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okay well this is sort of complicated and it might be long so im sorry about that...but okay so this guy that im in love with moved a few months ago to a different state kinda far away from me and but we stayed together but then he broke up with me saying that it was too hard for both of us,even though we still love each other.So that was about hmm in august this happened..and so he told me back october that he was coming to visit for thanksgiving because his sister goes to college here and the rest of his family is still up here and he wanted to know if i wanted to hang out with him..and i said of course i would! and so november came and he said he would call me when he arrived and he did,and he asked me if i wanted to hang out the next night and i said sure and i called him back but he never picked up (he was only in town for 4 days by the way oh and it also happened to be my birthday weekend) so time passed and i never got a clal back form him whiel he was in town and by the 4th day i knew he left and i cried the whole weekend i was devestated i was a mess on my birthday.When he arrived back home he leave me a message on myspace saying happy birthday and no explaination didnt even call me and i had to tell him how i felt and i asked him to explain and he said because he lost his phone on a train which i thought was legit because he looses things alot but like after that he was pretending like everything was okay like he never came up here so i complained how he never said sorry and thats all i wanted and how i missed him soo much and he never apologize im been depressed since thanksgiving...and so i thought since he wouldnt pick up his cell phone and i dont like calling his house i left him a message on myspace after we havent talked for about a week i said i missed him and hes says why? im nothing special when he usually says he misses me too oh by the way before the messages when i complained about it hes like ive been depressed too you were the main reason i came up there and how he wants to get away and stuff and hes like its obvious you dont want to talk to me anymore (because i was complaining about it) and i said thats not it and i sent him 3 messages saying im sorry and that when he wants to talk to me again to talk to me and its been a week and a half and we havent been talking i miss him soo much and since christmas is monday i want to be okay with him again..i dont even know if im the problem or something else is bothering him he wont tell me i feel stupid complaining but i mean it was my birthday he never called me and didnt say sorry i was soo hurt...so my question is should i try talking to him again or wait till he talks to me? and your thoughts about everything it sucks because i cant even last a week without talking to him..i miss him alot...thank you for taking the time to read this,i hope you can help me out <3
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Just give it time, and in the mean time, move on. Act like it doesn't bother you. Guys are just wierd like that. They tend to want things until they have it, and then they don't want it anymore. If you just wait it out, he will come back to you. And if he doesn't, move on...Find someone new. I know it is hard to just move on, but I also know that what they say about long distance relationships is true. I have had a few myself and they never worked out. I would get upset too and then I would move on. Now I am very happy with the guy I am with right now...We are going to have a baby and hopefully live happily ever after. You don't HAVE to have a man in your life to survive, but if you can find the right one, it is always nice...And if he is the right one, it will work out.
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