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Insecurity
I'm a 15 year old girl and a huge tease. I also like to brag about my life with guys to my friends. I think it's because I used to not be able to get a guy and I'm still very insecure about it. I think those insecurities are manifesting themselves in what seems like overconfidence. What can I do to be more secure with myself?
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i dont think your cold hearted or bad just maybe confused a little bit its not a sin.ok so youve realized you have a problem thats step one. now since you are the creator of your own universe you have the power to change anything you dont like about your self. but it doesnt hurt to acknowledge your good points as well. when i say acknowledge i dont mean brag because no one likes that kind of thing not even you like it deep down. any think that makes you feel negative isnt the right thing for you to be doing embrace the actions that make you feel positive and others around you. if you need me to elaborate on this more just tell me on what part and i will ill even help you out through email if you want.you can tell me in my inbox if not then thats ok to.
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Ok look you say your a tease right well lets see i have a friend thats like who lies about eveything that comes out of her mouth and she only talk to her friends about doing stuff with guys so she can look better and cooler and she lies about medical stuff too like saying she's really sick and that she could die and everything but shes only doing it for attention plus she steals everyone boyfriends even if she doesnt like them so wtf is your problem going from guy to guy and everything and if you go around stealing everyone boyfriends then you know sooner or later everyone at your school is gonna hate you even the teachers and even the people you thought were your friends because your gonna and up either hurting them or they will get so fet up with all your lies so stop now before that happens and if it already has then i dont feel bad for you because you did it to yourself and also if you like doing stuff to older guys like guys in there 20's you have serious problems and you better make sure those guys know how old you are because they could get arrested and then you could go to juvi and i dont think you wanna do that so get a life ok life doesnt revolve around sex and everything like that ok just get a life you must be so desperate and i bet you cant even keep a boyfriend because you keep cheating on them and you know what if you've done anything with a guy or guys right now and you have a boyfriend i would be telling him right now if i was one of your friends and you must have one cold sick heart if you can jsut cheat on a guy like that and your gonna end up losing eveything and eeryone soon if you keep this up
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As long as you're being truthful and not embellishing anything, it's okay to share with your friends. Just make sure that you're not doing it to make yourself look better than you are, because anything but the truth can hurt your friends for a lot of reasons. Confidence--as long as it's based on reality--is a real asset in our society, but few of us are born with it. Most of us have insecurities; the trick is to practice being confident--and that's what you're doing! Just don't make things seem more important than they are--that's not fair to anyone, especially to your self-esteem. gigi
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