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Omg, I need help!!
So, I like this guy, okay? He's really sweet and cute and so nice and everything... but there's a problem... I already have a boyfriend. Don't start calling me a slut and everything but my boyfriend is starting to be really... boring. I knew him only for two days when he asked me out. Should I dump him or not?? If I shouldn't, tell me why I have to go pretend to like a guy I don't! It's torture......... =(
What should I do??
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If you like someone else and you just aren't attracted to your boyfriend anymore, don't pretend that you like him when you don't. Just break up with him. However, don't tell him to his face that he's boring, and that you like someone else....that would hurt his feelings, and you don't want that. Just say that you don't think that you two make chemistry, or that you don't know him well and you prefer to go with someone you know well.....something like that. And don't jump on the other guy right after you break up. Give it a few weeks at the least before you make a move.
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I was in this EXACT SAME SITUATION.
No joke.
I regretted staying with my boyfriend because he was like talking to a brick wall..
If you really like this other guy... then it's natural that you are more attracted to a guy that suits your interests better.
So I'd say just break up with your boyfriend nicely, and if things don't work out with this other boy, then enjoy being single!
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Just think about which guy you like better and if your decision is the boy you think is cute and sweet then dump your boyfriend the one you think its boring and if you pick your boyfriend...then jst forget about the boy you think its cute and sweet...! Hoped I helped!!1
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Well, if the romance dies out between you and your boyfriend, what's the point in going out with him? Pointless, isn't it? So, of course, dump him. But don't be harsh. Just go, "Hey, sorry, but I don't think this relationship is goingvery well. You seem really nice as a friend, but as a boyfriend, I think someone else would be better. I don't want to hurt you feelings. I understand if you hate me, but I hope it works out for you..."
This other guy seems like a better boyfriend, so go for it! Hang out with him a lot of times and be very affectionate. Support him at his games if he's a basketball player or whatever, and be really sweet. Show him you like him and he'll get totally hooked on you!!
Tell me everything!
-Jenny C
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The same exact thing happened to me a few months ago.
Honey the longer you wait to dump this guy the harder it will get to do so I think you should break up with him and start to get with the boy you really do like.
hope it helped sweetie :]
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Dear I need help,
Well you made the answer sort of clear, if he's boring you and you're losing those "butterfly feelings" and those amazing nights, DUMP HIM and no that does not make you a slut or anything. And go for the new guy, you don't have to tie yourself down to some guy you don't have feelings for, plus it's always nice to get into a new realationship. But ask the new guy if he wants to hang out at your house, order some pizza and watch some movies.
It'll be great no worries!
-Beanie
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well i definitely think that 2 days is wayyyy to short to think you know a person. dump him. if he can't keep your interest now then how is he planning to do it 3 weeks from now? take your time with this new guy, get to know him and be sure that hes gonna keep you interested and having fun. theres no rush for a commitment and if hes really into you hes not gonna run off with some other slut, so enjoy yourselves.
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well i don't think your a slut or anything because this has happened to me MULTIPLE times(o: but first thing, you CANNOT just dump your boyfriend and go out with this other kid. for example you can't be like 'i just wanna be friends.' and then go out with the other kid. it would break his heart and probably cause ALOT of drama. You definitely have to talk to your boyfriend, be like "i'm sorry i didn't tell you sooner. I don't like you anymore and i don't wanna start leading you on or anything because i still like you as a friend and that would be mean. But I do like another guy." just tell him straight up. the most he can do is go tell his other friends and they'll be like oh well that sucks. but nobody can blame you for telling the truth, and if they do, you always have your real friends(o:
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