i'd fallen in love with him but i haven't told him because i don't want to spoil our friendship. he's jsut the most amazing person ive every met and i want to tell him how i feel because its eating me up inside. so how do i tell him?
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spiked drink
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 12:31 pm
ok, i was at a house party last week and i didnt really know everybody who was there, it was really my friend who wanted to go. everybody got really drunk but i didnt because i dont drink.
anyway these guys started talking to me but i said i wasnt interested because i have a boyfirend. (ive been seeing him for a year and i love him to bit.) so we just sat talking and they brought me a drink from the kitchen and i remember i felt ill and went to the bathroom but i dont remember anything after that except waking up in a bed. i think they spiked my drink and im worried they did something to me and i dont know who they were.
do i tell my boyfirend and if so, how? i dont want him not to believe me and think i cheated on him.
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Does it make me a hoe?
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 12:52 am
Ok well this guy i know well is a man whore basically but i got to know him for like a year and i really like fell inlove with him i mean he is a real funny guy and i knew at that point he wasnt just trying to get in my pants...then we started having an interest in eachother then like around year later we had sex and it happens all the time now but like im not going on with him cuz we both dont want to have bf or a gf but he goes out on the weekends and fucks random girls...but idk if hes in love with me probably not but does that make me a hoe that im still fucking this guy bc im inlove with him knowing he probably isnt inlove with me and that he goes and be's a hoe on the weekends?
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Not your average Kissing Question!
Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 12:45 am
Okay, so the other day I (stupidly) asked my boyfriend if I was a good kisser or not.
His answer? 'Your kisses are animalistic and primal' which I'm thinkin' is good, right?
Then he said, 'It's much more visceral kissing you comapred to other girls I've been with.....'
Ummmmm - WTF?! I've got no idea what that means!
Is that a good thing? Does he like kissing me?
I'z confused! Please help!:)
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