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I Moved On But...
OK, this is complicated...
14/F
I had a boyfriend. I HAD. Let's say his name is Collin.
I saw him making out with this other girl after school, though. In public, like, right out the school doors, at the stairs. He and that girl didn't even try to hide behind anything, pretty thoughtless. So I told him I'd seen what he did the next day, and his only excuse is, "I'm sorry... I couldn't help it." I guess he expected me to forgive him because he looked seriously freaked when I dumped him right there.
I got over him, and he kept apologizing to me (probably because THAT GIRL turned out to be taken) and begging me to go out with him again. I know he's not loyal. I had a major heartbreak because I thought I was special to him but he just goes whatever about me to kiss THAT GIRL.
I started going out with this other guy, say... Brent. I'm really starting to love Brent alot. He helped me out of my depression and he;s really sweet... but then Collin shows up with slit wrists and tells me he'd keep cutting himself if I don't go back to him. I told him I really like Brent and even though I hate Collin, I don't want him to hurt himself because he's still a human being.
What should I do?
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firstly, the guy cutting himself is an extremly selfish thing to do. especially if you love the other guy.
its messed up that he put you in this kind of situation..if this guy really liked you..he wouldn't of made out with that girl in the first place.
i would tell him that you're sorry that he's 'upset'. but he needs help.
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If you can...tell somebody about Collin slitting his wrists because that could be dangerous and you shouldn't have to go out with him just to make him stop. Don't dump Brent and go out with Collin just because you don't want to hurt Collin. He should learn that it is his fault and if he really cared about you he would want you to be happy, which is with Brent.
Hope I Helped
~Morgan
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well you should tell collin that he shouldnt hurt himself because of you..
tell him that he really hurt you and that hurting himslef isint going to make it better and maybe tell someone about him hurting himself.
hes tenically emotionally abusing you.
hes playing with your emotions by hurting himself.
maybe get someone like his best friend to talk to him.
hope all goes well.
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