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shy & always needs a girlfriend.


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 12:09 pm

13 female.
well,
i just started a new school wednesday. it's really great and i made a lot of new friends and i'm actually getting pretty popular there.
well, there is this guy [lets say his name is] jimmy. kay so jimmy hands a note to my friend lynn telling her to give it to me. so we pass in the hallway and she gives it to me saying "it's from a boy. hehe." so i'm like "okay?"
so, i open it and it says "hey, i'm jimmy. you are really cute, i'm the tall guy with brown curly hair."
well, jimmy is pretty good looking and really popular, but all my friends say that he always goes for the new girls and always has to have a girlfriend. so that was a turn off.
AND on top of ...

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Not really sure..


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 12:08 pm

I'm not really sure what I'm asking but I just feel like I need help or something so if you have an opion or w.e answer lol i will rate for any attemps though!

Well I think I like this guy I met about a week ago, last friday. Hes friends with my BFF, thats how I met him. And I had fun with him at the mall/movies when we first met. Then Saturday me and my BFF hung out again and we called him and just talked to him. Later that day he called us back on my cell and him and I talked for awhile about making my BFF go to Jack in the Box so me, my bff, him and his friends could hang out. She didn't go. So I had my dad drive me to a school that was by his house and him, his friends and i hung out for awhile. Then this Friday I called ...

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Falling for your best friend...


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 9:51 am

Oh. My. God.

I just saw my (old) best friend yesterday after like a year, and I never would have thought he'd end up so good-looking.
Yes, you can say I'm falling for him...what do you do when you've fallen for your best friend?

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Long distance speaking


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 7:05 am

So about 4 months ago i "met" this guy while i was on holiday, the only words we exchanged were hello, we met through a mutual friend.. but the attraction was instant. A few days later i left but he managed to get my msn adr. and we have been speakin ever since i am very shy when it comes to speakin to guys face to face but he is the exact oposite, he keeps telling me how much he likes me and how he wishes i would go back, and that we will get together. Thing is i will be going back in a few weeks and i just dont know how to act when i see him and im worried he will get a diferent impresion when we see each other face to face. So any advice would be good.
Thanx! :)

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One big mistake...


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 3:48 am

19/F

I had a (male) friend over today, and we were watching movies and drinking together. Just innocent fun.

I ended up getting more tipsy than I usually do, and we ended up starting to have sex. I sobered up pretty quickly and made him stop before we actually did, and sent him home.

Here's the thing: I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. We're talking about moving in together when our leases expire, and we've discussed marriage.

He's the one I really want, and I feel sick having cheated on him. I know I could never do it ever again. I hate what I did.

So my question is, what do I do? Do I tell him? Will that hurt him more than if he doesn't know? Should it...

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Long Story My Dears


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 11:04 pm

Okay, this is long so be prepared. Let's call this guy Fred. He's in 11th grade and I'm in 9th. Obviously, I really like him. Heh so we met like at the second month of this school year? I really don't know how because I didn't know him and vice versa...but like one day out of random he hugged me at lunch saying "She's a cutie." to a friend that we both know. And after that, I was walking to lunch with my bff and the friend that we both know and Fred were like "Come stand in line with us." and I was like why? And his friend and Fred were like "Because you're pretty/beautiful." And my bff was like "He likkeeess you." btw, my bff is a guy that's gay. Anywhos, then after that he puts his arms around me [n...

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this guy.


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 10:32 pm

ok. I need like 101 good conversation starters for teens!!

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Birthday


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 10:07 pm

It's my 17th birthday coming up on 20th Jan, and i'm not sure what to do to "celebrate" it. Last year I had a limo party but that was because it was my "sweet sixteen", and i've had house parties, cinema parties and bowling parties before in the past, so i've kinda run out of ideas.
My friends say I should just go cinema again but there's nothing really on that I want to see.
And my boyfriend says that he'll take me out somewhere but he wants me to choose where and again I have no idea.
Please help, I need all the suggestions I can get and i'm running out of time :-|

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played?


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 10:00 pm

Theres this guy we are kinda going out he tells me he loves me and i love him as well but he says I love you to other girls and flirts with them as well.

So I'm thinking that I'm being played here

whats going on?

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There's this guy...


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 9:38 pm

15f. I met a guy at a party who I liked at the time and wanted to hook up with, and I didn't tell him, but he told me he doesn't hook up with girls because he doesn't want his parents to find out. Now he calls me every so often and we have long conversations, and he tells me that asking this one girl out was the biggest mistake of his life. He and I flirted a lot at the party, which was about two and a half months ago, and grinded. Do you think he might like me? What should I do about it? I kind of still like him. He's not hot but he's very cuddly.

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Ex Issues


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 9:12 pm

Okay. My exboyfriend is acting really weird. We broke up right before Christmas, and we have a great relationship, and we love to argue. The weird thing is, he's acting like before we went out. He asked me to audtition with him for the school musical and asked me to a party, but then said he was inviting some "hot" friends from a different school. What does this mean????

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my best friend


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 8:27 pm

I'm worried about a friend of mine. She dates a lot of guys, pretty fast. She broke up with her boyfriend two weeks ago, and she already has a new guy ready to ask her out.
The new guy is much stronger than her, and has always been mean to me. I don't want her hurt, in any way, because she means the world to me.
Does anyone have an idea of how to tell her this without sounding jealous?

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going cold turkey


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 8:03 pm

My boyfriend of almost two years dumped me a week ago. We haven’t spoken since. I was sort of expecting it so all he said was “I can’t do this anymore. I’ve had one foot out the door for months.” I didn’t want to cry in front of him or get angry, so I just told him he could leave, and he pretty much ran out.

Now, I know I want him back. I know I miss him. I feel like most of our problems existed entirely in his head, but I do accept that it is over and there is no way we are getting back together. I’m a little confused though. I wish I’d listened to more of his explanation so I knew just what he was thinking (and that he doesn’t hate me, have no respect for me or think I’m a total idiot... all those nice t...

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what do i do?


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 7:52 pm

this guy i like or i think i like, likes another girl name stacy. i know he like her becasue he draws her name on his notebook and on this stickers that say HELLO MY NAME IS...and they all say STACY.i know beacuse i saw them. it just gets me mad because this guy has kissed me more then 2 timmes and i know he wants more then just a kiss he wants to have sex and i am not ganna give him that beacuse i am not a bitch. also ths guy told me that he likes me and wants to go around with me but when he told me that he was all HIGH. plz help me tell me what to do.

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Too young to date mature guys


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 7:44 pm

First off, I'm a 15-year-old girl
I'm tired of falling on love with guys who are too old for me (the oldest being 21 and a friend of mine).
How do I avoid this happening?
Thank you.

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MY FiRST LOVE COMES AROUND AFTER 2 YRS BUT.....


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 7:19 pm

okay, this is going to be kind of long since you need background information. my "first love" and i had been "talking" for 2 years but were never an official couple. he took my virginity and we've been through alot, we would never fully commit to a relationship and never spent any "quality time" with me, like we would hangout but we would never really go anywhere. but i ended up falling in love with him, but he was involved in selling drugs, and didnt want a girlfriend while he was living that life. so i would try to move on and talk to other guys and we would go months on end without talking then he would find out and try to become part of my life again only to leave once he was sure he still had me. well this...

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engagement rings


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 7:07 pm

ok so i wanna propose to my girlfriend of 3 years. but i have 2 questiosn.

1.what stores can you buy really good engagement rings? like i know theres kay and zales but what else?

2. what should i do to propose really cute. like i was thinkinon valentines day..or like if i did wait till next xmas eve..under amistletoe or something. something really cute or creative. thanks soooo much

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my ex and his friend


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 4:16 pm

I broke up with my ex several months ago. It was a long distance relationship on the rocks. My ex was being a complete jerk as usual and sort of forced me to end things. Anyways, in the last couple of months I've been working on my self esteem and I'm even going back to college to work in rehabilitation, something I never would have done had I still been with him. Recently one of my ex's friends came into the store I work in and was asking me questions like how the job was going. I told him my plans of going back to school to work in health care and he got this really shocked, sort of worried look on his face. Do you think my ex was getting him to ask me these questions? And why do you think he looked so worried?

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"taking a break"


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 3:52 pm

I know what "taking a break" means, but what is the point?

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my boyfriend is all talk :(


Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 3:49 pm

hey ok, so when my boyfriend and i have sex.. he never finishes... he usually makes an excuse for us to stop. what's up with that? i know that im good.. he tells me i am. also when we are talking about sexual stuff he kinda avoids it, like he doesnt like to talk bout it? he usually jokes around about stuff like that on the phone.. like forplay kind of stuff and sexual things, but when we are in person he like never brings it up. is there anything that i can do to get him more comfortable about talking that way? because that would really turn me on & might make the sex better.

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