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Boyfriends and friends shyness
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 9:29 pm
So, I don't have a boyfriend, to be honest not any guy friends. I only talk to guys if they break the ice but still then it is only the necessary answer or statement that will get me out of talking because I know if I go on then I will make myself look stupid infront of him (and a lot of times I'm like that with girls too).
Once you get to know me I'm outgoing meaning my friends tell me I'm funny. I can keep a conversation going with a friend but never with anyone other than that. I feel like an outcast because I'm so shy. I don't know how I have friends because I don't talk to anyone very often. Well I can but it's REALLY HARD!
I want to know how to be outgoing to get guy friends and boyfriends but I'm so shy ...
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starting off badly ?
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 8:49 pm
okay so I have this new boyfriend. I asked him out, he "sarcasticlly" said yes but didn't mean it, I got mad. He asked ME out. I said yes.
So we've been going out since, last night. Today we were partners in science, we talked in math, and walked together. We didn't hug at all. I mean, I've had a boyfriend before; I just forget how. We're both shy. But I'm not sure if he REALLY likes me.
Online he's been asking me weird questions like "do you really like me?" and "on a scale 1-10 how much do you like me?"
This isn't making me happy. I knows its ONLY THE FIRST day, but we're not really off to a good start. =/
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how to get over him
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:51 pm
simple enough...
he's a junior,
im a freshmen.
we hung out once,
but can't anymore because our friends broke up.
i never see him or talk to him.
i like him ALOT,
and found out he thought i was cute and wanted to hook up.
he had a girlfriend but broke up.
we never talked since then, and it's been a month.
how do i stop thinking about him?
thanks
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i like this guy
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:35 pm
i like this guy but ive never hung out with him. weve just talked online. and yes i do know him in person. he has this gf and so i dont really want to like him but i cant help it and last night everything went wrong. me and his gf got in a fight and so now hes mad at me and deleted me as a friend on myspace and so we dont talk anymore. and so my friend sent him a messgae saying some stuff and he requested me but i was really mad at him and didnt approve him. but now i think i made a big mistake. wat should i do now?
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no boobs?
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:18 pm
okay so i like boys..but boys like girls with boobs..yeah i dont have boobs.
thats the problem. boys dont like me because of my invisible boobs. NO SERIOUSLY IM SO FLAT CHESTED!
ughh i dont want to STUFF. i dont want to be a fake. i want to be MYSELF, but what if MYSELF is no boobs.
please help
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boys
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:17 pm
ok heres mr problem... i never like one guy for a long period of time. I can like one guy and get the butterflys in the stomach everytime i think of him and dream about him and smile when i think of him. Than a week later i can look at the same person and be like why dont i feel that anymore.. why did i like them ew. Than ill like someone else and the same thing will happen. but than another week later i'll either switch back to who i liked b4 or like someon else. Recently ive liked this one guy. But literaly last night i was all smiling when i thought of him and like i reaaaaaaally liked him. Went to school today and felt nothing and actually felt unconfterble knowing how i was feeling last night.. i dont understand.. why does this happen to me.. can anyone help me fix it?
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2 guys one tough choice
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 7:15 pm
you see ive been friends with this guy from work in the same department as me for a while now and he really likes me...he asked me out once and i said i didnt feel that way for him, and then now that im liking this new guy he asked me out again tonight! hes so sweet and like a great guy but theres nothing there for me whereas this new guy does have that spark for me, but i havent really spoken to him that much! ugh i dont know what to do im just so confused:S you knw wat i mean?...any thoughts on the matter would be great:D thanks
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boyfriends/guys
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 6:56 pm
i like this guy im not sure if he likes me but i want to ask him out i get really emmbrassed infront of popular guys because some are mean.
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Kid
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 6:53 pm
I like this kid alottt,
and i mean alot.
He used to be real mean to me, and hate me.
Then he told me he didnt hate me and that he liked me as a friend, [he said that about 3-4 weeks ago]
Just a few days ago, he started being rude again and acting like he did before.
But he didnt confront that he hated me, i just think he does.
Im so sad, becuase I dont want him to not talk to me.
And the other day, on accident I said something and he thought I said something else [which was a bad thing]
Which makes things even worse.
Im so sad, please help
15/f
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guys please
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 6:21 pm
what are some things you can say/text a prude guy to make him go crazy for you?....i think he likes a challenge.
thanks
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How to make a girl laugh
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 4:58 pm
Can anyone tell me? just keep them laughing.
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next step in a relationship
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 4:06 pm
well usally theirs steps in a relationship and you usally tell your bf/gf that you want to go to the next step in a relationship as in my case french kiss or make out. but this person lives in another state. when they come to visit i'd like to take this step. so i was gonna tell them i wanted to make this step. but is that a good idea because i hardly ever see this person. i dont want to go to far and then not see them for a while and reck our relationship. any advice? thanks
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Too Fast
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 2:03 pm
My friend Melissa met this boy Bob who goes to her school. They just started talking one day, and now they talk alot. The problem is that Bob doesn't really seem to be "at her speed". For example, he's already talking about them "doing it" and he wants her to come to his house. But Melissa's not ready for that stuff yet. What should she do? My advice is for her to tell him she just wants t be friends, but I'm not even sure whether she likes him or not. What's your advice? Thanks
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I know what alot of you are gonna say, but.......
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 11:43 am
In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've nev...
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he led me on
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 10:56 am
There's this guy I've liked for a while now and he took me out on a date Saturday night. I had fun and so did he. Yesterday I thought I might as well tell him that I liked him because everyone was under the impression that he liked me--not only did he take me out, but I went over his house and met his family and he picked me up, drove me home, payed for the date (it was a dance and he bought the ticket and went through a lot of hassle so that I could come), and walked me to my house and everything. When I told him I liked him, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was having issues and was unsure. I'm just really frustrated--how come he was sending me mixed messages? I'm really angry at him for leading me on like that and tak...
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What would u do?
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 8:27 am
ok well theres this guy i work with and i thought he hated me because he never spoke to me, but turns out he has a crush on me...someone told me! and from then on it was kinda obvious. well the person who told me is like communicating between us , and she gave me his cell number and told me that he wants me to call him! but idunno i dont want to be the one to make the first move! you know? and hes the one who was intrested in me first so i think he should do something! what should i do....i want to talk to him, but not like that. Oh and the reason we cant talk at work is cause we're from different departments! thanks in advance
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whats wrong?
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 6:25 am
hey.. just a quick question..
ok ill put it in this prospective..
everytime i try to talk to my guy about 'serious' stuff, like how i feel about things, things in general, such as if hes upset me by saying or doing something without relising or just anything in general, he always goes all quiet and wierd. so now i just avoid talking to him about anything that might cause some conflict, i avoid confrentation basically. ive been with him for 7 months now, and i think were at the stage were i can tell him wat i think about things, how do i get him to open up, without me asking the questions first?
any help would be great. thanks
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Is he in love with me?!
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 2:26 am
How can you tell if your boyfriend is in love with you? Like what are the signs that he is?
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Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 2:25 am
How can you tell if someone your dating is just in the relationship to get sex?
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guy
Posted Tuesday January 30 2007, 12:35 am
hey my name is danielle and i went out iwththis guy for about 10 months. i reli loved him and we didnt end things on the best note but it was needed. he lied to me and there has always been a problem with his ex shes the reason we broke up. they got togetehr after us but now they are broken up and i reli think that i will never ever get over that its been 6 months since we have broken up and i still lvoe him i was with this other guy recently liek going out and i had to end it because iw anst beign faire to im because i loved guy #1. i dont know wat to do i reli love him and i feel we shoudl be together maybe not now but later and i kno that we both think about eachother its one of thsoe relatinships that u just know.and weve been throough ...
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