I'm worried about a friend of mine. She dates a lot of guys, pretty fast. She broke up with her boyfriend two weeks ago, and she already has a new guy ready to ask her out.
The new guy is much stronger than her, and has always been mean to me. I don't want her hurt, in any way, because she means the world to me.
Does anyone have an idea of how to tell her this without sounding jealous?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VeNzUeLa answered Monday January 15 2007, 1:27 pm: Because you two are best friends its always nice to share things openly, so firstly I think it is better if you tell her how you feel, if you feel uneasy or uncomfortable telling her than do it in different ways which you find easier and more comfortable.
Make it obvious and very clear that you aren't jelous but happy for her, its really sweet you care so much for your friend. :D Tell her the guy she is dating is always mean to you and tell her you think she is moving a little too fast, take things easy and go slow.
Elle19 answered Saturday January 13 2007, 11:03 pm: hey,
its great to see such a caring friend like you!!! wish there was more girls out there like you!! I think you need to sit down and talk to her, if your not good at confrontation then perhaps via text message or over the interent or by letter. Her moving on fast to me suggests its her way of dealing with her break-up's!! deep inside she could be using these relationships to get over her hurt. I think you should tell her your only looking out for her and you care about her and tell her she means the world to you!! try not to be over protective!
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