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I Moved On But...
Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 9:56 am
OK, this is complicated...
14/F
I had a boyfriend. I HAD. Let's say his name is Collin.
I saw him making out with this other girl after school, though. In public, like, right out the school doors, at the stairs. He and that girl didn't even try to hide behind anything, pretty thoughtless. So I told him I'd seen what he did the next day, and his only excuse is, "I'm sorry... I couldn't help it." I guess he expected me to forgive him because he looked seriously freaked when I dumped him right there.
I got over him, and he kept apologizing to me (probably because THAT GIRL turned out to be taken) and begging me to go out with him again. I know he's not loyal. I had a major heartbreak because I thou...
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rumors
Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 9:49 am
15/f. okay so i really like this guy and i can't tell if he likes me. because sometimes it seems like he is really flirting with me but then sometimes he does the same to other girls. for example my school is doing a play and Tim asked me if i was going to do it. i told him no i don't think so and he was like "noooo! come on you should do it!" then he said stuff like we can hang out every afternoon! and it will be fun i promise! so i finally agreed to go to the meeting and he was very excited. i thought that this was so sweet and that he just did this because he wanted to spend more time with me. but then i found out that he also convinced another girl to do the play too. i know for a fact that he doesn't like this other girl any ...
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i don't want him to give up on me
Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 9:47 am
ok so i was about to get together with this guy when my family decided to move.. so i toldhim to wait for me, i'd be back in a year.. and he waited.. now im supposed to be back for xmas.. but my family decided to saty here for another year.. so its' over. but i dont want him to give up on me! i know he's going to date other girls, thats okay, as long as he doesnt give u on me completly, as llong as im in the back of his head.. so what do i do? I WILL NOT TELL HIM THIS. so is there any other way to MAKE SURE im on his mind, and he doesnt give up on me.. ??
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Need an opionion.
Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 9:32 am
This could be longer with more details ,but im gonna sum it all up.
Theres this boy, that im like in love with.
About 5 monthes ago me and him did all the sex fooling around things etc.
People found out, [my friend told someone], then he started hating me and my friend.
We said sorry to him and wrote him sorry letters and all that.
He didnt hate us for a few days.
Then when we started trying to get back to normal with him he was giving us the same treatment to when he hated us.
But at lunch, For a FACT
We looked at him and he was STARING at us , like not a quick look, a LONG STARE.And it happened more than once.
Whats going on here? I know i cant get over him becuase i think abo...
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my first heartbreak
Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 8:39 am
hey, i think i need a bit of guidance, i just had my first heartbreak.
i know it will take time, i know what ive gotta do (girl nights, erase his number and so on) its not that part that worries me.. it's the actual letting go. what i mean is, that moment when i finally accept that it's over, nothing worth fighting for, the moment i stop thinking "maybe we'll meet one day in the future and end up together anyways" the moment i truly accept that he'll no longer be in my life.. yeah, that moment is the one i fear. It's going to hurt, so badly. I know that-- but what happen after that? after the days of crying, when you run out of tears,, what happens? caus this is seriously my FIRST heartbreak EVER, i dont know how these thin...
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younger than me but i like him a lot
Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 12:16 am
14/f
okay well i like this guy and he is really great funny, smart, and way cute.but i found that he was 11 turning 12. one i am an eigth grader and he is a seventh.what do i do i want to talk and flirt with him but what is stopping me is that he is 11. he doesnt look 11 he looks 13.
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guys
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 11:34 pm
at my shool there is no boys that will talk to me or say hey to me.especially the cute ones which there is rarly any there and all the gys i know are too immature to ask out. so what do i do??
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this one boy
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 10:03 pm
so there is this one boy
i like alotalotalot.
ive never met him before, he lives about an hour away
and we talk online everyday and on the phone once in awhile
and he tells me he loves me so much and he calls me gorgeous and hes like perfect..
until right now.
i just found out he asked his best friend out because hse just got out of a relationship and now theve been going ofr like an hour
and im like heartbroken.
i dont know what to do
but i just hope it doesnt last
cause i love him alot and im like crying!
what should i say to him
or do?
i dont wanna be mean tho.. but its his fault he told me he loves me so much and then go out with his bestfirned.
any help?!
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hardly see him
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 9:36 pm
mkay. well there's this guy i like. its not like i like him a lot..i just..like him. and the good part is..he likes me too.
our two best friends have been trying to get us together for the past two months..but they don't seem to be making that great of an effort..and i hardly ever get to see this guy too..which complicates things..i used to go to the same school with him last year, but then i left because some kid was driving me insane. so now..we only get to see eachother at random parties/events that our friends invite us too.
and when we do see eachother..we hardly ever say anything. we kind of just stand on opposite ends of the room and glance at eachother when we're talking to our friends.. and his friend gave me the guys...
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Christmas
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 9:05 pm
Hey so theres this guy i like and im not sure if hes gonna get me a gift, but if he does i want to have one to give back to him but i have no clue what to get him
-he plays football,bball and lax
-ugh were both 15
-he like the jaguar nfl team (but we live in nj)
yea and not too expensive gotta tight buget lol thx!!
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missing someone i shouldn't.
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 9:01 pm
okay before i get started. i can predict what you'll all have to say .. he's not worth your time, dont waste it.
but thats my problem. my head gets i should let go. but i cant do it. i miss this kid.
so me and brad were dating on and off for 9 months, (ive liked him since i met him, 2 1/2 years ago) we've had our problems. no one perfect, right? well we got back together a monday and that following thursday he admited to me taht he has feelings for both ME and a girl named Lynn. and he said partly why he was with me was because he didnt get her. but he also still ahd feelings for me.
and i know that sounds bad. but i miss him. so as the story goes, we broke up. and i just can't give up as quickl...
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lots of guy friends but boyfriend needed
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 8:56 pm
i am friends with soooo many guys but what i really want is a boyfriend the guys i am friends with are sweet and kinda cute but what i want is for someone to ask me out how can i make this happen please help.
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in love with guy but he lives far away <33
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 8:36 pm
14/f in love with 16/m
okay so ive loved this guy since i was like 5.
[i know it sounds kinda weird but like it was an instant knowing that i loved him] but he lives 12 hours away [by car] i used to see him every summer and every break i had. but then my parents got divorced so we stopped going. and now i just saw him for the first time in 4 years and i fell in love with him all over again. but im not sure if he feels the same way. i mean hes given some hints towards it but nothing straight forward. i could picture myself being with him for the rest of my life but i hate living so far away. im not sure if i should just ask him how he feels or if i should just get over him ? [oh yah he doesnt have long distance calling...
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LOVE ADVICE PLS
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 8:00 pm
Hi. I have been recently talking to this guy that i met of some dating website. hes really nice we have soo much in common and after a week or two we met up. hes good looking and has a charming personality. he tells me after meeting that he has fallen for me and that he loves me. I think that is way too quick really. but my thing is if someone loves youu like they say they do they would call you more often, but the thing is, he hardly calls me. and he insists that I come down to see him. he won't come down to my area. he lives in scarborough and me in brampton. so the first time we met, was half way sort of. I didnt mind it and i made it a point to him that next time we meet up he should come down to my area and he agreed, then he said 2 da...
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What does this mean?
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 7:56 pm
I really like this guy and well I told him. At first he said that he just wanted to be friends, which is fine but lately he keeps saying and doing things that make me think otherwise.
Like this one time we were talking on msn and he had asked me who my best-friend was so i told him, and then he asks "Have you told her about us yet?"
I'm confused by the way he asked that because we are not dating, we are just friends still, like we've been for over 10 years, but he used the word "US".
What does this mean?
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LOVE ADVICE PLS
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 7:15 pm
hi. i have been recently talking to this guy that i met of some dating website. hes really nice we have soo much in common and after a week or two we met up. hes good looking and has a charming personality. he tells me after meeting that he has fallen for me and that he loves me. I think that is way too quick really. but my thing is if someone loves youu like they say they do they would call you more often, but the thing is, he hardly calls me. and he insists that I come down to see him. he won't come down to my area. he lives in scarborough and me in brampton. so the first time we met, was half way sort of. I didnt mind it and i made it a point to him that next time we meet up he should come down to my area and he agreed, then he said 2 da...
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please helpp
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 6:14 pm
okay so my best friend likes this guy in our school and i like him to but he likes both of us and im scared shell get mad at me if i make a move help!!
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i think im falling in love with my friend who used to like m
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 5:42 pm
14/m
a pretty good friend of mine told me she loved me last year and kinda asked me out. i told her it would be better if we were just really good friends and she said ok its cool. now im almost positive she moved on because at school dances and stuff shes dancing with other guys and flirting with other guys and she never used to do that when she liked me. but now i realized i have feelings for her and i wish i would've given her a chance. i just don't know what to do. i really really like her. any advice? like anything im so desperate.
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Getting over it
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 5:34 pm
its been 3 months since me and my ex-boyfriend have broken up...long time...and i already found a guy that i really, really like....but i still have feelings for my ex.....its not just strong feeling, their just feeling.....how do i deal with or try to get over it...how did you get over it??..please help...thanx :)
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In your opinion...
Posted Friday December 8 2006, 5:18 pm
This is mostly for the ladies, or the gays pertaining to his or her boyfriend. If you and your boyfriend were messing around and he got hard but couldn't hold an erection for very long or had an orgasm, does it turn you off or make you think less of him to a point where you no longer want to have a relationship with him? (he says that it's not you but just because he's nervous). This is simply just messing around like playing naked no intercourse or anything.
The point is, is that I get really nervous around the guy i'm dating, we're not official but we've been going out for more than a month now. We have been messing around and I can't seem to hold an erection for very long. I believe it is because I am nervous and have per...
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