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I Feel Unworthy of His Love
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 9:42 am
I am in love with this guy. And he feels the same toward me. However, he is better than me in every way. He's smarter, better-looking, and so on. This makes me feel inferior and insecure. I feel I'm not worthy of his love. I feel extremely small when I'm with him. I wish I could be as intelligent as him in order to be more worthy of his love. I hate myself. I hate my shortcomings. My biggest fear is that he would abandon me because of the fact I'm not as great as him. As a genius, he has every reason to despise me. He outshines me in every area. Whenever I detect a tiny sign that he might ignore/hate me, I feel like dying. Because of these, I'm not myself when I'm with this guy. I care TOO much about how he thinks of me. I appear very nervo...
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Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 6:57 am
I asked a girl out and she rejected me cause she said she wasn't ready for a relationship but she still liked me we still talked and were still good friends but about a week after i asked out my friend i started talking to a different girl that i meet through a friend so i told her that i was going to talk to her and she got mad at me and i feel kind of bad was i wrong to start talking to this girl what should i do
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nights are hard.
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 11:02 pm
i dated my ex for 2 years.
he broke up with me around 2 months ago.
during the day i feel good about myself, like i can get over him, but one the night time comes around, i cry, alot. he still kisses me and holds me and stuff, but he talks to these 2 girls that don't like me, and they always talk a lot about me, and seeing him flirting w/ them and stuff hurts me alot. so i have 2 questions
1) how can i make nights any easier for me? i'm so sick of feeling sorry for myself.
2) how can i just ignore who he talks to. i try so hard not to, but i can't help it.
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Ah!!
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 9:30 pm
To many boys. I don't know. I just got done going out with this really nice kid. He was a player though. He broke up with me 5 days after. He said everything was going fine before. We watched a movie, snuggled, swam. The usual. Well that night he broke up with me and was like " I can't take the rumors " I shouldn't have gone out with him in the first place, for 2 reasons: 1 he took this toy thing and won't give it back, and 2 he is a player. He said we were goin to last forever though, psh. whatever. now he is going back out with his ex. CRAZINESS! because she isn't aloud to have a boyfriend so they won't ever get to do anything together. ugh. back on topic. i like only a few guys at my school. i don't know how to ...
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should i?
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 9:27 pm
ok...look i am a vergin & i wanna have sex but i dont noe if i should or not wut do us think about sex?
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what to do
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 9:18 pm
i know this is long but i really need some help.......hi im a soph guy and i like this freshman girl and i met her 2 years ago and just met her again this year in math class..anyway theres something about her that makes me really care for her i havent told her that yet but the problem is that we were talking since school sarted about a week and a half and on saturday we were supposed to hang out but her mom made her go to her neighbors get together and that same night a guy asked her out and she said yes...we talked a little since then but it seems like its not the same since i dont know her thta well i didnt think this would bother me but it really does so i dont know if i should tell her how i feel and risk her either not talking to me or...
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how can i talk to him?
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 8:07 pm
theres this boy who just moved around my way and hes friends with one of my best friends. i like him alot and everytime he looks at me i feel wird like i dont know how to explain. i wanna talk to him but i dont know what to say. to day i saw him when i got home from school and it was a perfect time to talk to him because there was no one out side BUT i dont know what to say any one has any cool topics that i can start with? hes really in to sports.
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mixed signals
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 7:30 pm
there isa guy in my art class who i think likes me and he is relly sweet but he is engaged i don't know if iam getting mixed signals or what i am so confused!!!
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more than a friend?
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 7:27 pm
okay.i am a 15 year old sophmore and i have this friend who is a guy. we are really basically best friends since kindergarden. in kindergarden i would kiss him everyday and i considered him my "boyfriend", lol. but ever since 8th grade i have had feelings for him that i would consider more than a friend feeling. i never said anything in 8th grade because one of my bestfriends liked him for a while. but then in freshman year she no longer liked him anymore. and towards the end of the school year he actually had the same feeling for me. but it turned out to not work out because he said it was like a week untill summer vacation and i wouldnt really see him that often and he didnt want to ruin our friendship because we have a great on...
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DESPERATE FOR HELP
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 7:20 pm
there is a guy at school who i really like please help me find a way to attract him...I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP!!!!!!!!!
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Posted Monday September 18 2006, 6:07 pm
i gave my boyfriend a handjob and had seamen on my hand. Im pretty sure my hand was dry, but i touched myself down there a few minutes later. i'm freaking out that i could be pregnant, but if the seamen was dry, there wasnt alice sperm on my hand right?
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i like this really cute guy
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:54 pm
i like this cute guy. he's cute, funny, and smart. really what my problem is, is that i think he might have a gf. im new to his school and i have no idea whats going on with other ppl. at lunch he would finish his lunch and go sit with these other girls for like 2 minutes. but he will do this at every lunch with the same group of girls. he is in 3 of my classes everyday so i would like some advice on how i could get him to like me or even just what i should do about this situation. thx in advance.&hearts
P.S. im 13/f and i am wearing miniskirt to school tomorrow.
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i have a boyfriend but this other boy wants to be with me
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 5:30 pm
hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have a boyfriend and we have been together about 6 months now but theres this other boy who goes to his school who is asking me out and we are friends and i dont want to go out with him because im in love with the boy im with now and i dont want to break any hearts. what shall i do or say to them?
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"you're perfect for me"/ 2 min. later/ blocks me ??
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 4:40 pm
TOTAL MIXED SIGNALS!
my crush and I, we IM:ed earlier today..
and he went "you're so perfect for me, we like the same movies, songs, everything" and i was soooo happy because of that, but i had to go offline, so i said bye, but then i realized id rather talk to him than do anything else.. so i went online again, and he blocked me! my friend said he was still online, but he "went offline" as soon as i logged in.. WHYY? i cant ask him about this, so do i just NOT talk to him until he talks to me? or what?
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My friend or my love?
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 4:05 pm
I have a slight problem!! My best friends girlfriend likes me and I like her to. I heard a rumor about that his girlfriend was flirting and dancing with someone else at a party. Should I tell him and have him devastated? I am afraid of how he would take the info!!! He would be sad if he took it wrong. so what should I do? ADVICENATORS, HELP ME!!!!
13/m,sup4321
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my boyfriend
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 3:54 pm
ok well after school i always walk with my boyfriend to the bus even when he stays after school for his sport. Well today i was excited to see him cause i didn't see him at all the day before, and well i love him so much, and i have no classes with him! its terrible!! and well today i was excited to see him and i was planning on giving him a HUGE hug, and a kiss, as kind of a good luck and a i love you/ miss you. Well today i couldn't find him!! i was devistated! i really wanted to see him and he didn't walk to my last hour lik ehe usually does after school. and i have a bad feeling that he is mad at me cause the day b4 he wasn't answering my txt messages... but when i txted him today asking him where he was and wishing him a good luck, he ...
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two guys, two worlds
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 2:57 pm
so 5 months ago after my botfriend (adam) and i have broken up i meet this other guy (brandon). and he is the sweetest guy you will ever meet. i went out with him before i was all the way over my ex. and i treated brandon like shit. i called it off and havn't seen or heard of him in 5 months. after i did that i gat back with adam, and now i called it off with us one month ago because he was doing things with other girl and i didn't know. now that i really am over adam, last weekend brandon shows up at my door. i was so happy to see him, i missed him. he asked me back out the next day, and i didn't know what to say. i want to go back out with him, but i don't want to hurt him again. i told him that, and he said that 'if you give me another s...
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my boyfreing wants to sleep with me
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 2:01 pm
ok so here is the deal i am 15 and a girl. me and my bf have been going out for a year and we love eachother dearly. we were sleeping together but then we stoped because i was uncomfortable and we told our family about it. now he is jealous of his friend because they can go do stuff with their gfs and he cant with his. he says i am cheating him out of the realationship because all he ever does is make me happy and i dont in return. i would willingly do whatever to make him happy but have sex. i dont know what to do.
PLEASE HELP ME!
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living together
Posted Monday September 18 2006, 1:48 pm
My boyfriend and i have been living together for 8 months now.We decided to do this so that we could help each other through school and with other neccesities.I his girlfriend finished college first and already got a job,he is yet to finish,we have kept our living together a secret as we do not want our parents to find out that we are living together before marriage.We plan to formalise our marriage when he finishes college and gets a job.The only fear we both have is for me to get pregnant and we have tried to abstain or use condoms any time we wanna make love.Do you think we are doing the wrong thing?
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im not sure what to do
Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 11:27 pm
well me and my friend
we arnt sure if we are going out anymore
well his name is eric
and he isnt a virgin but i am and i feel like i am ready to you know...with him
but i am 14 and i dont know i like him a lot an u know he os cool but i think whenever i am with him all we do is kiss or makeout we dont ever get to talk only on the phone and myspace. buti am gonna go see him on sunday and i think that is when we are gonna do it help me an I making the right decision?!?!
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