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LOVE ADVICE PLS
hi. i have been recently talking to this guy that i met of some dating website. hes really nice we have soo much in common and after a week or two we met up. hes good looking and has a charming personality. he tells me after meeting that he has fallen for me and that he loves me. I think that is way too quick really. but my thing is if someone loves youu like they say they do they would call you more often, but the thing is, he hardly calls me. and he insists that I come down to see him. he won't come down to my area. he lives in scarborough and me in brampton. so the first time we met, was half way sort of. I didnt mind it and i made it a point to him that next time we meet up he should come down to my area and he agreed, then he said 2 days ago. he wants to meet at the same place we met before.. I got upset and said u promised etc to come to my area and he kept telling me that its too far etc.. I said that to him...(via txt msg) neways to cut things short,it has been two days since iv heard from him.. and I sent him a txt msg today saying i havent heard from you in 2 days hope all is well, pls call me today and let me know when u wanna meet up and if you don't pls let me know that to.. i gave him two options. but my question to you is wat do you make out of that situation.. wats your thoughts and advice to me. id really appreciate it if you would get back to me. by the way i'm 26 and hes gonna be 27 in january.
thanks
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Maybe he doesn't really like you, if he really liked you he would call you more often and if he really loved you he wouldn't care how long it actually took to get to you as long as he will see you now tht is love! start to see other people, and if he reacts in a "I don't care" kindof way then keep on dating, if he doesn't react well the just tell him you wanted to see if he really liked you. an obviously you can't trust him if you get in a relationship with him he might be busy all the time and never have time for you and cant see you because your to far away. that is no excuse if he so calls love you. i mean how does you think if you go out ur suppose to see him??? ya he might move in with you or vise versa but who is going to do the driving???
hope my friend and i helped you notice some things
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If he's truly fallen for you, he'd make the effort to drive that extra hour/minute to get to you. Why don't you guys just meet up half way again and the next time you go to his house and make him promise that he comes to your next time and if he breaks that promise, well he can go bye bye
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