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how do i tell him he's not gonna get to see me until decembe
HEEY AND HEELP!
okay so my crush is a long distance boyy, like really long distance! i just found out im not gonna see him next week as plannerd, i have to wait for christmas! so how do i tell him that he's gonna have to wait longer, yet making sure he doesn't give up on me.. cause he mights just start liking some other chick since there's no point in holding on that long..
should i maybe make it seem not far away (christmas i mean) ??
or should i give him some kinda hope that will get him all excited and waiting for christmas to come??
like promise him something?
or some kind of hint that something might happen between us??
or what?
what do you think??
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Well I'm guessing you haven't seen him in a while? [or ever] You could always try saying something like, "well you've waited this long for me, it wouldn't hurt anything to wait a little longer. It's only three months and it'll more than likely fly by and be here in no time."
Or tell him that if he really likes you [I'm not sure of your status with him as far as being a 'crush' so you may need to take it down a notch if you guys aren't that serious yet. Anyways if he really likes you, tell him he'll wait for you. Tell him that if he thinks you're worth it, he'll wait. Tell him things like that, make him feel guilty if you want, you gotta do what you gotta do hah.
& Tell him that if he waits three more months, it'll def be worth the wait and you'll make it up to him when you guys are together.
Make sure that you're going to get to see him at christmas though. Don't keep getting his hopes up for nothing cus that really does become frustrating. And if it keeps happening, he probably will be expecting it to happen again the next time and he won't take it/you seriously.
There's alot of things you could say to him really. It would be alot easier if I knew him, his personality. Anyways if you need anything else let me know!
=] Evy
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