Okay. My exboyfriend is acting really weird. We broke up right before Christmas, and we have a great relationship, and we love to argue. The weird thing is, he's acting like before we went out. He asked me to audtition with him for the school musical and asked me to a party, but then said he was inviting some "hot" friends from a different school. What does this mean????
gigi313 answered Saturday January 13 2007, 11:14 pm: This sounds alot like something I went through a few years ago. This guy and I broke up, and he said he still wanted to be friends and do things together. Since we're not kids (he was 38) I didn't think it was a "line" to make breaking up easier...I believed him (!) and called him from time to time to ask him to Karaoke Night (we both enjoy this), to see a movie, etc. He never accepted and never called me to initiate anything, so I guess that it was just a "dump" line.
When I read your question, the actions of your ex reminded me of how I acted at that time. My thinking is that he still likes you and wants to do things with you. The "hot friends" may have been thrown in there so that you wouldn't think he was asking you on a date and say "No". Good luck! gigi [ gigi313's advice column | Ask gigi313 A Question ]
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