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im losing friends...sorta
I have been dating my boyfriend about 2 years now.anyhow well we are really really close,and I am completely in love with him..I mean never could fall deeper. I have known him like 6 years and dated him for 2 of them..and well its like a lot of my friends say I am too clingy to him and do not want to hang out with me anymore..what do i do?
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Well first of all how do yu feel about this, i mean do you feel happy being with your boyfriend more and do u still want to be with your friends? Yes, you can pick both. Try talking to your friends about it and let each other know how you guys feel. Having a boyfriend maybe every important and your always wanting to spend a lot of time with him, but you still got friends that you need to make time for. You can even try talking to your boyfriend about this and see what he thinks. hope this helps!
-manda
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Its obvious that your clingyness hasnt gotten in the way of your relationship with your boyfriend. But maybe you should start to hang out with your friends a little bit, without totally blowing off your boyfriend work it out. With everyone
maybe all of you can hang out together?
*L0CACiiTA
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That's so RUDE of your friends to say that!!
But maybe you are being a little clingy...
I suggest you go to your friends and ask them how exactly you are being too clingy to him. If they tell you of what you think is a good reason, then try to hang out with your friends a little more after apologizing, but don't abandon your boyfriend. Tell your friends that you're still going to go out with your boyfriend because you have really intense feelings for him. You like him a lot, right? So tell them.
If they're reasons for calling you clingy is not a good reason, tell them so. Tell them they're being unfair and that you like them as much as you like your boyfriend, so that they should just stop being like this. Tell them they should understand. Tell them you don't have to be with them every second of your life. You wish there could be a y that you could be with your boyfriend and friends at the same time, but there isn't! So they should perfectly understand... and if they don't, they're not worth even a minute of your time.
Tell me if all goes well... or not so well!!
-Jenny C
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