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hey my name is danielle and i went out iwththis guy for about 10 months. i reli loved him and we didnt end things on the best note but it was needed. he lied to me and there has always been a problem with his ex shes the reason we broke up. they got togetehr after us but now they are broken up and i reli think that i will never ever get over that its been 6 months since we have broken up and i still lvoe him i was with this other guy recently liek going out and i had to end it because iw anst beign faire to im because i loved guy #1. i dont know wat to do i reli love him and i feel we shoudl be together maybe not now but later and i kno that we both think about eachother its one of thsoe relatinships that u just know.and weve been throough alot and i dno. wat shoudl i do. iw ant to get over him but i cant. i cant talk to him about it because then he will feel like he has my emotions inthe palm of his hand. id ont kno wat to do
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hmmmmm...this is a toughy! i don't really know what to tell you but do what you think is right. personally though, i were you, i'd wait another 2 or 3 months just to make sure that i wasn't over guy number one, while trying to find a guy who'll treat me right. if you still like him after all of that, remember that everyone makes mistakes and maybe you two just met a road block. good luck!
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I totally understand where you're coming from. I had a boyfriend that treated me shitty but we went out for about a year and half on&off, and once we broke up he found a new girlfriend and I was crushed, and I knew I wasn't over him. I thought I never would be, I thought that I'd like him forever. I got a new boyfriend, but I knew I still had feelings for my ex. Honestly, I know it will be tough but you HAVE to move on. He isn't worth your time if he lied to you and went back to an exgirlfreind. If you don't talk to him for awhile, it really helps to get over him. I know it will be tough, but I don't really talk to my ex as much, and I'm finally getting over him. It's a long process, but after it's over you feel soo much better & you feel as though you have a huge weight lifted off of your shoulders. It may seem like you guys are meant for eachother, and don't get me wrong, you might be. But in my opinion, I think that you should move on, and wait him to come to YOU and pour his feelings out to you. He shouldn't have lied and went back to an old girlfriend. Maybe you'll get over him if you really try, and you'll finally wonder why you wasted your time hoping to get back together with him! It helps so much to move on, I can't believe I ever went out with my ex, even if it took around a year to get over him. Just give it time, and I'm sure that you can; unless he comes back to you, then maybe you should give it another shot! Hope I helped hun=], sorry if I didn't=[ GoodLuck!<33
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if he broke up with you then maybe he was just using you to make his X jelious, and if so he is not worth it. If he left you for his X then he does not really care about you and he does not deserve you to care about him either. You should find another guy who will truly care about you. If he left you once for his X what tells you that he wont do it again. If you take him back you will always be worried whether to trust him or not and that is honestly not worth it. A relationship is built on trust and if you can not trust him there is no hope.
If you still don't feel you can do that try talking to one of his friends, that you can trust, to see if he still has any feeling for you.
Hope this helped.
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