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What does this mean?
I really like this guy and well I told him. At first he said that he just wanted to be friends, which is fine but lately he keeps saying and doing things that make me think otherwise.
Like this one time we were talking on msn and he had asked me who my best-friend was so i told him, and then he asks "Have you told her about us yet?"
I'm confused by the way he asked that because we are not dating, we are just friends still, like we've been for over 10 years, but he used the word "US".
What does this mean?
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That word "us" could mean anything really in this kind of situation where you don't know what's going on or what he's thinking.
What I would do, if I were you, is just ask him. Best to find out from the actual source. I mean it's not like you're being like,"OMG DOES THAT MEAN WE'RE GOING OUT?!?" You're just asking a simple question about what "us" meant. The next time you're talking to him, whenever you're just talking, bring up your friend and then be like,"Yeah, remember whenever you said "did you tel her about us yet?".. what did you mean exactly, by that?" And just see what he says.
Like I said, it's hard to tell in this situation what he's thinking.
Whenever he said "us" he might've just meant "us" like as in you guys are best friends and he might've just been joking around being like,"Oh did you tell your friend about us being friends and she better watch her spot for "best friend"?" You know what I mean?
So like I said, the best way to go about finding out is just asking him, and he shouldn't get suspicious of anything or think something, you're just asking what a sentence he said means.
I hope I helped.
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Ask HIM! I can't believe that you wouldn't. How should we know? He was either trying to ask you out and you blew it, or he was curious to know if your friend knew that you wanted to date him but he just wanted to stay friends. I know it's a little late, but you can still ask him about it. Say something to the effect of "remember when you asked me if I ever told my friend about us? What did you mean by the word us?" That's it. It's a pretty simple fix. You just have to work up the courage to ask. Good luck. :)
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He's probably curious as to whether you told your best friend that you said you liked him and that his reply to that was a I just wanna be friends statement.
He might be referring to "us" as in the situation right now and he probably doesn't want it to get told to other people and stuff.
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