Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 5:14 pm
My boyfriend just told be that he doesn't want to kiss at school.
I don't see why he doesn't want to kiss at school. Maybe if it was making out, because I wouldn't makeout in school either. But just a peck?!
I know he has alot of friends, and maybe it would be a little embarassing to kiss infront of his friends, expectally guys. So I understand from his point of view.
But My heart felt like it was bleeding wide open today. I felt like I needed to be with him, I wanted to kiss him. & now I can't.
I don't get to see him constantly out of school either. =/ And plus I'm almost constantly supervised, expect when I'm in school.
MelLeDisko answered Thursday September 14 2006, 3:40 pm: Yeah, I can understand both the point of views you and your boyfriend have. You guys just need to learn to comprimise. You won't give him a kiss infront of his friends, but maybe you and him can find a little "sneakaway" place like the kids in school do. Like, sometimes the couples'll be walking up the stairs, and if nobody else is walking there, they'll do a quick peck and continue on. Just let him know how you feel and how you want to be able to give him a little kiss at school since you two hardly get to see eachother. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
Elcee answered Thursday September 14 2006, 9:21 am: I can see both sides of this problem - on the one hand you want to demonstrate how you feel about him and on the other he will get very embarrassed if you do.
You need to work out a little compromise that will suit you both. Is it possible to sneak five minutes away from everyone else every day just to have a quick peck? Suggest that you find a special place out of sight of prying eyes.
I know that it can be hard to curb your natural instinct to kiss someone you really like but if you look at it from another angle - how does he feel?
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