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Does it make me a hoe?
Ok well this guy i know well is a man whore basically but i got to know him for like a year and i really like fell inlove with him i mean he is a real funny guy and i knew at that point he wasnt just trying to get in my pants...then we started having an interest in eachother then like around year later we had sex and it happens all the time now but like im not going on with him cuz we both dont want to have bf or a gf but he goes out on the weekends and fucks random girls...but idk if hes in love with me probably not but does that make me a hoe that im still fucking this guy bc im inlove with him knowing he probably isnt inlove with me and that he goes and be's a hoe on the weekends?
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Okay well first of all remember that your nothing that you don't think you are and all you are is how you see yourself. you know yourself better than anyone and yours is the only opinion that matters, not anyone elses, and not ours. however i would like to give you advice in saying that it's totally normal if you want to do someone your in love with, but if he doesn't love you that is not at all fiar to you. yes, chances are if he isn't in love with you and he likes his player lifestyle he might just dismiss it if you say you want a serious relationship with him, but if you really do want a relationship it's worth a shot. who knows, maybe he'll want to try it for once. and if not (i'm sorry for the sucky advice but) you deserve better. yo may not realize it and you may be in love but that much is true. like i siad, it's just not fiar to you. and maybe he'll come around later when he gets it. but for now good luck with your illema and hope i helped.
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No it doesn't. If you were out there doing the same shit he was doing, then I could see you getting the lable of being a hoe.
Even though the feeling is not mutual, you are doing it because you love him. Having sex with someone you LOVE is not a big deal. Whether or not they love you back is a different story.
It's ONE guy. Not 5 not 10. Just one. I will warn you, having sex with someone will make you emotionally attatched to them. If you're already in love with him, having sex with him is going to make you even MORE attatched. And he seems like a typical guy.. But he could be the type that will just get sick of you and say "Hey, I don't want to talk to you anymore".
So you just have to know that he might end up hurting you, and being as emotionally attatched as you are can cause problems for you in the future.
Best of luck.
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well, bluntly said- i dont think this makes you anything but extremely naive, and playing as just another girl in his game. the only way to really make it clear to you would be to use what you sed against you. "im not going on with him cuz we both dont want to have bf or a gf but he goes out on the weekends and fucks random girls..."- if you know about those random girls, and know what hes doing- who's to say that to those girls youre not just a 'random girl'- any girl who likes being put in that situation has a serious problem. i dont think you should be so hard on yourself by asking if that made you a ho. youre jsut as bad as him in this scenario because youe both taking part in it. i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he most definetely does NOT love you, and dont let him ever try and tell you otherwise. someone who loved someone else wouldnt go around sleepin with other people. truth of the matter is, i know you can do better. people are probably going to bash you on this question- but dont let what they say get to you. just learn from it, and get away from the situation youve found yourself in.
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What is your definition of a "hoe?" You readily call him a hoe, but are reluctant to own the title yourself. That seems really hypocritical, since both of you are engaging in random, uncommitted sex acts. Everyone he "f****" is basically passing all their germs from their entire sexual history back to you through him. Even if you are all using condoms everytime (yeah, right) you are putting yourself at high risk for serious, painful and deadly viruses. This dangerous behavior begs the following question: What's your definition of "stupid?" Respect your body and yourself. Being "in love" is a poor excuse to put yourself at repeated risk and allow yourself to be emotionally and physically used by anyone. You deserve better!
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oh girl! i would not even give this boy a second glance. you need to be careful you could end up with aids or somethin if hes really going out all the time and screwing around.
does he know that your in love with him? you know people are blinded by love and blinded by huge crushes as well. so make sure you are fully in love with him..and listen, if its meant to be its gonna happen in the end.
you should ask him if he thinks you guys will be anything more than just fuck buddies basically...
especially if youve known him for what? over a year? and if he says not right now...just be like do you EVER think it will happen. and he say idk..i really wouldnt give him a second glance. because guys like to play. boys want what they cant have. sounds like you wear your heart on ur sleeve so be careful gurl
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You aren't a hoe, a whore or any of those things. You are in love. Therefore you still want to be with him.
You both shouldn't be having sex at all if you both aren't together. If he's still having sex with you but doesn't want you to be his girlfriend then that should tell you that he's into you for the sex. Especially if he's off having sex with other girls. Do you know how dangerous that is for you? One of those girls could have an STD and you may think it won't happen, but it will if you continue to play with fire here.
Besides, do you really want to be with a guy who does nothing but uses you and doesn't even care about you? You shouldn't and you deserve a lot better than this.
-TheTeenGirl
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