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crush and weed
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 8:25 pm
so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl
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LOVE TRIANGLE.. PLEASE HELP!!!
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 8:12 pm
16/f.
alright well i really like this kid "B". and i really thought he liked me too. we talked and everything and then we hooked up at a party. he always flirts with me and everything too. well last saturday he called and invited me and my friend to a party. we went. but he was being a real asshole to me. he was calling me a bitch and everything in the car. then we got to the party and he was like slapping my butt and tapping me on the shoulder and moving. then i was talking to this girl and she said that she just met him and she wanted to hook up with him. she said that he kissed her before he left to get us. that really made me mad. and THEN he started kissing me in front of her. and then they had sex. then he was kissing...
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I feel CHEAP!!!
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 6:15 pm
I've been dating one of my really good guy friends for a few weeks and we have a really tyte realtionship. So he told my friend that hes buying me like $20 worth of stuff for Christmas. My mom thinks we should've waited a little longer to start going out.. so she doesn't know we are. So therefore, I couldn't get him anything more than a "just friends gift". Which is some cookies and a little novelty thing (a whiteboard that hangs from your doorknob?!--mom bought it).
I feel really bad because I really really really really like him and I feel bad that he's spending so much on me and I'm being Miss Cheap-o.
Should I get him something after break (when my mom knows that were going out) as a "Make-Up Christmas"...
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new myspace friends
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:46 pm
i recently broke up w/ my girlfriend so have invited lots of girls to my myspace and about .5 have accepted. i need advice about what to talk about when i send messages b/c i don't have much to go by as they are still strangers. and i don't know how long to wait before making contact. please note, i think that all of them are cute and am interested in dating but don't want to come across as desperate or needy. any suggestions? thanks
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my manipulating boyfriend
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:10 pm
I'm 17 and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 yrs. and dont get me wrong i love him with my whole life. but yesterday i went to pick him up at his dads(2 1/2) hours away. he had been gone fri.-sun. and when we got back to my house we were just sittin watchin tv and i knew he had a project to finish for school so he asked me later if he could use my computer and he said yes. but after he came back down i had already fallen asleep and he woke me up and said bye in a kinda pissed of tone than gave me a kiss. this morning he called and he noticed what time it was and shouted "Fuck" and hung up? so i didnt call him back. well at school i kind of avoided him and then after school i went to his house and he was fine and everything????? ...
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How Can I Get Over Him?
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:51 pm
15/f
My ex and I went out for 11 months. I really thought I loved him but then one morning I woke up and realized I didn't even like him anymore. So I dumped him. That was way back in June. I'm pretty that he still likes me. Now I like him again and he's all I think about. Right after I dumped him I realized how annoying and how mean he was so I don't want to get involved with him again. I really need a good way to get over him and get him outta my mind.
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This one boy...
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:31 pm
I'm hanging out with him today and I'm 14 and hes 16 so Last time when i hung out with him it was totally silent and It was because I was so nervous I didn't want him to think I was stupid or anything and I guess he was the same way.
but I really don't want that to happen again tonight. he said he was going to be "all out" this time but I'm not sure If I will since it does take me a couple times to talk to someone a lot after meeting them especially when its someone I really like.
I suck at starting conversations and since he said hes going all out today well I want to be the one to start the conversations as well because I don't want to be known at shy and boring because I'm not.
When I talk I always...
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boy trouble...again.
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:00 pm
ok well ive been asking alot of questions lately but w/e you guys will help i hope.ok well theres this guya t school and i totally like him ok.and at the beggining of the year he acted like he liked me too...even some of his friend said that they thought he liked me.so of course i flirtd back and tried to imply to him that i liked him, but did it "secretly". And then all og a sudden he stopped.it ws like over the weekend he changed his mind or what not.and its been like that for about 2 weeks.then right before winter vacation...he started flirting again..and was talking to his best friend about me and stuff so i could hear them. And i(being the idiot that i am)let it slip out some how that i liked him and now he knows and is telli...
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Omg, I need help!!
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 4:00 pm
So, I like this guy, okay? He's really sweet and cute and so nice and everything... but there's a problem... I already have a boyfriend. Don't start calling me a slut and everything but my boyfriend is starting to be really... boring. I knew him only for two days when he asked me out. Should I dump him or not?? If I shouldn't, tell me why I have to go pretend to like a guy I don't! It's torture......... =(
What should I do??
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Should I call him
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 2:38 pm
I like this guy from another school. I see him like once a month and I don't know if I should call him. I know that he likes me but would he think I was wierd if I called him?
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ma boi and ma homeboi
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 1:54 pm
okay here is the thing my boyfrend is E and my homeboy if F ok. well im not so sure if i still want to date my boyfriend because well he doesnt trust me and on the other hand my homeboy F is really great but i think i want to be more then his homegirl and i can tell that he does too becuase he practically told me! What should i do?
______sign______confused girl
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round 100
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 12:21 pm
oaky so im dating this guy for what seems like the 20th time.im not telling anyone bcz all of my friends hate him. but i also have to decline on dates bcz im secretly involved. btw...im 14 and hes 16.well the story on him is he told a bunch of his football buddies just how intimate we had gotten. but i know he has changed bcz we have been going out again for about a month. but he didnt ask for sex once. so that is a big improvement on his part...bcz believe me...he is a class A pig. but i really like him. like...almost love. he's amazing. and im not shallow. i dont look for abercrombie models. hes kinda a big kid. but sweet as candy. very wealthy.not gonna lie. he does so much for me. his car is amazing. lol. and he treats me like a princes...
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PHantom of the past
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 12:06 pm
Ok so last year i loved this guy and i say love because he is everything to me. Well after i told him i liked him he sent me a letter( because he goes to college across the country) and it didn't say he liked me and it didn't say that he hated me so idk. And now he's home for break and it seems like he's ok w/ everything cause we can talk and i've even caught him looking at me in THAT way am i halucinating again? or does he maybe have something towards me? what should i do?
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RAWRRR... b0yfriend problems..
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 10:11 am
13/f
Okay well then.. im beginning to think that my boyfriend is likin` this other girl.. My boyfriend's name is john, and the other girl is named Lily. They're in the same group (hang out group) they hang out w/ the same people somethin` called the "JAW 4L'S." and Lily is John's bestfriend's ex girlfriend. Winston (johns bestfriend) & john act all nice to lily. Lily's nick name is "lee lur" on her myspace or whatever.. but shes also my friend too.. not js the JAW 4L's. She got into his myspace and "hacked" him or whatever you call it.. and she put on his heading "i love lee lur :]" He's been actin` strange lately.. and then he told lily that he loved her.. (but im not if he meant ...
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freak out
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 11:54 pm
my mom basically freaked out when she found out from my bf's mom that i gave him a hickey.. but it was like awhile back but she just found out tonight. she was all like thats innappropriate and i wouldnt have expected that from you! maybe not but this is like my first serious relationship. so i was like you and his mom and everyone else did it too while yall were growin up and she got pissed. i know she is lookin out for me and doesnt want me to screw up my life over some guy but i mean me and him are both virgins and havent gone past like fingerin/handjobs [im sure she'd kill me if she knew that!!] with each other nor with anyone else and weve been together 5-6 months. i mean im not some wild child and im not gonna screw up my life like th...
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Help...
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 11:25 pm
So I like this guy named Chris...and I'm pretty sure he likes me to I mean we text ALL the time and were always talking on myspace and Aim at home...I like him alot and I'm pretty sure he likes me alot but there's one problem that is a BIG problem for me. He never talks! Like i wouldnt say he was shy..just he never talks at school unless you start the conversation...I mean I do talk alot..just i'm not a good conversation starter...so what do you think I should do to help him talk more because I would hate to go out with him and he never talked! HELP!
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aaaahhhhh confusedd.
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 11:20 pm
Alright, so my friends and were at a resturant tonight with a bunch of other people after a school event. My boyfriend was there, but he decided to sit with some people from school that I used to be friends with, but I'm now not because of reasons. Don't worry about why lol. We've been going out for a little over a week and I'm going insane. We never talk. It's so awkward! I get SO nervous around him and can't think of anything to say, I just get lost looking for the right words to say. I was really dissappointed about what happened out at the resturant tonight. How can I make our relationship better and/or stronger?
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omg dream
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 10:08 pm
omg i had a dream last night that I was having sex with my soccer coach. he is 30, really tall and not extremely handsome but cute in a big guy sort of way. I don't have a crush on him or anything, but i know he likes me (as a person/soccer player!) because i'm pretty good, but why would i have a dream about us having sex!? it was totally weird i need some advice pronto!
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Popularity or Who I truely am?
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 9:25 pm
I was really living the life! Queen of the whole 1st year high schoolers was never hard to get used to. I was the most popularest girl in the whole grade, but only because I was head cheerleader, and ofcourse like every fairytale I had the star player on the football team, the most popularest, cutest guy in the whole grade, as MY boyfriend! Life could not get better! My dad had a great job so I was what you would call "Filthy Rich", and lived in a huge house!
Then one day my very rich dad lost his very "rich paying" job. We moved into a room in an apartment room, and I had to quit the cheer squad because we could not even pay the $80 fee. Then after that the roomer got around that I was now poor, and my boyfriend ...
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lovesick.
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 9:24 pm
okay well this is sort of complicated and it might be long so im sorry about that...but okay so this guy that im in love with moved a few months ago to a different state kinda far away from me and but we stayed together but then he broke up with me saying that it was too hard for both of us,even though we still love each other.So that was about hmm in august this happened..and so he told me back october that he was coming to visit for thanksgiving because his sister goes to college here and the rest of his family is still up here and he wanted to know if i wanted to hang out with him..and i said of course i would! and so november came and he said he would call me when he arrived and he did,and he asked me if i wanted to hang out the next ni...
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