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crying for him
i dumped a guy and i want him back he styll has feelings for me but doesent want me back!! so what should i do knowing that i love him and knowing i ain't with him makes me cry..
HELP
-thank you
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It's hard after breaking up with someone, and you miss the person but there was a reason you broke up and if you give it some time you'll feel comfortable with your decision.
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Just try talking to him about it. I'm sure since he still has feelings for you, he'll listen to what you have to say. Just explain to him that you're not really sure why you dumped him, you were confused and whatnot, but once you did it you realized just how much you miss him and like him. Like they say,"You don't know what you've got till it's gone." And just tell him you know he doesn't want you back, but does he think there's still a chance? Because maybe over time if you two get to hang out again and talk and feelings are still there, maybe you guys can get back together, because you'd really like that. And hopefully he'll want to!
But, there's always the possibility of the "no".
If that were to happen, then the best advice I can give you there is to try your very best to just get over him. Focus on other things, activities, friends, your life and try to enjoy yourself. If you're still all sad, once you start pretending to have a little fun, after awhile you WILL start having fun. Try taking up a new hobby, listen to your favorite music, just do whatever you like! It might take awhile, but soon you'll get over him.
But hopefully you won't have to, and I hope I helped.
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You could talk to him about this. Explain that you still have feelings for him and you were just confused, so that lead you to dumping him. Tell him that you didn't mean to dump him, you just didn't know what to do. Explain to him you love him a lot and you want and need him in your life. Without him, you're nothing and you just want him by your side again. Maybe you could do something cute for him? You could make him a card, saying on the front 'I miss you and I want you back!' Than, in the inside of the card, write all the things you love about him and how much you miss having him as a boyfriend. Once you're done, you could mail it to him, or just slip it in his locker at school. Something cute like that might change his mind, since he's going to know how much you really do love him and want him back. ♥
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Try talking to him && telling him how you feel. Tell him how you cant stop crying about it && know that you made a big mistake.
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Just try to forget about him. =[ I know it will be hard, but i am sure you'll find other guys you'll like and they'll like you. Just try to think of whats best for both of you.
Good luck
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